Interfaith Notes

MOVING PERMANENTLY

2009-01-01T13:01:00.001-08:00

OK, Friends, I'll put this up for the month of January and then I'm closing down on this site. Go to www.buildingjewishbridges.org to follow Jewish activities and Interfaith programming in the San Francisco Bay Area! See you soon!

Dawn Kepler
(510) 845-6420 x11
dawn@buildingjewishbridges.org

I’m culturally Jewish

2008-11-20T10:19:00.000-08:00

“I’m culturally Jewish.” Most Jews say this. What does it mean? It means different things to different people. The common thread is, “I don’t believe in God.” Let’s not even go into what “God” means; let’s jump right to what does “cultural” mean? For the non-Jewish partner this can be like a visit to a nonexistent country - a series of no statements. No God, no ritual, no prayers, no spirituality, no belonging. The non-Jewish partner may begin to believe that this means we can have an American home - but then the Jew adds some more Nos - no Christmas, no church services, no carols that include Jesus. Now “cultural” sounds stingy and flavorless.

The Jewish partner may try to explain Jewish culture. If it’s a meeting between me and the couple this is often when the Jewish partner turns to me and says, “You know, Jewish culture.”

So what the devil is “Jewish culture?” First the bad news, it comes from Jewish religion. There is no food, music, art, dance or even language that is universal to all Jews everywhere. What is universal is the religion of Judaism. BUT! Now the good news, where ever Jews went on the planet they took their religion and adapted it to the host country, creating a Jewish version of that place - i.e. Jewish culture. So you have the Jewish culture of Mexico and the Jewish culture of Morocco and so on – each with their own food, music, language, etc.

So when the Jewish partner says, “I’m culturally Jewish” there’s a lot to explore.

What country or countries does the Jew in question come from? I met a man a couple weeks ago who was born in Iran, his family moved to Israel when he was a little boy and then to the US when he was a teen. So he has multiple languages, foods, music, etc. to share with his soon to be spouse.

My sister-in-law’s family came from Tunisia. The family was expelled when her parents were young adults and fled to France. Her wedding to my Ashkenazi brother-in-law included Arab, French and American elements. The food, all kosher, was Middle Eastern at one of the banquets and French at another. Her parents speak three languages - Arabic, Hebrew, and French plus few words of English. The bridal parties included belly dancing and henna. My sister-in-law thinks American Jews eat too much “white food!” Bagels, challah and gefilte fish all horrify her. And why have a fiddle when you can use a drum?

What is YOUR Jewish culture?
Begin by exploring your roots. Most American Jews are Ashkenazi - that is, originating from Eastern Europe and from a community that spoke Yiddish. Go to the Jewish museums, music festivals, art & food fairs and find the elements that represent “Jewish” to you. That’s your Jewish culture. It will probably include Klezmer music, bagels, Yiddishisms, and images of bearded men dressed in long black coats. None of this would be culturally appropriate for my sister-in-law but it will be for the majority of American Jews.

Buy recordings of old Jewish comedians - and new/young ones. Talk about why the jokes are funny. Don’t assume that everyone gets the jokes you get. (I was at a Jewish conference a few years back and there was a Jewish comedian entertaining us. We were roaring. The young Hispanic facilities man sat by handling the sound with a placid expression. Finally the comedian turned to him after a wonderful bris joke and said, “So, you getting any of this?” “No,” smiled the man.)

Catch Jewish art exhibits when they are in town. A Chagall exhibit was in San Francisco about a year ago. Watch the paper.

There is an annual Jewish Music Festival that is managed out of the Berkeley JCC but has performances all around the bay. Check them out online at:
http://www.jcceastbay.org/jcc/jewish_music_festival.htm

The Judah L. Magnes Museum in Berkeley has rotating exhibits. Go for a visit. Get info online at: http://www.magnes.org/

Check out the new Contemporary Jewish Museum in San Francisco: www.thecjm.org

One of the easiest ways to learn is by watching a film. The fantastic San Francisco Jewish Film Festival comes every year, get a brochure or look online at: www.sfjff.org

San Jose and Contra Costa also have film festivals so you don’t have to go far from home to see a film.
Contra Costa: www.eastbayjewishfilm.org/
Silicon Valley: www.sjjff.org

Or just go rent an old film and watch it with an interpretive eye. Explain the details.
Try any Mel Brooks film -
The Producers
The Frisco Kid
The History of the World: Part one

Exodus
Fiddler on the Roof

Old black and white Yiddish films like The Dybbuk or Yidl Mitn Fidl.

Modern films from around the world.
Being Jewish in France
The Year My Parents Went on Vacation

All of these can start conversations about what it means to be Jewish, for the most part, without a religious component. Religion exists on the sides of some of these films, just the way it hovers on the side of the lives of cultural Jews.

There are some good cultural things going on right now – take a look.

EVENTS
Exhibition of Italian Ritual Objects and Manuscripts (San Francisco)
Young Family Shabbat (Redwood City)
Miriam’s Well (Berkeley)
Redwood Symphony (Los Altos)
Jewish PJ Party For Very Young Children (El Cerrito)
Interfaith Thanksgiving Eve Celebration and Pie Social (Lafayette)
Abracadabra: Jews & Magic (San Francisco)
Jewish Book Group (Redwood City)
Singing to God: Shabbat Music (Oakland)
Chopshticks (Palo Alto)

Exhibition of Italian Ritual Objects and Manuscripts
From November 3 to January 29 the Jewish Community Library will exhibit silver and brass ritual objects, facsimiles of illuminated manuscripts, ketubbot (marriage contracts), letters, and other historical documents from the Italian holdings of the Judah L. Magnes Museum.

Place: BJE Jewish Community Library, 1835 Ellis Street, San Francisco
www.bjesf.org
Call for hours and details Ph: 415.567.3327 x706

Young Family Shabbat
A Shabbat dinner for families with children. Following a brief service.

Date: Friday, November 21
Time: 6:15pm Services in the Chapel
7:00pm Dinner in the Social Hall
Place: Congregation Beth Jacob, 1550 Alameda de las Pulgas, Redwood City
Cost: Adults $14.00 each
Kids (ages 4 – 12) $9.00 each
Little kids (ages 2 – 3) $3.00 each
Please make your dinner reservation with payment to Congregation Beth Jacob office by 5:00pm on Wednesday, November 19.
www.bethjacobrwc.org

Miriam’s Well
Interweaving dance, live music, poetry and sacred text; the stories of three visionary women gather communal waters from the universal well. These stories of Mary, Maryam, and Miriam from the Christian, Muslim, and Jewish traditions illumine the commonality and interconnectedness of these three traditions through a shared story and archetype. Drawing on traditional expressive arts and ritual, as well as contemporary theater and dance technique, Miriam's Well emotionally engages the audience in a rich image of shared heritage.
Date: Saturday, November 22
Time: 8:30 pm
Place: Julia Morgan Theater, 2640 College Ave, Berkeley
Tickets: $24 in advance, $28 at the door
Advance sales tickets available through Brown Paper Tickets' 24/7 ticket hotline: 800-838-3006, or online at www.brownpapertickets.com
Created by Miriam Peretz. In collaboration with Qadim Ensemble, Ya Elah, Salokhiddin Fakhriev, Manar Azriek, Wan-Chao Chang and Hannah Romanowsky

Redwood Symphony
Come hear a rich sampling of works by Jewish composers. Osvaldo Golijov channels Klezmer to create a new musical form; Lukas Foss pays tribute to the first-known Jewish composer, Salamone Rossi; Philip Glass's Suite from The Hours; Steve Reich's Tehillim, sung in Hebrew. Pre-concert lecture at 2 p.m.

Date: Sunday, Nov. 23
Time: 2pm lecture, 3pm concert
Place: Beth Am sanctuary, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Tickets: Adult $25 ($20 in advance); Children under 16 and students with ID $10; Children 12 and under Free with adult. Advance tickets: by credit card, online only, at http://www.redwoodsymphony.org. Tickets ordered online will be held at the door. By mail, send check to Redwood Symphony, 1031 16th Ave., Redwood City, 94063 with a self addressed, stamped envelope, or ask that the paid tickets be held at the door.

Jewish PJ Party For Very Young Children
Bubbles, songs, stories, snacks. Learn about the Jewish way of welcoming the new week, Havdalah. Wear your pj's and bring a blankie or stuffed animal. FREE. For children 0-5 and their families.

Date: Nov 23
Time: 10:30am-noon
Place: Jewish Gateways, El Cerrito
For more info or to rsvp contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at 510-559-8140 or rabbibridget@jewishgateways.org.

Interfaith Thanksgiving Eve Celebration and Pie Social
Lamorinda congregations come together to give thanks in this interfaith service reflecting the many traditions represented: United Methodist, Episcopal, Lutheran, Catholic, United Church of Christ, Jewish, Baha'i, and Christian Science. A stunning procession of singers, banners and dancers will open this unique service, as Temple Isaiah calls us together with the blowing of the shofar and the Baha'i community sings a blessing over our shared space. A choir of singers from several faiths will provide special music, and liturgical dancers will embrace the community in movement. The sermon will be delivered by The Rev. Stephen McHale, Faith Formation Minister of the Episcopal Church of the Resurrection.
All are encouraged to bring a pie or dessert to share. The offering that night will benefit the Winter Nights Shelter.

Date: Wednesday, November 26
Time: 7:30 p.m.
Place: Our Savior's Lutheran Church, 1035 Carol Lane, Lafayette
Sponsored by Lamorinda Interfaith Ministerial Association
(925) 283-3722 www.oslc.net
If you want to go with Temple Isaiah members you can call Michael at the synagogue office and ask to be included with them. You can reach Michael at 925-283-8575.

Abracadabra: Jews & Magic
Both powerful and fun, the art of magic challenges the mind, stimulates the imagination and creates a bridge between illusion and reality. Join cantor, magician and historian Manny Sperling for a spellbinding afternoon of entertainment as he hosts a multimedia homage to legendary Jewish magicians from Houdini and Ballantine to Copperfield and Blaine.

Not recommended for young children.
Date: Sun, Dec 7
Time: 2:00pm
Place: JCC of San Francisco, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: $20/JCC members, $25/non-members
Call for tickets 415-292-1200.

Jewish Book Group
We meet once a month on Tuesday evenings at 7:30 for an exciting and stimulating hour of good conversation and fellowship. Everyone is welcome -- come to one session, two, or as many as you like. There are no sign-ups or memberships – just join us! Some TBJ members come even if they haven’t read the book.

Next up People of the Book by Geraldine Brooks. From Viking Books: In 1996, Hanna Heath, an Australian rare-book expert, is offered the job of a lifetime: analysis and conservation of the famed Sarajevo Haggadah, which has been rescued from Serb shelling during the Bosnian war. Priceless and beautiful, the book is one of the earliest Jewish volumes ever to be illuminated with images. The reader is ushered into an exquisitely detailed and atmospheric past, tracing the book's journey from its salvation back to its creation.

Date: Dec. 9
For time, location and other questions please call or email Jerry Brodkey at 650-917-8213 jbrodpmiler@yahoo.com.
Sponsored by Congregation Beth Jacob, 1550 Alameda de las Pulgas, Redwood City

Singing to God: Shabbat Music
In response to the question, "When do you most often feel a spiritual connection?" the most common response is, "when the cantor sings!" For many people it is the music that makes a spiritual – almost physical contact – with God.
So what if you don't know the words, don't know the tune? And what about chanting prayers? Can a Reform Jew relate to, much less experience, the meditative mantra-like chanting of davening? What is the relationship between singing and chanting?

Join Cantor Ilene Keys in a discussion of the human voice praising God. We will start with the broad concepts – prayer, praise, davening –and continue with the specifics – learning common tunes and songs of the Shabbat service.

Time: 12noon
Date: Sunday, December 14
Place: Temple Sinai Merritt Village, Merritt College, 12500 Campus Drive, off Redwood Road in Oakland (meet at the entrance of Temple Sinai's Merritt Village)
FREE

Chopshticks
Don't miss Gary Gulman of Last Comic Standing fame, performing live....at a Chinese restaurant! Help yourself to gourmet Chinese food and gut-busting comedy instead of spending the holidays alone. Chopshticks is an annual local tradition that sells out, so be sure to buy your tickets in advance.

December 24 or 25
Time: 7pm
Place: Ming’s Restaurant, 1700 Embarcadero Road, Palo Alto
Cost: $70
Contact: Boris Vladimirsky, Performing Arts and Émigré Director. Phone: 650-852-3509
e-mail: bvladimirsky@paloaltojcc.org

Sukkot: Jewish Harvest Festival

2008-10-13T22:08:00.000-07:00

Sukkot is an ancient festival originating in the Torah. Elements of it have a mysterious quality. Why is the lulav made of a palm frond, a branch of mrytle and a branch of willow? The Torah doesn't say. The Rabbis have beautiful explanations yet there remains a sense of something more, something ancient and primal.

Go to www.jholidays.org to read about the practice and meaning of Sukkot.

Want a sukkah? You can order a kit that will go up easily in your back yard. For years we had a wooden one but it got pretty weathered and beaten and we opted for a kit. This year I've enjoyed decorating it.

To Life! Jewish Street Festival

2008-10-04T21:42:00.000-07:00

The To Life Festival was held along California Ave in Palo Alto. I shared a booth with Jewish Gateways. Rabbi Bridget's able assistant, also named Dawn, took over when the rabbi left to perform a wedding. That's me on the left and Dawn Marlette on the right.

There was art work -

And food - here's the kosher honey stand -

Synagogues. I saw Beth Am of Los Altos -

Kol Emeth of Palo Alto -

And there were friends -

Welsh Warren at the booth for Volunteers for Israel. Welsh retired, gosh, quite awhile ago. He took a part-time job in a coffee shop in Oakland where for years, he served my son a hot chocolate every morning. Welsh's congregation is Beth Abraham in Oakland.

Wendy Lash was there for Coastside Jewish Community, the Renewal synagogue in Half Moon Bay. Wendy leads Spirituality workshops and performs weddings. I've included a photo of her with a couple at their wedding.

Ellen Bob of bob and bob bookstore. Long live independent bookstores! Go shop there in Los Altos. You can get a lulav and etrog there right now.
www.bobandbobjudaica.com

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Dave and Liz Bauer came by to say hello. They are on this list, members of Peninsula Temple Beth El. If you go, just sit with either of them; they are just as friendly as they look!

That's Sarah Bolder of the Progressive Jewish Alliance waving at the camera!

The Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival

My brother and sister-in-law did bike over from their house to meet me for lunch. We were eating shwarma when my brother saw an old family friend. Judy is a dear friend of my mother's. From there we wandered on up the block. I found a drape for my sukkah! It will be a big improvement over last year's stark new, white sukkah. My sister-in-law found ice cream.

I'll show you pictures of my sukkah when I get it up.

Solano Stroll Pictures

2008-10-04T20:12:00.000-07:00

Perhaps you were in the crowd...

There was a lot to see.
The synagogue booths I got pictures of were -

Temple Beth Hillel, Richmond
www.templebethhillelrichmond.org

Kol Hadash, Berkeley
www.kolhadash.org

Beth El, Berkeley - That's their membership chair, Romy standing in front. I have put some of you in touch with her.
www.bethelberkeley.org

Aquarian Minyan, Berkeley
www.aquarianminyan.org

The JCC of the East Bay was there. That's Jennifer sitting at the booth. They have an office in Berkeley and one in Oakland.
www.jcceastbay.org

Here's the Jewish Family & Children's Services Booth. Avi Rose, their director, is an amazing guy, very thoughtful and supportive of Building Jewish Bridges. They also have an office in Berkeley and one in Walnut Creek.

Rabbi Bridget Wynne of Jewish Gateways shared a booth with her colleagues, Progressive Jewish Alliance.

If you want to experience a Shabbat dinner in a relaxed atmosphere with a group of other friendly curious people, go to one of Rabbi Bridget's dinners. You can find her programs at www.jewishgateways.org.

Fall Holidays and Fairs

2008-09-09T10:04:00.000-07:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Wishing the Muslim folks on this list a Happy Ramadan!

Ramadan began on September 1. It is important to remember that our Muslim relatives and friends are celebrating an important holiday at the same time we as a nation will observe 9/11. This will be a difficult day for many who lost loved ones AND for those American citizens who are treated with unkindness and suspicion simply for being of Middle Eastern descent. We as Jews must remember that we have often been the strangers. The most repeated commandment in the Torah is to be kind to “the stranger in your midst for you were strangers.”

Let’s all make a point of seeing the best in others this week. Remember that in every faith there is a belief in love, compassion, and respect. Let’s honor this week by being the best citizens and neighbors we can be. And let’s teach our children to do the same.

Are you a New Mama of a Jewish (or maybe Jewish) Baby?
I will be starting another Welcoming Your Jewish Baby group in October. Email me if you are interested. Look at the description at www.BuildingJewishBridges.org – you’ll also see one sweet mama and her little one.

Solano Stroll - Jewish booths
I’ll be at the Solano Stroll this Sunday. They are grouping the Jewish booths together. Come by and say hello. I’m with the Jewish Coalition for Literacy folks. They offered me a chair at their booth and I accepted – I’m in favor of literacy! I tutored for 11 years in the Oakland public schools. Come see if you’d like to tutor. Or come talk to me about your interfaith relationship.

To Life! Street Festival
Then on Sunday, Sept. 21 I’ll be in Palo Alto at L’Chaim, To Life Street Festival with Rabbi Bridget Wynne of Jewish Gateways. We are two peas in a pod! Both of us do outreach, love people and are on a mission from God (just like the Blues Brothers). Our mission is to offer doorways into Jewish life - what ever you want to explore, we want to help you find it.

I’m out of town for four days, back for Shabbat on Friday
I’ll be out of town this week from Tuesday afternoon to Friday. I’ll be thinking of you all everyday as I’ll be at an Outreach to Interfaith conference - what fun! If you call or email, I’ll get back to you on Monday, Sept. 15.

I’ll be talking to you next week about finding High Holiday services if you’re unaffiliated. We’ll talk...

EVENTS
Preparing for the High Holy Days (Lafayette)
Family Shabbat Morning Service (Pleasanton)
Elul Retreat (San Mateo)
High Holy Days - Family Picnic, Walk & Talk at Baker Beach (San Francisco)
Demystifying the High Holydays (Pleasanton)
Gathering of Blessings (San Francisco)
Port Wine & Chocolate in the Sukkah (Pleasanton)
Sukkot Gatherings (Los Altos)
Demystifying Judaism (Pleasanton)
Caspian Rain: Author Talk (Walnut Creek)
Shabbat in Nature (Sunol)

Preparing for the High Holy Days
Rabbi Graetz will be offering three sessions in the month of Elul to help you prepare for the holidays. The Talmud teaches: "Four things change a person's fate, namely tzedakah, crying out, changing one's name, and changing one's conduct... and some say: changing one's place." Through text, contemplation and conversation, Rabbi Graetz will guide you in exploring how the High Holy Days can become a transformative experience.

Date: Thursdays, September 11, 18 and 25
Time: 7:15pm
Place: Temple Isaiah, 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette
Questions: Call Michael at 925-
FREE

Family Shabbat Morning Service
Family services provide an opportunity for young children to actively participate in the warmth and joy of Shabbat with their families. The service has been specially prepared by Cheryl Cohen for families with young children and children in our Religious School. The music, however, is for people of all ages and is led with great ruach and style by Josh Cohen. We strongly encourage grandparents, siblings and friends to come and pray with us. Snack is provided following the service.

Date: Saturday, September 13
Time: 10:30am – 12pm
Place: Beth Emek, 3400 Nevada Ct., Pleasanton
For more info call Cheryl Cohen at 925.931.1055 x21

Elul Retreat
Join meditation teachers Wendy Lash, Bobbi Bornstein and Laurie Williams for a 1/2 day of reflection and spaciousness to help you tap into this special time. We will begin the journey to "open the books of our lives," releasing and transforming ourselves through meditation, art and ritual.

Date: Saturday September 13
Time: 12:15 - 5 pm
Place: Peninsula Temple Beth El,1700 Alameda de las Pulgas, San Mateo
Cost is $36 for PTBE members and $46 for non-PTBE members. Scholarships are available.
To register contact Lolli Freedman at PTBE at 650.341.7701 or lfreedman@ptbe.org.
This program is generously underwritten by Or HaLev Center for Jewish Spirituality at PTBE.

High Holy Days - Family Picnic, Walk & Talk at Baker Beach
With Helena McMahon, LMFT and Rabbi Eve Ben-Ora
Discuss the meaning of the High Holy Days at beautiful Baker Beach in San Francisco. Bring a blanket and a picnic lunch - there will be activities for children 10 and under. All couples and families are welcome to attend this workshop.

Date: Sunday, September 14
Time: Noon - 2:00 pm
Place: Baker Beach in San Francisco, for more information contact the San Francisco JCC at (415) 292-1200.
Cost: $10/couple

Demystifying the High Holydays
As part of our S’lichot observance, Rabbi Winer will present this preparatory practice leading into the High Holyday season. Everyone is invited to continue with further study and worship throughout the evening. Please join us for this opportunity to explore and better understand the Days of Awe before Rosh Hashanah, which begins on Monday evening, September 29.

Date: Sat., Sept. 20
Time: 7 to 8:15pm
Place: Beth Emek, 3400 Nevada Ct., Pleasanton
Info: 925.931.1055

Gathering of Blessings
Honoring the Jewish Community Relations Council
At its annual Gathering of Blessings interfaith celebration, the Interfaith Center at the Presidio will honor the Jewish Community Relations Council of the Bay Area as a "Bay Area Interfaith Treasure." The celebration will include stories, prayers, blessings, and music honoring partnerships that provide support to build bridges of peace and service among religions, here at home and around the world.

Date: Sunday, October 5
Time: Reception 4:30 pm; ceremony 5:30 pm.
Place: Interfaith Chapel, Presidio of San Francisco, 130 Fisher Loop.
Free event.

Port Wine & Chocolate in the Sukkah
Are you 21 or older? Then you are invited for a sophisticated evening under the stars showcasing Fine Livermore Valley Port and dessert wines poured for your tasting enjoyment. Wines paired with decadent chocolates & cheeses. Hot beverages and other sweet delights.

Date: Sat., Oct. 18
Time: 7:30 to 10pm
Place: Congregation Beth Emek, 2400 Nevada Ct., Pleasanton
Cost: $20 per person ($10 for no-alcohol admission)
RSVP to Sharon Cohen at 925-931-1055 x11
Mail check to Beth Emek.

Sukkot Gatherings
This year's Sukkot Gatherings will bring together Beth Am members and friends toschmooze, eat, relax and meet new friends in sukkot at members’ homes. To attend, please RSVP on the Beth Am website, and we’ll match you up with a Sukkot gathering in your neighborhood.

Date: Sunday, Oct. 19
Time: 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm
Place: Homes around Los Altos Hills
For information call or e-mail: Lori Shaffer at shaffer.family@comcast.net or 650-494-7008 or Diana Friedman at friedx4@pacbell.net or 650-965-2265
Last year I think it was Lori Shaffer that I called to ask how non-members could participate. She was excited that non-members would be interested and said to have them call her. If you want to go, either call and get a spot or, if you feel shy, call me and I’ll get you a spot. But call me NEXT week as I’m going to be out of town from Tuesday thru Friday this week.

Demystifying Judaism --
Everything You Ever Wanted to Know about Judaism but Were Afraid to Ask…Beginning in September, Rabbi Richard Winer will present a year-long course on “Demystifying Judaism” – for newly-engaged Jews, lifelong learners and those who haven’t cracked a book since b’nai mitzvah, for Jews-by-choice and Jews-by-birth and everyone in between, for non-Jewish spouses and the Jews who love them, and for anyone who has a question about Jewish ritual, practice, faith or religion.
Rabbi Winer will present this class once a month. Bagels, coffee and orange juice will be provided.

Dates: Sundays beginning Oct. 19
October 19: Demystifying Torah
November 16: Demystifying Worship I
January 11: Demystifying Worship II
February 22: Demystifying the Jewish Holidays -- a Jewish Holiday Primer
March 15: Demystifying Passover
Time: 10:30 – 11:45am
Place: Beth Emek, 3400 Nevada Ct., Pleasanton
FREE
Info: 925.931.1055
You can register for “Demystifying Judaism” on-line at www.bethemek.org or drop in and join us as often as you can during the year. There is no charge for this class.

Caspian Rain: Author Talk
“Chai Tea” is back again, so join us for gourmet teas, great desserts and a lively book discussion with Gina Nahai, author of Caspian Rain. Nahai, who herself left Iran as a teen, offers a rare glimpse into the life of Iranian Jews. This is a compelling novel about class pressures, life under the Shah and what happened to Iranian society after the Khomeini Islamic revolution.

Date: Thursday, October 23
Time: 3:00 pm
Place: Contra Costa JCC, 2071 Tice Valley Blvd., Walnut Creek
For more information call Riva Gambert at the East Bay Jewish Federation (510) 839-2900 x253
Co-sponsor: Temple Isaiah Book Group

Shabbat in Nature
Come and Enjoy a Glorious Autumn
Those who contemplate the beauty of the earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life lasts. -- Rachel Carson
Participate in any or all of the following:
Minyan starting at 10:30 a.m. led by Rabbi Dana Magat and Canter Intern Meeka Simerly
Lots of singing (bring your instrument!)
Potluck lunch and discussion
Walk to (paved road) and around “Little Yosemite” – appropriate for all ages – or any of the wonderful trails
It’s your Shabbat!!

Date: Saturday, Oct. 25
Time: 10am
Place: Sunol Regional Park

No RSVP Necessary
For Info call Ginny at (408) 993-1139; email ginandbrad@gmail.com or
Nancy at (650) 694-4604; email nancyweintraub@sbcglobal.net

Directions: Go south on 280 which becomes 680 north. Continue on 680 and exit at Calaveras Road in Sunol (do not take the Calaveras exit in Milpitas). Turn right on Calaveras and proceed to Geary Road (watch carefully). Turn left on Geary; Geary leads directly into the park. Drive until you get to the toll booth. Bring $5 for entrance fee ($2 extra per dog). Continue through and drive straight until the road forks. Go left towards the picnic area. With the creek running on the left, drive to the last parking area you see before the road empties into a large lot. The cars will be on the right side of the road – look for a car with a sign in the back window – TEE – and park. You will see the picnic tables and the group on the left side of the road. The site is very accessible and is a very short easy stroll from the parking area. See map on back. For more about the park, go to http://www.ebparks.org/parks/sunol.
This event is sponsored by Temple Emanu-El in San Jose.
The was sent to me by Ginny with the message to invite everyone. Looks like a gorgeous day is planned!

Getting Connected

2008-09-07T13:13:00.000-07:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Getting Connected
This last week I made a series of calls to see how folks were doing. One person said, I just use your list of events, Dawn. I go and I participate.

Not everyone can do that. Several others told me different stories.
I don’t really like to go into a crowd where I don’t know anyone.
Our congregation is nice, but we haven’t really made friends yet.
I wish I could talk to someone one-on-one.

I confess, I’m the same way. I’m a people person. I prefer to go places with a friend. I like to have someone I know to sit next to, eat lunch with, go to the museum or park or movie. If you are trying to connect in a congregation, call me. After all these years at this job I know someone just about everywhere. I think it’s easier if you go to services with a potential friend. Maybe go out for lunch or coffee so you can talk about what it is you hope to find at the congregation.

One young woman told me that all she needed was that first family to sit with. They introduced her to a couple people. “The second time I went, I saw someone I already knew!”

You may not feel a connection in just two visits, but that’s OK, maybe you’ll go with a few different potential friends.

Gala Fundraiser for the East Bay JCC
The Jewish Community Center has always been a terrific place to go for interfaith families. The programs are inviting and diverse. I make it a policy NOT to put expensive events on this eletter and I avoid fundraisers unless they are mostly FUN. That said, I’m worried about the East Bay JCC and want it to continue. So if you love having fun, supporting a good cause, consider joining them for their benefit event.

The JCC’s primary programs are for YOUNG CHILDREN and SENIORS. You were once young and God willing, you’ll be old. These are two parts of our population that we are commanded to care for - no matter what your religion. If you have no religion, then I suspect you do it because you are a good person, plain and simple.

The fundraiser will be taking place on Sunday, September 14th at 5:30 at Temple Beth El in North Berkeley (Oxford between Rose and Eunice). To buy tickets ($100 or $75 for younger adults and preschool parents), call the JCC at (510) 848-0237, ext. 118 or visit the link from the JCC website at www.jcceastbay.org. There will be games (casino and non-casino options too), tapas, and libations. It will be lots of fun - they promise!

Is anyone a member of Peninsula Temple Beth El in San Mateo? If you are, please email me at dawn@BuildingJewishBridges.org. I have a very unique issue that I need some help with. If you’re a multi-cultural or multi-racial couple, that would be extra good.

EVENTS
Picnic Fest (Oakland)
Jewish Meditation Sitting Group (San Mateo)
What do non-Jews want to know about Judaism? (San Francisco)
Preparing for the High Holidays (Lafayette)
Can Jews Who Don't Believe in Bible Stories Still Believe in God? (El Cerrito)
Young Family Shabbat Service (Los Altos)
Third Fridays Shabbat (San Rafael)

Picnic Fest
Pack a lunch and settle in for a performance by MOSHAV BAND; grab a glass for tasting some HAGAFEN WINES; and bring the kids for an animal show, face painting and puppetry.

While just about every Jewish organization will have a booth, make sure to stop by the LGBT Alliance booth, eat some wedding cake and learn about what the Jewish community is doing to stop Prop 8!

And it wouldn't be PicnicFest without free ice cream and beer! Please join us and a thousand of your neighbors at the East Bay's liveliest event.

Date: Sunday, September 7
Time: 11am to 4pm
Place: Joaquin Miller Park in Oakland

Jewish Meditation Sitting Group
Join us for the opening evening of the fifth year of Jewish meditation at Peninsula Temple Beth El. We are in the Or HaLev meditation room which is behind the bimah in the sanctuary. The evening will consist of two sits with a short teaching about the month of Elul in between. This meditation sitting group is ongoing and have four teachers who rotate. It periodically does not meet, due to Monday holidays and other scheduling conflicts at the temple, so if you are interested in being on the mailing list to be notified each week of the following week's sit, please email Lolli Freedman at lfreedman@ptbe.org to get on our mailing list. FREE.

Date: Monday September 8
Time: 7 - 8:15 pm
Place: Peninsula Temple Beth El, 1700 Alameda do las Pulgas, San Mateo
Wendy Lash is leading the opening evening. If you go, please tell her hello from me.

What do non-Jews want to know about Judaism?
--good answers to typical questions
Tea and Talk with Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe
Do your non-Jewish friends sometimes ask you questions about the Jewish faith? Jewish holidays? Do you sometimes feel you would like to have more concise answers?
Come to hear Rabbi Jaffe field questions and provide answers. Feel free to bring any questions you have gotten.

Date: Wednesday, Sept. 10
Time: 1:00 pm
Place: Congregation Emanu-el, in the Martin Meyer Reception Room, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
RSVP to Frana at 415-751-2535.

Preparing for the High Holidays
Prepare is in the midst of community! Rabbi Graetz will be offering three sessions in the month of Elul to help you prepare for the holidays. The Talmud teaches: "Four things change a person's fate, namely tzedakah, crying out, changing one's name, and changing one's conduct... and some say: changing one's place." Through text, contemplation and conversation, Rabbi Graetz will guide you in exploring how the High Holy Days can become a transformative experience.

Dates: Thursdays, September 11, 18 and 25
Time: 7:15pm.
Place: Temple Isaiah, Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette
For more information you can call Michael at (925) 283-8575.
Rabbi Graetz is one of those people you can’t help but fall in love with. He is from Argentina, speaks a bunch of languages, is charming and warm, also caring and brilliant. Go & enjoy. (Feel free to give him my love.)

Can Jews Who Don't Believe in Bible Stories Still Believe in God?
Maybe God didn't really part the Red Sea . . . or save Noah and his Ark. . . does that mean there is no God Jews can believe in? Join us to explore these questions, We will share a delicious, no-experience-necessary Shabbat dinner, eat, laugh, and learn. All are welcome.

Date: Friday, September 12.
Time: 6:15pm
Place: Jewish Gateways' cozy home near El Cerrito Plaza and BART station
Childcare: available by reservation
Space is limited, so RSVP is required.
Please contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at Jewish Gateways,?(510) 559-8140, or email rabbibridget@jewishgateways.org, for more information, and to make a reservation and get directions and your food assignment. If your schedule doesn't allow you to bring a dish to share, we offer you the option of contributing $7 toward the dinner.

Young Family Shabbat Service
This fun and interactive half-hour service is geared toward families with children ages 3 months to 6 years. Snack is provided following the service, as well as a special arts and crafts activity and time on the playground.

Dates: Saturdays, join us on Sept. 13 and 27
Time: 9:30am
Place: The Chapel at Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
For more information call 650-493-4661

Third Fridays Shabbat
Starting in September, we are lifting up the Third Friday, 8 pm Shabbat service, to become a more traditional Rodef Sholom service, moving and inspiring, centered around sophisticated Jewish music and deep Jewish learning. We will be featuring guest speakers and adult-only dinners throughout the year. We are beginning with Dan Nichols, our artist-in-residence, on September 19. The oneg that follows will be sponsored by Women of Rodef Sholom.

Date: Friday, Sept. 19
Time: 8pm
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 N. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
For more info call (415) 479-3441
www.rodefsholom.org

Little Kids, Little Problems - Big Kids, Big Problems

2008-08-24T17:04:00.000-07:00

My daughter calls me “Mama” when she’s feeling especially affectionate or especially upset. So when I picked up the phone at 6am Sunday morning and heard, “Mama?” I knew things were not OK. Elly is in Israel on a Taglit - Birthright* trip and her credit card had been frozen. Despite my calls to the US bank they couldn’t do anything that I asked, nor could they take a call from a cell phone - Catch 22. It had been four days of trying and I was finished. Time to call the big guns. Tali Lipschitz runs the Let’s Go Israel trip** for bay area teens; she’s Israeli and knows how to travel with American kids. I called her and explained the situation.

“OK,” she said, “I’ll call you back.” I waited. Fifteen minutes later the phone rang.

“Hi, Dawn,” came her cheery voice, “you just needed a little Israeli chutzpah.” She had contacted the trip organizer and arranged for them to receive money I would wire to Israel. She walked me through my end of it. DONE!

What does this have to do with interfaith?

My daughter is 22 years old. Mothers of 45 year olds have told me, “Your kids grow up but they are still your children. You will always care. You will always worry.”

Mothers and fathers need a network, a community. If you’re in an interfaith relationship you need a unique network, one that addresses the specific issues and events that will occur to you because you are in an interfaith relationship. You need someone who “gets it.” Someone who cuts through the verbiage, who sees the core issue – and “the issue” may have NOTHING to do with religion. You need someone to help you sort that out. Many of you have turned to me or one of my colleagues with your questions. I’m here for you - always - but like Tali, I hope to help you made a connection.

And what about making a connection?
It’s almost September, almost High Holidays, almost time to ask-

Will we go to services?
If we will, then where will we go?
Are we looking for a single event experience or an ongoing relationship?
Are we looking to be part of a community as a couple?
Will we have kids that we want to bring into a community?

Call me if you want to talk about any of this, or anything else that is on your mind.

Dawn
510-663-8350

*Taglit Birthright Israel is a trip for young Jewish adults up to age 26. It is free. Check the website for how to qualify. website at www.birthrightisrael.org

**Let’s Go Israel is a bay area trip for teens. About a hundred kids who are entering high school juniors go each year. Families from the East bay, Sacramento and Silicon Valley should call Tali about next summer’s trip at 510-839-2900 x255. Families from Sonoma, along the coast to Palo Alto should call Gabi at the Bureau of Jewish Education at 415-751-6983 x123. Teens from all over the bay area are accepted into the program. www.letsgoisrael.org

I'll see you at the Movies!

2008-08-06T21:18:00.000-07:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

I am meeting some of you on Saturday night for the film, Strangers, at 8:15pm at the Roda Theater at Berkeley Rep, on Addison Street. If you suddenly decide to come along, email me soon and let me know. I will be busy all day on Friday - my brother is getting married!! Congratulate me! I’m so happy!
Then I’m going to visit my oldest friend in the world for a week and I’ll “see” you back here in the week of Aug. 18.
–Dawn

A summer holy day
This Saturday night is Tisha B’av. It is a memorial day, a day to remember and mourn for multiple destructions that have befallen the Jewish people. The first historically, is the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. You can read a full description of the holiday at:
www.Jholidays.org

You can read a personal reflection on the day and how it compares to Yom Kippur by Rabbi Menachem Creditor of Netivot Shalom at:
http://docs.google.com/View?docid=dcp43hhw_156vpds7fc7

It may not be easy to be Jewish in America but I think it is harder to be Muslim. Because of that I am including an event that has nothing to do with being an interfaith couple, but has to do with creating community for Muslims in America. For those of you in Jewish - Muslim relationships perhaps this is something that would be supportive and useful --

American Muslim Voice Open House
The American Muslim Voice Foundation cordially invites you to a dinner party and to be a part of our Miracle Movement of Friendship. AMV Foundation enjoys the success that our simple approach to community building yields, but our greatest assets are the lasting friendships, coalitions and alliances we have made in our efforts to bridge the gap between all communities.

We will provide a traditional Pakistani dinner, multicultural interaction, kids' activity and cultural experiences. Feel free to invite family, friends and neighbors, and just bring an open mind, an appetite, a few chairs and your special dessert or side dish.

Date: Saturday, August 23
Time: 5:30-8:30 pm
Place: Home of Samina Sundas, 120 Park Avenue, Palo Alto. Bring dessert or side dish.
To learn more about who we are and what we do, we invite you to visit www.amuslimvoice.org.

Jews Rock! A Celebration of Rock and Roll's Jewish Heritage
Photo Exhibit
Jews Rock! presents key Jewish rock ‘n roll icons — musicians, songwriters and promoters—through the award - winning photographs of photojournalist Janet Macoska and behind-the scenes anecdotes of the Jewish influences in their rise to stardom. Stars include Paula Abdul, Bob Dylan and many, many more.

Gallery Hours
October 18 - November 28, 2008
Monday - Friday, 10:00 am – 4:00 pm
Contra Costa Jewish Community Center
2071 Tice Valley Blvd.
Walnut Creek, CA 94595
For More Information
Judith Markowitz, 925-938-7800 ext. 256 or judithm@ccjcc.org

Preschool Time!
Is it true?
Is summer almost over?
We've been having so much fun with Camp that the time has just flown. We're willing to bet it has been that way for you too, but we don't want you to miss your chance to sign up for preschool. There are still a few spots open at the Contra Costa JCC Preschool.
For information or to register call Barbara Chotiner at (925)938-7800 x225 or e-mail barbarac@ccjcc.org

EVENTS
A Family Picnic Shabbat Dinner (Palo Alto)
Tisha B'Av - Film, Discussion (Los Altos)
SOMAnu-El Shabbat Service (San Francisco)
Not Your Same Old Bagels Gourmet Brunch (Berkeley)
Jewish Heritage Night at the S.F.Giants (San Francisco)
The Meaning of the Talit (Berkeley)

A Family Picnic Shabbat Dinner
Leave the busy work week behind to welcome Shabbat in the company of family and friends!
Enjoy a summer evening picnic, explore the story of Israel's history as told through beautiful Independence Day posters, and create your own visual family commentary!
ALL ARE WELCOME!
Bring a picnic dinner for your family--we'll supply challah, grape juice & dessert!

Date: Friday, August 8
Time: 5:45 – 7:30pm
Fee: $5.00 per person in advance, $8.00 per person at the door (Not to exceed $20/$32 per family)
Place: Cubberley Community Center, Greendell Campus,4000 Middlefield Road, Building R, Palo Alto
REGISTER AT www.paloaltojcc.org or contact Jane-Rachel Schonbrun at (650) 852-3502 or jschonbrun@paloaltojcc.org

Tisha B'Av - Film, Discussion
Beth Am’s commemoration of Tisha B’Av will take place on Saturday. We will screen the film, Jeremiah , starring Patrick Dempsey and Oliver Reed, that recounts the life of the prophet, Jeremiah, who witnessed the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. Following the film, Rabbi Marder will lead a discussion and study session about the meaning of Tisha B’Av.

Date: Aug. 9
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
For more information call: 650-493-4661
www.betham.org

SOMAnu-El Shabbat Service
Live on Potrero Hill, in Noe Valley, the Castro, Bernal Heights, SOMA, the Mission or south of San Francisco? Many of our members do! That's why we offer a service on the fourth Friday of the month at the Potrero Hill Neighborhood House. This upbeat, musical service - perfect for those of all ages. Join us!

Date: Aug. 22
Time: 6pm
Place: Potrero Hills Neighorhood House, 953 DeHaro Street at Southern Heights
Sponsored by Congregation Emanu-el, call them for more information at 415-

Have Dinner After the SOMAnu-El Service
Stay each month after the service for a delicious Mediterranean feast. This is a perfect way to get to know better other SOMAnu-El families in your area. Register at:
http://www.emanuelsf.org/register.
Cost: $10 for adults, $5 for children.
PLEASE RESERVE AHEAD so that we know how much food to order; otherwise we may not be able to accommodate you that night. To be added to the SOMAnu-El Google group, please e-mail Mollie Schneider, mschneider@emanuelsf.org

Not Your Same Old Bagels Gourmet Brunch
You are cordially invited to a fun and casual opportunity to get to know our Beth El Family.
• Gourmet dairy brunch
• Tours of our beautiful new building
• Fun activities for children
• Learn about the many opportunities for inspiring worship, lifelong learning, social action,
community and fun Beth El offers
• This event is FREE to all. Invite your friends and neighbors!

Date: Sunday, August 24
Time: 10:00am
Place: Beth El, 1301 Oxford Street, Berkeley
Please RSVP in order to ensure abundant food, drinks and seating for everyone!
Reservations: Please call Lenora O'Keith in the Beth El office at 510-848-3988 x211.

Jewish Heritage Night at the S.F.Giants
Enjoy a San Francisco Giants game on "Jewish Heritage Night," Aug. 25, 7:15 p.m, AT&T Park, San Francisco. Lots of people are going. I’ll be with Shalom Bayit, an organization that fights domestic violence. Many organizations are taking groups. Here’s one that you can tag along with:
The Albert L. Schultz JCC is selling tickets for the annual Jewish Heritage Night, as the Giants take on the defending National League Champion Colorado Rockies. Bring friends, family; with tickets ($20 each) purchased from ALS JCC you get a special scarf to keep you warm at the game.

Date: Aug. 25
Time: 7:15pm
Place: AT&T Park in San Francisco
Call the JCC at (650) 493.9400 if you want to go along.

The Meaning of the Talit: "And you shall see it"
Lecture with Rabbi Yosef Leibowitz
Followed by Havdalah
Rabbi Leibowitz is a true Torah scholar and a dynamic, thoughtful speaker. He is the founder and Director of the Yad Yaakov Fund for Jewish Education, and presently teaches in the Haifa University Overseas Program. Rabbi Leibowitz lives is Kfar Saba, Israel where he is a community Rabbi. He received his ordination from Yeshiva University and his Ph.D. from the University of California in Berkeley. Please join us, all are welcome!

Date: Saturday, August 30
Time: 5:30pm
Place: Beth El, 1301 Oxford St., Berkeley
For more info call 510-848-3988.
www.bethelberkeley.org

What to do in August

2008-08-05T23:09:00.000-07:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

I pulled names out of the hat and drew out the winners who have been notified. If you are coming to dinner and the movie with us on THIS SATURDAY in Berkeley at the Jewish Film Festival we are seeing STRANGERS at 8:15pm. Buy your ticket! I’ve asked a member of this list who is a restaurant professional to recommend someplace to eat – not to pricey. Email me if you are coming to dinner with us!!
Dawn@buildingJewishBridges.org

August time
August is here and that always signals the end of summer. That means you have just about a month to do some shopping around if you want to join a synagogue this fall. If you want a buddy to go with you, just email me. I’ll set it up – I have friends everywhere.

Why look for a synagogue?
Because there can never be too many people looking out for you. I told you that I would ask my synagogue’s women’s group to bake with me for my nephew in Iraq. I did. Some came to my house, some delivered cookies. Some gave me sheets to sent to his unit (they don’t have enough), some brought me tuna packs and cup-of-soup. Some just sat and chatted. I got comfort, my nephew got eight boxes of goodies. My friends did a mitzvah. Win-win-win.

Can we understand why we are here?
Packing those boxes made me wonder, what should I be doing? Should I quit my job and devote myself to ending war on the planet? Should I fly to Texas to take care of his young wife and baby? Just why am I here? I don’t have an answer but I got some help from Rabbi Larry Raphael’s comments on last week’s Torah Portion, Masei. What he said is eternal so I am sharing it with you:

Tradition provides ways to arrange and understand our lives, which can often be understood through the struggles and successes of our predecessors. Gradually we watch as out of our own deeds a design emerges.

Kierkegaard writes that life must be lived forward but can only be understood backward. To put the insight differently, we might recall the poignant words of Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, who writes that God speaks slowly in our lives, a syllable at a time; not until we reach the end of life can we read the sentences backward. Judaism offers us a way to understand God's words in our lives so that they are meaningful, even eloquent.

You can speak to Rabbi Raphael yourself if you go to services at Sherith Israel in San Francisco. Or you can email him at rabbiraphael@sherithisrael.org.
www.sherithisrael.org

Read to your kids with PJ Library
The Jewish Federations are distributing free of charge, age-appropriate Jewish-content books and music on a monthly basis to families with children from 6 months to age 5½. I love this program! Reading to children improves everything - their reading skills, their bonding with you, their listening and learning skills. Go for it!
To sign up for this free service --
In the West Bay call Gail Green at 415-777-4545
In the East Bay sign up online at: http://63.151.43.13/pjlibrary/index.html

Looking for a Jewish Humanistic Education for your Child in the Fremont area?
Registration is now open for Jewish Culture School, a non-religious Jewish Sunday School sponsored by the Tri-Valley Cultural Jews. Jewish Culture Schools meets two Sundays a month and is open students from 5 - 13. Students from non-traditional and mixed-culture families are welcome.
Jewish Culture School concentrates on a sense of community based on family, history, culture and progressive social action. In a hands-on interactive curriculum, students learn songs in Hebrew, Yiddish and English, folk dance, and cook Jewish food from various countries and times in history.
To register for Jewish Culture School or obtain more information about TVCJ, please call (925) 485-1049 or e-mail JCS@Tri-ValleyCulturalJews.org.

Events
Tot Shabbat (Oakland)
Family Shabbat Service and Potluck Dinners (San Francisco)
Young Family Services (Los Altos)
Tisha B'av Ritual (Piedmont)
Ashkenaz and In Search of the Bene Israel (San Francisco)
The Chuppah and Beyond-for Engaged and Newly-Married Couples (San Francisco)
Erev Shabbat Dinner and Musical Service (Walnut Creek)
Let’s Go out to the Ballgame! (Oakland)
Love is Law? A Glimpse into Jewish Tradition (Berkeley)
Rebirthing the Divine: a Journey to Kabalah (Berkeley)
Sunday Play Days with Kindergym and Dawn Margolin (Oakland)
3rd Annual Hazon Food Conference (Monterey, CA)

Tot Shabbat
Welcome in Shabbat with singing and story telling. Babies, toddlers, kids, moms, dads and grandparents are invited to this fun filled service. Tot Shabbats are held on the second Friday of each month.
Date: Friday, August 8
Time: 6:30pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
for more information call Gabby at 510-451-3263.

Family Shabbat Service and Potluck Dinners
Shabbat Services at 6pm.
Two potlucks to choose from:
Before Services at 5pm in Newman Hall -
for families with children 5 and under
After Services at 7pm in Newman Hall -
for all Shabbat Services attendees and children
Please don't bring any dishes with pork or shellfish, but feel free to bring a bottle of wine to share.

Date: Friday, August 8
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California St., San Francisco
For more information contact Nancy Sheftel-Gomes at nsgomes@sherithisrael.org or 415-346-1720 ext 28.

Young Family Services
This fun and interactive half-hour service is geared toward families with children ages 3 months to 6 years. Snack is provided following the service, as well as a special arts and crafts activity and time on the playground.

Dates: Saturday mornings, August 9 & 23
Time: 9:30 am.
Place: Chapel at Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
For more information call: 650-493-4661
www.betham.org

Tisha B'av Ritual
Led jointly by Kehilla, Aquarian Minyan, and Chochmat HaLev
Join us to create sacred space and journey into Tisha B'av, a day that commemorates tragedies past and present, allowing us to explore both our sorrows and our hope through the Hebrew and English chanting of Lamentations. Read more about the day at:
http://www.chochmat.org/1_events.shtml

Date: Saturday, August 9
Time: 7:45-10pm
Place: Kehilla Community Synagogue, 1300 Grand Ave., Piedmont
For more information call 510-547-2424

Ashkenaz and In Search of the Bene Israel
San Francisco Jewish Film Festival
Israel, 2007, 72 min. Color, Hebrew, English, Yiddish w/Eng. subtitles
Ashkenaz, a pithy but panoramic view of Israel’s “white” Jews, undermines any preconceived notions of Jewish ethnicity. Director Rachel Leah Jones, a Berkeley native, flits from experts and scholars to just plain folks to reveal a non-homogeneous Ashkenazi population seen through the eyes of Ashkenazi and Mizrahi Israelis. It’s a fascinating study in diversity within a single word.
Followed by In Search of Bene Israel, about Jews in India.

Date: Sun, Aug 10
Time: 3:00pm
Place: JCC of San Francisco, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Co-presented by Congregation Sherith Israel and 3rd I San Francisco International South Asian Film Festival (SFISAFF)
For tickets and more information call 925-275-9490 or our website: www.sfjff.org.

The Chuppah and Beyond-for Engaged and Newly-Married Couples
Are you engaged to be married? Are you recently married?
CAFE Emanu-El (Community and Family Education) presents...
"The Chuppah and Beyond," a six week series for engaged or newly married couples. We are providing you with a great opportunity to meet other couples and share Jewish traditions together. Facilitated by our Family Programs Coordinator, Leslie Ticktin, and our Congregation Emanu-El Clergy, these classes will help you enhance your communication, learn the principles of good financial planning, and develop the necessary skills to foster a long, happy, loving relationship. Join us as we help you plan your future together!

Dates: Six Thursdays beginning Aug. 14
Time: 7 to 9pm
Place: Emanu-El, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
Cost per couple for the 6-week series is $48 for non-members.
If you are interested in learning more, please send an email with your names, wedding date (if you have one), phone number and mailing address to Leslie Ticktin at lticktin@emanuelsf.org .

Erev Shabbat Dinner and Musical Service
Contemporary & Inspirational Melodies with Musical Accompaniment. Dinner Reservations Required so we’ll know how much to make. All Welcome!
Dairy Oneg (reception) following the service

Date: Friday, August 15
Time: Dinner 6:15 p.m. .. Service 7:30 p.m.
Place: B’nai Shalom, 74 Ecley Lane, Walnut Creek
Cost: Adults $5/person, Children 12 & under FREE
RSVP by Aug. 11 – Call 925-934-9446 or email office@bshalom.org
Ph: 925-934-9446 .. www.bshalom.org

Let’s Go out to the Ballgame!
Join the guys of Temple Sinai’s men’s group for their annual outing to an A's Game will be on Sunday afternoon, August 17, 2008, at 1:05 against the Chicago White Sox led by former A's Jermaine Dye and Nick Swisher.
We've arranged for seats in Sections 209/210 (wheelchair friendly). Tickets are a mere $16 each.
While brought to you by the Brotherhood, this event is open to the community. Free peanuts!

Date: Sunday, Aug. 17
Time: 1:05pm
Place: Oakland Coliseum
Cost: your ticket costs $16
Please let Barry Dubin know how many tickets you would like. You may e-mail him at bdubin@cwclaw.com or call him at (415) 765-6252 (W) or (510) 658-9265 (H).

Love is Law? A Glimpse into Jewish Tradition
with Rabbi Creditor
Deeper than the details of Jewish living is the spiritual heart of Jewish community. How do the details point back to the heart? What does authority mean for a modern Jewish community? How can someone learn to belong to a community with so much history and so many interwoven stories? Is there still such a thing as "Jewish Law" today? This class will include conversation and gudied learning for participants.

No Hebrew/Jewish background necessary - Jews and those curious about Judaism are welcome!

Dates: August 19, 26; Sept. 2, 9
Time: 7:45-9pm
Place: Congregation Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley
Cost: A suggested $30 materials fee would be appreciated.
Please register through the Netivot Shalom office at office@netivotshalom.org or 510.549.9447 x101.

Rebirthing the Divine: a Journey to Kabalah
with Genine BarEl
In an original and powerful performance Genine BarEl takes audiences on a spiritual and emotional journey as she pursues a deeper connection to herself and her heritage. From New York to India to Israel - seeking wisdom but finding a husband (even better!) - Genine finally comes to rest in the holy city of Tsfat, raising a family and birthing herself as a woman and mother, a receptacle for the divine. Through story-telling and song, the audience travels with Genine on a poignant, touching and often humorous passage from Jewish American Princess to “woman of valor.”

Date: Wednesday, August 27
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: Chochmat HaLev, 2215 Prince St., Berkeley
for more information call 510.704.9687

Sunday Play Days with Kindergym and Dawn Margolin
Sunday Play Days are for ALL children (and a parent or caregiver) ages 9 months to 3 years old. A sibling in that age group is welcome for no extra charge; the cost is $10 per family. The class is in a large room filled with tons of wonderful equipment, all matted. We have lots of slides and climbers, a big ball pit, rocking horses, crazy coupe cars, a see-saw, several little push cars for beginning walkers, a trampoline and more. We have 1 hour of unstructured fun on all of the wonderful equipment, then snack, songs, parachute play and bubbles for the last half hour.

Dates: September 7 and November 2
Time: 10:30am-12noon
Place: Temple Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland
Check our website for class info at www.tbaoakland.org/kindergym
Contact Dawn Margolin at 510-547-7726
You will love Dawn! Everyone does, especially little ones. Go look at her website.

3rd Annual Hazon Food Conference
Held at the Asilomar Conference and Retreat Center on the Monterey Peninsula. Along the white sand beaches and forests of the Monterey Peninsula, the Jewish food community will gather to celebrate and explore how we make food choices in light of our tradition and contemporary life.
The Hazon Food Conference experience will cover interests from health and sustainability to food justice and Jewish tradition.
Join hundreds of others from North America and Israel as this group of young, not so young, singles, couples, families, rabbis, farmers, educators, chefs, writers, students and enthusiasts gathers to celebrate Chanukah, Shabbat, and the new Jewish food movement. To register or find out more about the Hazon Food Conference, visit http://www.hazon.org/foodconference.

Date: Dec. 25 - 28

Jewish Community For Kids + Shavuot

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Kids at the JCC East Bay

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Last week I talked about Jewish community as a bit if an oddity sandwiched in side American culture. If you put on your anthropology hat and look at the many cultures that you encounter everyday it all begins to make sense. But for a child it’s not so clear. Kids’ brains are still growing. They don’t understand all the nuances that you do. They learn by experience that which you may learn through words. If you want to give them an experience of Jewish community - why not try camp?

Jewish Community for Kids
Summer brings a terrific opportunity for children -- SUMMER CAMP!
Camp offers something that is rarely experienced in America - Jewish emersion. Doing Jewish all day! I have had adults from interfaith families tell me that camp is one of their happiest memories. It’s where it all comes together and you just get to BE.

Do kids from Jewish - Jewish parents say it’s terrific too? Sure. I just want to assure you that kids from multicultural, interfaith families feel right at home.

Occasionally a parent will tell me that they want to be sure their child experiences the diversity of American culture and doesn’t grow up thinking that there are only Jewish people. Unless you live in Crown Heights – no worries. Is your child allowed to walk around your neighborhood? Watch TV? Listen to the radio? This is Christian America - even if much of it is not religious, it is a Christian culture.

So don’t be afraid to give your child a taste of Jewish life. At camp they will observe a rousing Shabbat with songs, dancing, food. They’ll have a Jewish flavor to all their activities AND it will still be camp – kids hiking, swimming, making things from wood and clay.

What Camps are Out There?
All around the bay there are summer camps getting underway this month.

The JCC of the East Bay has:

Camp Tzofim
Our Oakland-based summer camp starts up June 23. In our summer program kids-ranging from those entering kindergarten to tenth graders-explore nature, make friendships and engage in arts, sports, and social activities. Our camp also emphasizes Jewish culture, designating a Jewish topic each week, around which camp activities and projects are based.
Contact camp director Josh Kramer at joshk@jcceastbay.org or 510.530.9222 for more information about Camp Tzofim.

Other JCCs around the bay are:
Albert L. Schultz Jewish Community Center, Palo Alto
Osher Marin JCC, Marin
Peninsula JCC, Foster City
San Francisco JCC
JCC of Silicon Valley, San Jose

An example of a regional sleep away camp is:
Camp Tawonga
Office: 131 Steuart Street, San Francisco,CA 94015
(415) 543-2267
www.tawonga.org
Contact: Ann Gonski
At Tawonga, the focus is on group-building. Next to Yosemite National Park. Grades 2-12. Backpacking, Judaic programming, ropes course, arts and crafts. Teen Travel quests go all over the West, Canada and Israel. CIT program. Family camp weekends.

Camp Kee Tov is the summer camp of Beth El Congregation in Berkeley.
http://www.campkeetov.org/

Camp Kedima in Pleasanton is associated with Beth Emek. See them at:
http://www.campkadima.bethemek.org/

Each of the Jewish synagogue movements have summer camps as well.

Some camps have a Family Camp Week. That’s a great time to give the kid in you a class on drumming or painting, to refresh your s’mores making skills and to tell stories by a campfire.

Not sure what is available near you? Call the maven of Jewish information, Gail, at Jewish Community Information and Referral, 415-777-4545.

The next holiday is Shavuot
Shavuot begins Sunday at sundown. It is one of the three pilgrimage festivals. It is commanded in the Torah and was observed as a pilgrimage - all Jews were to travel to the Temple in Jerusalem to offer a sacrifice. It is described in the Torah as a natural and agricultural occurrence.

MyJewishLearning..com says this:
Deut. 26:1-11 specifies that every Israelite must offer the first fruits of his crop to the priests of the Temple. Traditionally on the second day of Passover(Nisan 16) a sheaf of barley was given. Shavuot was also known as the festival of the first fruits (HAG HA-BIKKURIM); this pilgrim festival was a time for making the offering. Although this practice ended with the destruction of the Temple, first-fruit celebrations still take place in the State of Israel.

Later tradition linked the holiday to the giving of the Torah at Mt Sinai. This rabbinic teaching developed the tradition of an all night study in an expression of the longing for Torah.
I got all the quotes below from Arthur Waskow's book, Seasons of our Joy. It's a terrific resource for all the holidays.

In Exodus 23:16 the Torahs states: Israelites shall hold a festival for the Feast of the Harvest, of the first fruits of your work, of what you sow in the field..
You shall bring from your settlements two loaves of bread as a wave-offering...baked after leavening, as first fruits to Adonai...On that same day you shall hold a celebration; it shall be a sacred occasion for you; you shall not work at your occupations. Lev 23:17-23
You shall observe the Feast of Weeks for Adonai, offering your freewill contribution according as the Holy One has blessed you. You shal rejoice before God with your son and daughter, your male and female slave, the Levite in your communities, and the stranger, the fatherless, and the widow in your midst, at the place where Adonai, your God will choose to establish God's name. Deut. 16:10-11

EVENTS
Family Shabbat Services and Shavuot Harvest Dinner (San Leandro)
Tikkun Leyl Shavuot: An All Night Study Session (Berkeley)
Tikkun Leil Shavuot (Palo Alto)
Tikkun Leil Shavuot (Oakland)
Never again, Again? Stopping the Genocide in Darfur (Richmond)
Who Wrote the Torah? (El Cerrito)
L'Chaim-The Spirituality of Wine and The Kiddush (Berkeley)
Come with Me to the Movies! (Berkeley)
Fifth Annual PicnicFest (Oakland)

Family Shabbat Services and Shavuot Harvest Dinner
Family oriented services begin early, are shorter, and have a book or story instead of sermon.
A kosher dinner prepared by temple members follows services at 7:15pm.

Date: Friday, June 6
Time: 7:15pm
Place: Beth Sholom, 642 Dolores, San Leandro
Charge is $10 per adult and $5 per child over the age of 5.
Please RSVP to the temple office at 510-357-8505.

Tikkun Leyl Shavuot: An All Night Study Session
A unique community-wide celebration and night of Torah study a spiritual journey bringing together Jews with varied perspectives and affiliations. Stay for an hour or stay until dawn. We will be led in study by teachers from our diverse Jewish community. Celebrate Shavuot!

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: 6:45pm until dawn
Place: JCC of the East Bay, 1414 Walnut St, Berkeley.
Co-Sponsored by many great community partners! For more information, contact Robin Braverman or Erica Zilbermann at 510.839.2900 ext. 235 or email tikkun@jfed.org

Tikkun Leil Shavuot
A COMMUNAL NIGHT OF STUDY! On Sunday, June 8, our Peninsula Jewish community comes together at Congregation Kol Emeth for an invigorating and meaningful night of study. Starting at 8 p.m. with a brief evening service, we will celebrate z’man matan Torateinu, the time of the giving of our Torah. Drop in anytime for nosh & coffee through the night & dairy breakfast at 1:30 a.m. Study sessions begin at 9 p.m. Teachers from the community include Rabbis Janet Marder, Josh Zweiback, Adam Allenberg, David Booth, Sarah Graff and Ari Cartun. Sessions go all night long so feel free to drop-in anytime (and go home to go to sleep anytime!).

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: Begins at 8pm
Place: Kol Emeth, 4175 Manuela Ave., Palo Alto
Co-sponsored by Congregations Kol Emeth, Beth Am, Etz Chayim and Keddem.
For information call 650-493-4661

Tikkun Leil Shavuot
Temple Beth Abraham and Temple Sinai will be observing Shavuot together again this year. Join us as we celebrate the Giving of the Torah by staying up all night (until about midnight) or as long as you can last.

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: 8:00pm
Place: Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland
for more information call either Beth Abraham at 510-832-0936 or Temple Sinai at 510-451-3263.

Never again, Again? Stopping the Genocide in Darfur
The Jewish Mandate to Pursue Justice for All Human Beings"
Rabbi Lee T. Bycel (who taught at Beth Hillel many years ago) and is now the Executive Director, Western Region of American Jewish World Service (AJWS), will speak.

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: 10:30-12:00noon
Place: Temple Beth Hillel, 801 Park Central St., Richmond
Directions: Hiiltop exit off 80, East then first Left, Left again into parking lot
Bagel brunch ($5.00 suggested donation)
For more information, please contact June Mayberry at junemayberry@iglide.net

Who Wrote the Torah?
Was it God? People? Does it make a difference?
If people were involved, who were they?
Join us to explore these questions and share a no-experience-necessary Shabbat dinner, eat, laugh, and learn. All are welcome.

Date: Friday, June 13
Time: 6:15pm
6:30 - Candle lighting and dinner
7:30 - Rabbi Bridget Wynne will lead a lively interactive teaching
8:30 - Dessert and schmoozing (time to hang out and chat)
Place: Jewish Gateways' cozy home near El Cerrito Plaza and BART station
Childcare: available by reservation
Space is limited, so RSVP is required.
Please contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at Jewish Gateways, (510) 559-8140, or rabbibridget@jewishgateways.org, for more information, and to make a reservation and get directions and your food assignment. If your schedule doesn't allow you to bring a dish to share, we offer you the option of contributing $7 toward the dinner.
www.jewishgateways.org

L'Chaim-The Spirituality of Wine and The Kiddush
In this delightful afternoon program, learn how to use the Kiddush, the Jewish blessing over the wine, as a delivery system for Kadosh, "to make the moment holy." Join with Chochmat Halev for a special wine tasting in the garden and conversation with Rabbi David White who will share a taste of WineSpirit Vintage Judaism and his teachings on wine's connection with spirituality and opening up to spiritual access points throughout the day. Wine and cheese included!

Date: Sunday July 13
Time: 4-6pm
Place: Chochmat HaLev, 2215 Prince Street, Berkeley, CA
Price: $15 for one adult, $25 for a couple or family:
Please RSVP to 510-704-9687 by Wednesday, July 9 so we know how much
wine to bring.

Come with Me to the Movies!
Join me, Dawn, at the Jewish Film Festival. We’ll go out for dinner first and then head over to the Rep in Berkeley to see:
Strangers
Israel, 2003, 85 min., color, Hebrew w/ Eng. subtitles
When handsome Eyal (Liron Levo) and knockout Rana (Lubna Azabel) are seated across from each other on the subway in Berlin, their backpacks are mixed up, leading to a chance meeting. He’s Israeli and she’s Palestinian, but they both came to Berlin for the World Cup and are immediately swept up in the dual frenzies of soccer mania and desire. After the tealights have burned out in their rented Berlin love nest, they realize that the fact that she is from Ramallah and he is from the north of Israel means they have different views of the world. Strangers is a crisply written, top-notch love story that crosses international borders and explores the boundaries of nationality, culture and the heart.

Date: Saturday, Aug. 9
Time: 8:15pm
Place: Berkeley Rep’s Roda Theater, 2025 Addison, Berkeley
RSVP - call or email me so I’ll know how many reservations to make for dinner.
You’ll pay for your own dinner and tickets.
Co-presented by Building Jewish Bridges: Outreach to Interfaith Couples; Interfaith Connection of the JCCSF; and Project Welcome
Box office opens June 24th. For tickets and more information call 925-275-9490 or go to:
www.sfjff.org

Fifth Annual PicnicFest
Join 1000 Jews for free beer, free ice cream, Israeli entertainment and child activities.

Date: Sunday, Sept. 7
Place: Joaquin Miller Park
Save the date. Look for more information on the Federation website - www.jfed.org

Jewish community in America

2008-05-27T22:35:00.000-07:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

What is Jewish community in America?
One of the confusing things about Jewish community is the feel of it – it’s different from mainstream American community. For folks who aren’t Jewish it can seem to make sense that Jews are different - even if they can’t quite put their finger on why. But for American Jews it can be baffling - why do I feel different or out of place? After all, I grew up here. At the heart of the matter is this: Jewish culture is communal - group oriented - in nature and American culture is individual. Think of John Wayne, Indiana Jones, Daniel Boone, Lewis and Clark - all American heros who rode off into the wilderness - alone. The American dream is that an individual through hard work can rise to wealth and greater independence. If you become wealthy enough you can pay for your own home, car, health care, vacations, etc.

On the other hand, Judaism’s greatest hero is Moses. When Moses rode (or walked) off into the wilderness he took the whole Jewish family along, the women and children, the weak as well as the strong, the complainers with the enthusiasts. Moses complained to God about the incredible hassle the children of Israel were, but he also defended and protected them from everyone, including God. The Jewish dream is a time of peace for all the Jews, an end to persecution and the return to Zion. The expectation is that each Jew will care for all the other Jews, sublimating his or her own personal desires for the greater good.

Now sit with that for a moment. That means as an American Jew you are both told to work hard, get ahead, become wealthy enough to be self sufficient... and to take care of your community. In America that can be felt as a burden. We are all so busy being independent that people often fear communal responsibility will impinge on their happiness.

But when I talk to individuals about what exactly is communal responsibility they often warm to the idea rapidly. Do you want there to be: people who bring meals when you are sick? Someone who picks up your kids from school because you’re working late. Someone to help pay for medicine for an elderly woman next door. Someone who clears the brush from around your house before fire season. Someone who raises money for the Food Bank. Someone to sit with you when your parent dies. Someone to visit you when you are sick, and do a bit of vacuuming while they are here.

In America we create Jewish community in synagogue. There the multiple burdens - responsibilities - are spread out over the many members so that no one person is expected to do it all.

Perhaps you will be rich enough to buy all that you and your family will ever need; I know I won’t be. And for those like me, there is community. Perhaps you have a close knit group of friends who will do this for you. I know that I don’t have enough friends for all my needs. Most of my friends work and can’t be available at all times.

But I’m not Jewish
Maybe you are thinking I’m not Jewish, I’m not sure how that would work for me. Here’s how - if you belong to a community you belong. A Catholic friend of mine told me she was being supported in the lost of her mother by her rabbi. Another told me she has a disease that she is fighting and her community has supported her emotionally in her health struggles. A man told me, “Guys aren’t so good at making friends, but I joined the mens group and we are bonding.” A non-Jewish man told me that the Caring committee had taken care of him and his daughters as his wife slowly died of cancer. A Jewish mom walked into Torah study at her congregation and said, “My husband isn’t Jewish, I don’t have a lot of relatives. I need for all of you to come to our daughter’s bat mitzvah so there will be plenty of voices carrying the songs and prayers.” When my nephew leaves for Iraq next month I am asking my synagogue’s women’s group to help me send him and his unit a monthly care package.

None of us can actually make it alone. Not physically. Not emotionally. Even if you are Hans Solo (note that last name!), eventually you need the rest of the Jedi Knights to back you up. Admitting our weaknesses can be our greatest strength. Don’t be afraid to be helped and to give help.

Summer is a great time to check out synagogues to see if there is one that fits you. I’m happy to help. Just call me. 510-839-2900 x347.

What if you are still saying, I’m not ready. Or I just don’t want to join anything. That’s fine. You can still drop in and visit when you feel like. The welcome sign is out!

Introduction to Judaism
There is an Introduction to Judaism class THIS SUMMER. It started on Wednesday, May 21 and continues until Aug. 6 so if you call right away you have only missed the first night.

It is offered by the Union for Reform Judaism at the two Reform congregations in Burlingame and San Mateo. The cost is $160 for members of Reform congregations that are URJ affiliated. And $240 for couples. If you are not affiliated call Hannah and discuss it with her. This class is a great idea if you are serious about conversion. You'll learn a lot, meet other interesting students and get to meet rabbis at two congregations. I've always said the more rabbis you meet the better. You want to have several to choose from as you decide the one you'll want to work with.
Call Hannah at 415-392-7080 x17- she can answer questions and sign you up.

EVENTS
Out & About Potluck (Oakland)
Songs & Stories around the Bonfire (Berkeley)
Israel in the Gardens (San Francisco)
<strong>First Jews in America (San Francisco)
Welcoming Your Jewish Baby - Whether You’re Jewish or Not (Oakland)
Monthly Family Potluck and Shabbat Service (Richmond)
DAWN '08 (San Francisco)
Grand Opening of the Contemporary Jewish Museum (San Francisco)
Bagel Brunch with Discussion and Slide Show on Darfur (Richmond)
Tikkun Leyl Shavuot: An All Night Study Session (Berkeley)
Tikkun Leil Shavuot (Palo Alto)
<strong>Celebrate The Joy of Shabbat & The Joy of Cantor Brian (Berkeley)
L'Chaim—the Spirituality of Wine (Berkeley)

Out & About Potluck
Join us for this fun Potluck dinner! Everyone is invited to attend! Out and About furthers Temple Sinai's mission of being a welcoming and inclusive congregation for all - including lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning Jews, along with our families, friends and allies. We'll provide the juice, challah, and chicken and you supply the rest!

Date: Friday, May 30
Time: 6pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
Call Susan at (510) 865-1215 for more information or to RSVP (by 5/29).

Songs & Stories around the Bonfire
Join the YeaShOre Community, Nishmat Shalom and the East Bay Jewish Folk Chorus for
the first Bonfire of the season. A fun evening around the Bonfire. Come for Havdalah, share your voice, or just listen, as we watch the flames dance!

Date: Saturday, May 31
Time: 8pm to around midnight
Place: Berkeley Marina
Details and directions to the Bonfire at yeashore.org.

Israel in the Gardens
Northern California's Largest Annual Jewish Cultural Festival
Join close to 20,000 members of the Bay Area Jewish community for Israel in the Gardens- a day for local Jews to celebrate our culture and to toast the 60th anniversary of Israel's independence and 60 years of cooperation between America and Israel.
Activities will include music, dance, art, fashion, fun for kids and teens, and lots of food!
Admission to this family-friendly event is free and open to the public. For more information, including a detailed schedule of the day's events, visit www.israelinthegardens.org.

Date: Sunday, June 1
Time: 11am - 5pm
Place: Yerba Buena Gardens, San Francisco
www.israelinthegardens.org

First Jews in America--
The Jews of the Caribbean
Historian, author and attorney Harry Ezratty has spent a lifetime studying the history of Jews in the Caribbean and their influence on the rest of America. He will share his tales at a talk, which will include a brief history of our sanctuary, a tour of the dome, and dessert and coffee.

Date: Monday, June 2
Time: 7pm
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California St., San Francisco
Cost: Tickets are $10 for Hadassah and CSI members, $18 for nonmembers.
Bring your friends for a wonderful evening!
Cosponsored with the San Francisco chapter of Hadassah.
For more information, contact Aviva Hicks at atahicks@sherithisrael.org or 415-346-1720 ext 24.

Welcoming Your Jewish Baby...Whether You’re Jewish or Not
Join us for a discussion group for Moms and Babies (age newborn to 6 months). Topics include: Support for Moms with new Babies; Jewish Resources for Mom, Baby and Family; Getting your Groove Back and Adjusting to the New Normal. Jewish topics include: Jewish baby welcoming ceremonies, home celebrations, making memories.

Dates: Five sessions starting Tuesday, June 3
Time: 1:30 to 3pm
Place: We are being hosted by Beth Jacob for this session, 3778 Park Blvd., Oakland
Cost: $36
For more information or to register, call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 or email dawn@jfed.org

Monthly Family Potluck and Shabbat Service
Potluck and service for families that provide a chance for Temple Beth Hillel families and new members (and potential new members) to get to know one another and schmooze in a warm, informal setting. Services are led by Rabbi Dean Kertesz and Cantor Howard Cohen. Children from the religious school and members of the congregation often participate in the service.

Date: First Friday night every month. Next one on Friday night, June 6th
Time: 6:30 pm
Place: Temple Beth Hillel, 801 Park Central Blvd, Richmond, CA. Just off the Hilltop Drive Exit on I-80.
Cost: a vegetarian dish for 6 to share
For more info contact - Arlene Lisby, Synagogue Administrator, 510-223-2560

DAWN '08
The Contemporary Jewish Museum and Reboot, are pleased to announce DAWN '08, an all-night, arts and culture festival and celebration of Shavuot at the grand opening of the Contemporary Jewish Museum, offering guests the opportunity to groove, learn, explore and mingle at the Museum's new building and exhibition space before the doors open to the public the following morning.

Date: Saturday, June 7
Time: 8pm - Sunrise
The Contemporary Jewish Museum - The new building is located on Mission Street between 3rd & 4th streets in San Francisco
Co-presented with Reboot

Grand Opening of the Contemporary Jewish Museum
Everyone is invited to attend the Grand Opening of the Contemporary Jewish Museum. Join them for their first Target Family Day and enjoy FREE admission, live music, architectural tours, family-friendly activities, storytelling, drop-in art-making, and more!

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: 11 am - 5:30 pm
Place: Contemporary Jewish Museum, 736 Mission Street (between 3rd & 4th Streets), San Francisco.
Reserve your free ticket in advance at www.thecjm.org or call 655-7800. If you have any questions, please contact the Museum's Education Department at 655-7850 or tours@thecjm.org.

Bagel Brunch with Discussion and Slide Show on Darfur
From American Jewish World Service whose slogan is "Pursuing Global Justice Through Grassroots Change" we have Rabbi Bycel who will be facilitating a discussion as well as a slide show on current events in Darfur and how we can help the victims of genocide in the 21st century.

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: 10:30 AM to 12:00 Noon
Place: Temple Beth Hillel, 801 Park Central Blvd, Richmond, CA. Just off the Hilltop Drive Exit on I-80.
Cost: $5, suggested donation
For more info call Arlene Lisby, Synagogue Administrator, 510-223-2560

Tikkun Leyl Shavuot: An All Night Study Session
A unique community-wide celebration and night of Torah study a spiritual journey bringing together Jews with varied perspectives and affiliations. Stay for an hour or stay until dawn. We will be led in study by teachers from our diverse Jewish community. Celebrate Shavuot!

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: 6:45pm until dawn
Place: JCC of the East Bay, 1414 Walnut St, Berkeley.
Co-Sponsored by many great community partners! For more information, contact Robin Braverman or Erica Zilbermann at 510.839.2900 ext. 235 or email tikkun@jfed.org

Tikkun Leil Shavuot
A COMMUNAL NIGHT OF STUDY! On Sunday, June 8, our Peninsula Jewish community comes together at Congregation Kol Emeth for an invigorating and meaningful night of study. Starting at 8 p.m. with a brief evening service, we will celebrate z’man matan Torateinu, the time of the giving of our Torah. Drop in anytime for nosh & coffee through the night & dairy breakfast at 1:30 a.m. Study sessions begin at 9 p.m. Teachers from the community include Rabbis Janet Marder, Josh Zweiback, Adam Allenberg, David Booth, Sarah Graff and Ari Cartun. Sessions go all night long so feel free to drop-in anytime (and go home to go to sleep anytime!).

Date: Sunday, June 8
Time: Begins at 8pm
Place: Kol Emeth, 4175 Manuela Ave., Palo Alto
Co-sponsored by Congregations Kol Emeth, Beth Am, Etz Chayim and Keddem.
For information call 650-493-4661

Celebrate The Joy of Shabbat & The Joy of Cantor Brian
Hearty appetizers, nosh & visit
Celebrate the Joy of Shabbat with the Joy of Shabbat musicians and special guests; then celebrate the Joy of Cantor Brian with a look back at Purim Spiel moments and other fond memories of Cantor Brian's 20 years at Beth El.
Oneg dessert, visiting and an opportunity to express your appreciation to our dear Cantor Brian

Date: Friday evening, June 20
Place: Beth El, 1301 Oxford St., Berkeley
RSVP This evening is free of charge, but we need to know how many people are coming so that we can ensure bountiful food. 510-848-3988. Deadline June 9

L'Chaim—the Spirituality of Wine:
Connecting and Gathering in the Garden
In this delightful afternoon program, learn how to use the Kiddush, the Jewish blessing over the wine, as a delivery system for Kadosh, "to make the moment holy." Join friends and family at Chochmat Halev for a special wine tasting in the garden and conversation with Rabbi David White who will share a taste of WineSpirit Vintage Judaism and his teachings on wine's connection with spirituality and opening up to spiritual access points throughout the day.

Date: Sunday July 13
Time: 4-6 pm
Place: Chochmat Halev, 2215 Prince St., Berkeley
Cost: $15 for one adult, $25 for a couple or family: Wine and cheese included!
Please RSVP to 510-704-9687 by Wednesday, July 9 so we know how much wine to bring.

Can you give me 15 minutes?

2008-05-17T08:39:00.000-07:00

New Mamas group starting (see below)

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

You haven’t heard from me for quite a few weeks - that’s because I’m a one-woman program and when things get crazy I don’t have back up. So I’ve decided to ask you if you can help out.
Could you give time to helping me?

Here are some tasks you could do.

Come into my office in Oakland and help with:
*data input
*stuffing envelopes for a mailing
At your home:
*spend 15 minutes a week or 15 minutes a month researching events for this newsletter - could be just from your city or anywhere in the bay area
*post Building Jewish Bridges events to the internet sites like planitjewish or bayjews
*be a buddy to other interfaith families in your area, make a call, have coffee, invite them over, take them to synagogue with you

How about it? Would you be willing to help? Give me a call, 510-839-2900 x347, or email me at dawn@jfed.org

Holidays just ahead: Lag B’Omer and Shavuot
Lag B’Omer, Friday, May 23
One-day suspension of the traditional mourning period during Sefirat HaOmer ("The Counting of the Omer"). On this day, a plague afflicting Rabbi Akiva's students ceased. Also commemorates Bar Kochba's recapture of Jerusalem from the Romans. Celebrated with picnics and nature outings. Sefirat HaOmer is a seven-week period that begins the second night of Pesach and ends at Shavuot. The 32 mourning days during this time commemorate the deaths of Rabbi Akiva's students. Traditionally, weddings, festivities, and haircuts are prohibited during this time.
(from www.jholidays.com)

Shavuot
I love Shavuot. It is one of the three pilgrimage holidays when Jews in ancient times made pilgrimage to Jerusalem to offer a special sacrifice at the Temple. If you read Arthur Waskow’s Seasons of our Joy, you’ll learn about the activities that took place in the ancient Temple. It was magnificent and makes you want to step back in time. In modern times we observe the holiday by studying all night in commemoration of the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai. You can find additional information and links at www.jholidays.

NEW MAMAS
Are you a new mama living in Alameda county? Have a friend or family member who is? Send them to me for Welcoming Your Jewish Baby? Whether You’re Jewish or Not. I’ve had Jewish mamas, non-Jewish mamas, mamas who are thinking of converting. We have a great time with the babies. See a full description below and call me at 510-839-2900 x347 or email me at dawn@jfed.org.

EVENTS
Toddler Time (Oakland)
Rock & Roll Shabbat (Oakland)
Israel Through the Eyes of a Bedouin Israeli (San Francisco)
Tots 'n Torah Shabbat Services (Burlingame)Musical Shabbat (San Leandro)
Ethical Journeys: Traveling By God's Word (Berkeley)
Torah on the Trails (San Rafael)
Lag B'Omer Picnic in the Park (San Ramon)
Jewish PlayGroup (Walnut Creek)
Jewish Time (San Francisco)
Film- Close to Home (Los Altos)
Author Talk: Emuna Elon (Walnut Creek)
Film: ARRANGED (San Francisco)
Neshama Carlebach in Concert (Berkeley)
Israel in the Gardens (San Francisco)
Welcoming Your Jewish Baby...Whether You’re Jewish or Not (Oakland)
Israel at 60: Accomplishments, Challenges and Hopes for the Future (Berkeley)
DAWN '08 (San Francisco)
Celebrate The Joy of Shabbat (Berkeley)

Toddler Time
Have you got a baby or toddler itching to jump and play, but who isn’t yet old enough for Preschool? Here comes a toddler focused class, combining elements of Gymboree, Music Together, Kinder gym, etc., into a fun-filled, free, forty-five minutes of song & action. Toddler Time is open to Temple Sinai members, Temple Sinai Preschool families, and to people who might be interested in learning more about the Temple¼ so let your friends know about this great opportunity!

Dates: Fridays
Time: 11:45am to 12:30pm
Place: Temple Sinai, in Stern Hall, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
Info: Heather Meil at (510) 420-8489 or heather_meil@hotmail.com

Rock & Roll Shabbat
This time, this special service will honor the teachers of our pre-school, Gan Avraham. As always, the more the merrier. From Rabbi Mark Bloom, leader of the band!

Date: Friday, May 16
Time: 6:15pm
Place: Temple Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland
for more information call the office at 510-832-0936
Go check out Rock & Roll Shabbat, everyone loves it. It was written up in the East Bay Express. You’ll love Rabbi Bloom. I know loads of members there and they are very nice. There are quite a few Jews of color at this congregation so that’s another reason to love it.

Israel Through the Eyes of a Bedouin Israeli
A Conversation With Israeli Vice Consul Ismail Khaldi
Hear about some of the hottest topics affecting Israel, along with the unique challenges of being the first Bedouin in the Israeli Foreign Ministry and a Muslim representing the Jewish state.At services on Friday, May 16.

Date: Friday, May 16
Time: 6:30pm
Place: Sherith Israel
For more information contact Aviva Hicks at ahicks@sherithisrael.org or 415-346-1720 ext 24. Aviva is extremely nice. You can ask her about any of the events at Sherith Israel.

Tots 'n Torah Shabbat Services
For families with infants to children 5 years old.

Date: Friday, May 16 and June 20 (always the third Friday of each month)
Time: 6:30 p.m.
Place: Peninsula Temple Sholom, 1655 Sebastian Dr., Burlingame
For more information call 650-697-2266 .

Musical Shabbat
Participate along with our Temple Orchestra and Choir. These spirited services are held in the main sanctuary.

Date: Friday, May 16
Time: 8:00pm
Place: Beth Sholom, 642 Dolores Ave., San Leandro

Ethical Journeys: Traveling By God's Word
Rachel Biale, Regional Director of the Progressive Jewish Alliance will invite us to explore themes of ethical journeying and hospitality in Jewish texts, and learn about how to put those teachings into action through the PJA's Just Journeys Campaign. Just Journeys is a new initiative in support of America's hotel workers, among the most disenfranchised U.S. workers today, crafted by the Progressive Jewish Alliance, Jewish Funds for Justice, and the National Jewish Labor Committee.

Date: Saturday, May 17
Time: 1:15pm
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley
www.netivotshalom.org

Torah on the Trails
Meet Rabbi Lezak and other hikers in the parking lot and then head out for a Shabbat experience on the trails.

Date: May 17
Time: meet at 8:30am
Place: Parking lot of Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Rd., San Rafael
for more information call (415) 479-3441

Lag B'Omer Picnic in the Park
Come meet us at our Lag B'Omer picnic, Sunday, May 18 at Athan Downs Park at Montevideo and Davona in San Ramon. We'll meet near the play area (and bathrooms!) for games, learning and socializing in honor of the "Scholars' Holiday." Bring your own picnic lunch. We'll provide juice and cookies.

Date: Sunday, May 18
Time: 10:30am
Place: Athan Downs Park, San Ramon
For more info call (925) 485-1049
Sponsored by the Tri Valley Cultural Jews

Jewish PlayGroup
Join a playgroup for families with children under 6. Circle time, Jewish holiday activities, and fun games. Schmooze while your children play. Everyone is welcome- bring your friends! A great way to meet families in our community - we'd love to meet you.
FREE of course!

Dates: May 18, (Meets one Sunday a month)
Time: 10:00 - 11:15am
Place: Contra Costa JCC, Room 6, 2071 Tice Valley Blvd., Walnut Creek
For info or to RSVP jenny@jfed.org or 925-943-6613

Jewish Time
Did you know that Jewish time has its own dimensions? It ebbs and flows with the moon, has holidays which speed up and slow down time. There are fasts and feasts and passages of life. Jewish time is a beautiful thing. Come and learn with other adults who seek new perspectives on the concepts of Jewish time.

Dates: Monday evenings, May 19 and June 2
Time: 7:30 - 9:00pm
Place: Beth Israel-Judea, 625 Brotherhood Way, San Francisco
Class continues for two more weeks - go and tell me what you learned.

Film- Close to Home
Close to Home is an army buddy movie - but these buddies happen to be young women Israeli soldiers. Vidi Bilu and Dalia Hager’s feature transcends politics and borders with the strength of its storytelling and the universality of its characters. This is a unique view of the female experience of military service at a time of heightened security concerns, and it is a well-crafted coming-of-age tale about the friendship between two opposites.

Date: Maay 24
Time: 4 p.m.
Place: In Rooms 5 & 6 at Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Free; Refreshments.
For more info call: 650-493-4661
www.betham.org

Author Talk: Emuna Elon
Jewish National Book Award Finalist and author of IF YOU AWAKEN LOVE will speak on her book.
Date: Thursday, May 27
Time: 6:30pm Wine & Cheese Reception; 7:00pm Lecture
Place: Contra Costa JCC, 2071 Tice Valley Blvd., Walnut Creek
Suggested Donation: $6
For more information contact Riva at 510-839-2900 x253 or email riva@jfed.org

Film: ARRANGED
by Stefan Schaefer & Diane Crespo
United States, 2007, 89 Min
Two young women-- Rochel, an Orthodox Jew and Nasira, a Muslim-- meet and become friends during their first year teaching at a public school in Brooklyn. This excellent drama chronicles a friendship that crosses cultures and reveals that the two women share much in common-not least of which is the fact that they are both going through arranged marriages. "A pure pleasure to watch ... splendidly natural performances." - Ronnie Scheib, Variety

Date: Wednesday, May 28
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: Yerba Buena Center for The Arts, 701 Mission Street (corner of 3rd), San Francisco
Ticket Prices: $8 general/$6 Jewish Film Forum and YBCA members, students, seniors
Seating is limited - Advance purchase recommended For tickets, visit ybca.org or call: 415.978.ARTS (2787)

Neshama Carlebach in Concert
One of the leading superstars in Jewish entertainment, Neshama Carlebach is continuing the legacy established by her father, Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach. Like her father, Neshama's talent and charisma captivate and endear her to people of all ages and backgrounds. She continues to both deeply move and entertain as she sings her father's incomparable melodies as well as inspiring original compositions. Post-concert reception.

Date: Thursday, May 29
Time: 7:30 pm.
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley
More info and tickets ($36) at: http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/32851
Proceeds support scholarships at Netivot Shalom's preschool and religious school.

Israel in the Gardens
Northern California's Largest Annual Jewish Cultural Festival
Join close to 20,000 members of the Bay Area Jewish community for Israel in the Gardens- a day for local Jews to celebrate our culture and to toast the 60th anniversary of Israel's independence and 60 years of cooperation between America and Israel.
Activities will include music, dance, art, fashion, fun for kids and teens, and lots of food!
Admission to this family-friendly event is free and open to the public. For more information, including a detailed schedule of the day's events, visit www.israelinthegardens.org.

Date: Sunday, June 1
Time: 11am - 5pm
Place: Yerba Buena Gardens, San Francisco
www.israelinthegardens.org

Welcoming Your Jewish Baby...Whether You’re Jewish or Not
Join us for a discussion group for Moms and Babies (age newborn to 6 months). Topics include: Support for Moms with new Babies; Jewish Resources for Mom, Baby and Family; Getting your Groove Back and Adjusting to the New Normal. Jewish topics include: Jewish baby welcoming ceremonies, home celebrations, making memories.

Dates: Five sessions starting Tuesday, June 3
Time: 1 to 2:30pm
Place: We are being hosted by Beth Jacob for this session, 3778 Park Blvd., Oakland
Cost: $36
For more information or to register, call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 or email dawn@jfed.org

Israel at 60: Accomplishments, Challenges and Hopes for the Future
A Talk by Neal Levy, Director, SF Israel Center
Neal Levy immigrated to Israel at the age of 18. Following his military service, he completed his BA at UC Berkeley and went on to serve as regional director of Young Judaea in Northern California, and later in Israel. In 1988, Neal became director of then-Jerusalem Mayor Teddy Kollek's re-election campaign headquarters, and then went on to work with the mayor at the Jerusalem Foundation. Neal served as Director of International Development at the Yitzhak Rabin Center and returned to the Bay Area in July 2006 to direct the Israel Center.

Date: Friday evening, June 6
Time: following the 8pm Shabbat Service
Place: Beth El, 1301 Oxford St., Berkeley
Co sponsored by The Israel Relations Committee

DAWN '08
The Contemporary Jewish Museum and Reboot, are pleased to announce DAWN '08, an all-night, arts and culture festival and celebration of Shavuot at the grand opening of the Contemporary Jewish Museum, offering guests the opportunity to groove, learn, explore and mingle at the Museum's new building and exhibition space before the doors open to the public the following morning.

Date: Saturday, June 7
Time: 8pm - Sunrise
The Contemporary Jewish Museum - The new building is located on Mission Street between 3rd & 4th streets in San Francisco
Co-presented with Reboot

Celebrate The Joy of Shabbat
Hearty appetizers, nosh & visit Celebrate the Joy of Shabbat with the Joy of Shabbat musicians and special guests; then celebrate the Joy of Cantor Brian with a look back at memorable Purim Spiel moments and other fond memories of Cantor Brian's 20 years at Beth El.
Oneg dessert, visiting and an opportunity to express your appreciation to our dear Cantor Brian
RSVP This evening is free of charge, but we need to know how many people are coming so that we can ensure bountiful food.

Date: Friday evening, June 20
Call for details on time of services and celebration
Place: Beth El, 1301 Oxford St., Berkeley
call: 510-848-3988
www.bethelberkeley.org

Passover Mid-week

2008-04-23T11:59:00.000-07:00

That's me with my Shmuroh matzah at first night seder.

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

We are in the middle of Passover. You may have read that we’re having a matzah shortage here in the bay area. No one is sure just why. But it would be nice to share with friends who have run out. Just remember that you can still eat all the fresh fruits and vegetables, meats, cheeses, yogurt and quinoa that you like. We tend to think of Passover as a bread-deprived time. But you could just think of it as a very healthy week.

What shall we eat this week?
I’ll post some non-traditional but very delicious recipes online. Oh, what the heck, I’ll post some traditional ones too -- see below this post.

Speaking of food... a small tirade about getting back to the good food
Food issues
by Rob Eshman, Editor in Chief
The Jewish Journal
http://www.jewishjournal.com/home/preview.php?id=19205

An update to the Haggadah
Rabbi Ferenc Raj, rabbi emeritus of Beth El in Berkeley, is a Rescued Child, rescued by Raoul Wallenberg in Hungary. From him I learned the following blessing that can be added to your haggadah. You can open your front door and say it out into the world or just say it to your assembled friends.

Pour Out Your Love
Pour out your love on the nations who have know you and on the kingdoms who call upon your name. For they show loving-kindness to the seed of Jacob and they defend your people Israel from those who would devour them alive. May they live to see the sukkah of peace spread over your chosen ones and to participate in the joy of your nations.

Why is Passover so Popular a Holiday?
Two SF Chron articles have stated, mistakenly, that Passover is the most observed Jewish holiday because it is a home based observance. Wrong. ALL of Jewish observance is home based since the fall of the second Temple in Jerusalem in 70 of the common era. There is NO JEWISH HOLIDAY that can’t be done in your home. In fact the rabbis teach that the kitchen table is now the altar for Jewish families. That means YOUR kitchen table, where you eat, and the rabbis hope - bless, rejoice, give thanks and welcome friends.

The reason for Passover’s wide observance among Jews, religious and secular, is that it is our core story - the story of the Exodus. The Hagadah says that we are to teach our children, “this is what the Holy One did for me when He brought me out of Egypt.” We are all to view ourselves as slaves personally freed from Mitzrahim (Hebrew for a narrow place).

On that note, here is a good message from Rabbi Larry Raphael in SF
In the Sherith Israel email letter this week, Rabbi Raphael wrote this drash (teaching):

While still in the midst of Passover, and wondering if our supply of matzah will suffice until the conclusion of the holiday, I want to share with you a folktale that comes from the Iraqi Jewish community. Jews lived in Iraq from the time of the destruction of the First Temple until recent days. Centuries ago this story was first told:
There was a country where the king was always chosen in a special way. When the old king died, a bird called the “bird of good fortune” would be released. On whomsoever’s head it landed, the people would place the crown making him their next ruler.
Once the bird of good fortune landed on the head of a slave; that slave had been a simple musician who entertained at the master’s parties. His costume consisted of a feathered cap and a belt made of the hooves of sheep.
When the slave became king, he moved into the palace and wore royal robes. However, he ordered that a shack (a kind of succah) be constructed next to the palace and that his old hat, belt and drum be stored there along with a giant mirror.
The new king was known for his kindness and love for all his people—rich and poor, free and slaves. Often he would disappear into his little shack. Once he left its door open and the cabinet ministers saw him don his feathered hat, put on his old belt and dance and drum before the mirror. They found this very strange and asked the king: “After all, you are a king! You must maintain your dignity!”The king replied: “Once I was a slave and now I’ve become a king. From time to time I want to remind myself that I was once a slave lest I grow arrogant and treat with disdain my people and you, my ministers.”That is the Iraqi story and so it is with us each year. We remind ourselves that we were once slaves and were freed by God with an outstretched arm. It is our obligation to remember where we came from as we live our days.

Just for fun
Here’s a funny Passover video – it started a few years ago to sell a fellow’s book. But it gets passed around just for the fun of it.
http://www.msu.edu/user/avniassa/passover/whowhowho.html

EVENTS
Jesus and the Jewish Teachings of His Time (San Leandro)
Why Don't Jews Believe in Jesus? (Emeryville)
Tot Shabbat (Redwood City)
Vocolot (Emeryville)
Watermarks film (San Francisco)
Community Passover Seder (Castro Valley)
An Evening on the Holocaust and Resistance (Oakland)
Community-wide Commemoration for Yom HaShoa (Lafayette)
Mindfulness and Middot (El Cerrito)
Holocaust Remembrance Day (Berkeley)
Kabbalat Shabbat (San Francisco)
Tot Shabbat (San Francisco)
Café i: Come for a Taste of Israel (Walnut Creek)
Yom HaZikharon (Oakland)
Together for Israel (Berkeley)
Israel’s 60th Anniversary (Campbell)
Meditation Minyan (Berkeley)
Stateless (Berkeley)
American Matchmaker film (Berkeley)
Israel in the Gardens (San Francisco)
Welcoming Your Jewish Baby, Whether You’re Jewish or Not (Oakland)
DAWN '08 - Shavuot Celebration (San Francisco)

Jesus and the Jewish Teachings of His Time
If you are interested in attending, bring a copy of the Hebrew Bible and a New Testament.
Part of the MID/Jewish East Bay Forum Lecture Series.

Dates: Thursdays starting April 25, 10 Session Seminar Series
Time: 10:15am to 11:45am.
Place: Temple Beth Sholom, 642 Dolores Ave., San Leandro
Cost: $5 per lecture, or $40 for all ten sessions
For more information call Beth Sholom at 510-357-8505.

Why Don't Jews Believe in Jesus?
According to Jewish tradition he is not the messiah.
Why did Judaism and Christianity part ways on this issue?
Join us to explore these questions this Friday.
We will share a no-experience-necessary Shabbat dinner, eat, laugh, and learn. All are welcome.

Date: Friday, April 25
Time: 6:15pm
Place: Jewish Gateways' cozy home near El Cerrito Plaza and BART station
Childcare: available by reservation
Space is limited, so RSVP is required.
Please contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at Jewish Gateways, (510) 559-8140, or rabbibridget@jewishgateways.org, for more information, and to make a reservation and get directions and your food assignment. If your schedule doesn't allow you to bring a dish to share, we offer you the option of contributing $7 toward the dinner.

Tot Shabbat
Each Saturday, we have a Tot Shabbat program for children aged 2 to 5, and a Celebrate Shabbat program for children aged 6 and 7. These programs provide a meaningful Shabbat experience for our younger children, as well as allowing their parents to participate in services. Both programs include Shabbat-appropriate craft projects, services for children, and challah & grape juice.

Date: Every Saturday, April 26, May 3 and so on
Time:
Place: Temple Beth Jacob, Redwood City
www.templebethjacob.com

Vocolot
the World's Best Jewish Music Ensemble
Vocolot is going to Amsterdam! Please help them prepare for the competition
to be held in May. Join them at their Bon Voyage House Concert.
Opening for Vocolot: Ira & Julia Levin
Refreshment reception following the show

Date: Saturday, April 26
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Doyle Street Cohousing Complex, 5514 Doyle Street, Emeryville
Doors open at 6:45pm
Minimum Donation: $10
Reservations Recommended: Vocolot@mindspring.com
We will ask for your feedback after the show
Fundraising donations for our trip can be made to:
http://www.tbssanleandro.org/donate.html#VocolotConcert
http://www.vocolot.com

Watermarks
by Yaron Zilberman
Israel, 2004, 77 min
English, Hebrew, and German w/English subtitles
WATERMARKS is the story of the champion women swimmers of the legendary Jewish sports club, Hakoah Vienna. Hakoah ("The Strength" in Hebrew) was founded in 1909 in response to the notorious Aryan Paragraph, which forbade Austrian sports clubs from accepting Jewish athletes. Its founders were eager to popularize sport among a community renowned for such great minds as Freud, Mahler and Zweig, but traditionally alien to physical recreation. Hakoah rapidly grew into one of Europe's biggest athletic clubs, while achieving astonishing success in many diverse sports. In the 1930s Hakoah's best-known triumphs came from its women swimmers, who dominated national competitions in Austria. After the Anschluss, in 1938, the Nazis shut down the club, but the swimmers all managed to flee the country before the war broke out, thanks to an escape operation initiated by Hakoah's functionaries.
Sixty-five years later, director Yaron Zilberman meets the members of the swimming team in their homes around the world, and arranges for them to have a reunion in their old swimming pool in Vienna, a journey that evokes memories of youth, femininity, and strengthens lifelong bonds. Told by the swimmers, now in their eighties, Watermarks is about a group of young girls with a passion to be the best. It is the saga of seven outstanding athletes who still swim daily as they age with grace. Above all, it is a celebration of life.

Date: Saturday, April 26
Time: 7:30pm
Place:
9th Street Independent Film Center, 145 9th Street (In between Mission and Howard), San Francisco
Ticket Price $5; Purchase Tickets at Door

Community Passover Seder
The Community, including unaffiliated and interfaith families, is invited to join the Congregation in a great festive retelling of the liberation of the Jewish people from slavery. The Seder will feature Passover songs and music. A Kosher-style holiday meal will be served. The service will be led by Rabbinic Intern Carla Fenves.

Date: Saturday, April 26
Time: 5:30 pm
Place: Castro Valley Community Center, 18988 Lake Chabot Rd. Castro Valley
Cost: Adult $30.00; Child (12 & under) $10.00
Pay: At Event, By Mail
Send registration information and payment by check made out to:
Congregation Shir Ami to: Congregation Shir Ami attn: Barbara Heimowitz 4529 Malabar Avenue Castro Valley, CA 94546

An Evening on the Holocaust and Resistance
A community-wide commemoration for Yom HaShoah (Holocaust Remembrance Day). The guest speaker will be David Akov, Consul General of Israel.

Date: Tuesday, April 29
Time: 8 to 10pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit Street, Oakland
Information: Temple Sinai, 510-451-3263

Mindfulness and Middot
How od we cultivate the freedom to meet each moment with more gratitude and joy?
How do we respond to daily challenges with kindness, patience, and generosity, and equanimity (shalom)?
How do we free ourselves from habit, fear, and isolation?
This spring, as we journey from Passover to Shavuot, from Egypt to Sinai, join fellow travelers as we quite our minds and open our hearts, using contemplative and tikkun middot (refinment of soul-traits) practices to increase our capacity to act with compassion and justice.

Date: Wednesdays from April 30 to June 4
Time: 7 to 9pm
Place: 409 Liberty St., El Cerrito
Cost: $120 to 180 (sliding scale)
Sponsored by the Institute for Jewish Spirituality
To register contact Rabbi Margie Jacobs at margie@ijs-online.org

Community-wide Commemoration for Yom HaShoa Ve HaGevurah
"From Despair to Hope: The Holocause and the State of Israel"
Our Students Speak About Their Journey from Poland to the Jewish State

Date: Wednesday, April 30
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: Temple Isaiah, 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette
For information, contact 510.839.2900 ext 253 or email riva@jfed.org.

Holocaust Remembrance Day
with the City of Berkeley
Join JFCS/East Bay staff, Berkeley city councilmembers, the mayor, and local survivors to honor those in our community who survived the Holocaust. The panel of speakers will include Berkeley poet Marcia Falk, author of The Book of Blessings, who will read a selection of her work. Also performing will be Sephardic music specialist Dr. Rivka Amado.

Date: Friday, May 2
Time: 12 to 1 pm
Place: Berkeley City Council Chambers, 2134 Martin Luther King Jr. Way, Berkeley
For info: Rita Clancy at Jewish Family & Children’s Services (510) 558-7800, ext. 257
rclancy@jfcs-eastbay.org

Kabbalat Shabbat
with the Koleynu Choir
Shabbat Services with our Koleynu Choir followed by a delicious Oneg of Middle Eastern food catered by Sunrise Deli.

Date; Friday, May 2
Time: 6pm
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California St., San Francisco
For more information contact Aviva Hicks
at ahicks@sherithisrael.org or 415-346-1720 ext 24.

Tot Shabbat
With Rabbi Julie Saxe-Taller
A child-friendly Shabbat experience with songs, dancing with stuffed Torahs, Shabbat rituals. An opportunity to take time out of our busy lives to connect with our families and community. Grandparents, aunts, uncles and friends are also invited.
For Families with Young Children (birth to 5 years)

Date: Saturday, May 3
Time: 10:30am-12pm
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California St., San Francisco
For more information call 415-346-1720 ext 27.

Café i: Come for a Taste of Israel
Celebrate Israel with Israeli music, refreshments and the screening of an Israeli romantic drama.

Date: Saturday, May 3
Time: 7:30pm
Place: CC JCC, 2071 Tice Valley Blvd., Walnut Creek
For more info contact Judith at 510-839-2900 x256

Yom HaZikharon
Join us as we remember those who have fallen in defense of the State of Israel. An evening of Israeli culture presented by members of our East Bay Israeli community will follow the commemoration.

Date: Tuesday, May 6
Time: 7:30 p.m.
Place: Temple Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland
Admission is free.
For more information: marilyn@jfed.org or call 510.839.2900 ext.256.

Together for Israel
Enjoy a light Israeli dinner and dance to the beat of Israeli music.
6:00-7:00pm Delicious Israeli Food & Hip Israeli Music and Dancing • Balloon Animals • Fun Giveaways • Kids Arts & Crafts Activities
7:00pm Guest Speaker: Elizabeth Rogers - Producer of New Award Winning Documentary "Exodus 1947" and The Amazing Jeremy Shafer Show - Juggling, Magic & More!

Date: Thursday, May 8
Time: 6pm
Place: Congregation Beth El, 1301 Oxford St., Berkeley
Event is free of charge as a gift from our community sponsors.

Israel’s 60th Anniversary
A movie and Music Family Event
Come for this riveting docu-drama - It’s Now or Never - depicting Israel’s Declaration of Independence. Preceded by the sounds of the musical ensemble, Ya Elah.

Date: Thursday, May 8
Time: 7 to 9pm
Place: Camera 7 Theater, Pruneyard Shopping Ctr, 1875 S. Bascom Ave., Campbell
Info: Call 800-838-3006 or go to www.svjff.org
For other community-wide 60th anniversary events visit www.svjcc.org/israel@60/

Meditation Minyan
led by Rabbi Carol Caine
This service is an alternative to the main service taking place in the sanctuary. The service includes chanting sacred phrases from the liturgy and periods of silence, with intentions woven in from the week's parsha or from where we are in the Jewish year cycle. The meditation service ends at 10:30, with participants then invited to join the main service in the sanctuary. We encourage people to try and arrive by 9:30, so that we can set our intentions together, but please don't stay away if you arrive later, just please enter the room quietly.

Date: Saturday, May 10
Time: 9:30 to 10:30am
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley - meets in Room 5 upstairs.
The meditation minyan meets every month, on the second Shabbat of the month, so please feel free to come in the future if you can't make this one.
www.netivotshalom.org

Stateless
In this work of hip hop theater, Dan Wolf, the great grand nephew of Ludwig Wolf (who penned Hamburg, Germany's most famous song), returns to Hamburg to make a film about his family. Using tatter found in his grandmother's basement-a picture of two dockworkers, a costume, a long letter from his grandfather-Wolf links his Jewish past with his present search for self. Through a pastiche of rhyme, dialogue, and song we are led from Hamburg to Shanghai, New York and San Francisco through anti-Semitism, the assimilation of Jewish culture, and the rediscovery of an artistic legacy.
"[Stateless] brings afresh intelligence and rousing energy to the theme of insider-outsider identities and internal exile." -Robert Avila, San Francisco Bay Guardian
Unlike past presentations, the JCC's performance mixes select scenes from the play with excerpts from the documentary film Return of the Tüdelband, providing a unique cross-medium journey that is not to be missed. A Q&A will follow the show.

Date: Sunday May 11
Time: 8:00pm
Place: East Bay JCC, 1414 Walnut St., Berkeley
Cost: $10 East Bay JCC members/students/seniors, $15 general

American Matchmaker
USA, 1940, 87 minutes
Yiddish (English Subtitles)
Directed by Edgar G. Ulmer
Leo Fuchs, known on Second Avenue as "the Yiddish Fred Astaire," plays an elegant and eligible bachelor who can never seem to close the marriage deal. Helmer Edgar G. Ulmer's last Yiddish movie was also his most modern, an art deco romantic comedy about male ambivalence and Jewish assimilation. Following the screening, Miguel Pendás, Creative Director of the San Francisco Film Society, will screen excerpts of clips from Ulmer's work and lead a discussion on the director's legacy.

"A successful combination of humor and schmaltz...a clash between the urbane, slick manners of the new country and the old, busybody communal ways of the shtetl." -Museum of Fine Arts, Houston

Date: Thursday May 22
Time: 7:30pm
Place: East Bay JCC, 1414 Walnut St., Berkeley
Cost: $8

Israel in the Gardens
Enjoy the life performance of The Idan Raichel Project; engage in activities for teens, young adults and families; taste ethnic foods and shop for everything from jewelry to handmade clothing.

Date; Sunday, June 1
Time: 11am to 5pm
Place: Yerba Buena, San Francisco
Free
www.israelcentersf.org

Welcoming Your Jewish Baby, Whether You’re Jewish or Not
Looking for other new mamas? Supportive discussion? Jewish options?
Join a group of moms to talk about:
Support for Moms with new Babies
Getting Your Groove Back & Adjusting to the New Normal
Considering Jewish Choices and Practices for your Home

Date: Tuesday, June 3
Time: 1pm to 2:30pm
Place: Beth Jacob has given us a sunny room.
Cost: $36/five sessions
Call me, Dawn, to get more information at 510-839-2900 x347.
www.jfed.org/bjb

DAWN '08 - Shavuot Celebration
The Contemporary Jewish Museum and Reboot, are pleased to announce DAWN '08, an all-night, arts and culture festival and celebration of Shavuot at the grand opening of the Contemporary Jewish Museum, offering guests the opportunity to groove, learn, explore and mingle at the Museum's new building and exhibition space before the doors open to the public the following morning.

Date: Saturday, June 7
Time: 8pm - Sunrise
The new building is located on Mission Street between 3rd & 4th streets in San Francisco
Co-presented with Reboot

Passover Food

2008-04-23T11:30:00.000-07:00

Let's begin with the non-traditional dishes.

I took a cooking class with a friend on Moroccan Cooking, here in Oakland from a gal named Dara who has The Sage Table. (You can find her online at www.thesagetable.com. I think she might be Jewish.) When I looked at the recipes she had taught us every single one is kosher for Passover with one small easily modified exception. Lucky me. So this is the better part of my menu for second night seder.

Here's the exception - barley is not kosher for Passover. Just substitute 2 cups of quinoa for the barley/quinoa mix.
Barley and Quinoa Pilaf with Mint
1/2 c. pearl barley
1 1/2 c. quinoa
2-3 Tbs olive oil
1/4 c. chopped fresh mint
1 bunch scallions sliced thinly
1/2 tsp. cardamom
1/8 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. pepper
1 Tbs. honey
1/3 c. toasted almonds

Rinse the quinoa and toast it in a heavy skillet. When it smells nice and toasty and is popping add 4 c. vegetable or chicken broth and simmer until done and liquid is absorbed.

Combine all the rest of the ingredients in a bowl and pour them over the grains. Mix well.

Chicken with Lemons & Olives, Moroccan-style
1 T. olive oil
6 chicken thighs (I've also used breasts since some people prefer white meat)
1 large onion, thinly sliced
3 cloves of garlic, thinly sliced
1 1/2 tsp. cumin
1 1/2 tsp. paprika
1/2 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 tsp. turmeric
1/2 tsp. black pepper
1 T flour (I used matzo meal for the Passover dish)
1 1/2 to 3 c. chicken broth
1/4 c. dry white wine
2/3 c. green olives, pitted, then chopped or sliced
(Here the recipe as Dara made it uses preserved Meyer lemons, but Dara said you can substitute lemon zest. I have a Meyer's lemon tree and I prefer zest)
8 pieces preserved Meyers Lemon or 4 tsp lemon zest

Choos a heavy pot that will easily fit all the chicken in one layer.

Pat the chicken dry, then season with salt and pepper. Heat 1 T of olive oil in the pot over moderately high heat until hot, then saute chicken until golden brown, about 3 minutes on each side. Transfer chicken to a plate and keep warm, covered. (Alternately you can place the chicken thight on a baking sheet and roast for 40 to 60 minutes in the oven at 400 degrees.)

Add remaining oil to skillet and reduce heat to medium. Cook onions, stirring frequently, until softened but not brown, 8 to 10 minutes. Add in garlic, cook a minute more, then add spices & flour, and cook, stirring, until very fragrant - about a minute. Stir in the wine, scrape the bottom of the pan. Add in the broth, olives and lemon. Stir well. Return chicken to the pot. Simmer on a low heat, covered, until the chicken is very tender- 12 to 25 minutes.

Aromatic Vegetable Tagine with Olives and Figs
Apparently you can add chick peas to this per Dara, but chick peas are only kosher if you are Sephardic. Dara also says fish can be laid on top and steamed over the cooking vegies with the pot lid on.

olive oil
4 - 6 cloves of garlic, chopped
1 Tbsp. cumin
1 1/2 tsp. coriander
1 tsp. cinnamon
1 28-oz can of chopped tomatoes
1/4 tsp. salt
3/4 c. kalamata olives, pitted and chopped
4 to 6 dried Mission figs (I used six), chopped in quarters
2 large carrots
2 medium zucchini
1 purple Globe eggplant

cilantro, optional

Cut the tops and end off the carrots and zucchini. Quarter lengthwise and cut in 2 inch chunks. Cut the eggplant in 2 inch chunks too. Heat the oil in a large heavy pot over medium heat. Add the garlic and saute a minute. Add the spices and salt, stir for about 30 seconds. Add the tomatoes, figs & olives, bring to a simmer. Add eggplant and carrots. Simmer until eggplant starts to break down, stir occasionally. When carrots are almost tender add the zucchini. If you don't care if the zucchini gets squashy just add it with everything else, I did. I like the way it gets stewy.

Breakfast without Toast or Cereal

This is the challenging meal. My kids are used to eating cereal... or pancakes or waffles. But for Passover those dishes are out. But there is Matzah Brei!

Matzah Brei
4 or 5 sheets of Matzah or 2 cups of matzah farfel
4 eggs, beaten
1/2 c. milk
1/4 t. salt
1/2 t. cinnamon
1.2 t. vanilla

Mix everything together. Now I'm just making these amounts up to the best of my ability to estimate what is usually just eyeballed. If you like it drier, use less fluid. If you like it really eggy, use more eggs. My kids like it quite softened so I let it sit for a minute or two so the egg and milk soak into the crackers.

Then you fry it in a pan and serve it with syrup and jam.

Passover is a great time to fill up on fresh fruits. Bananas sliced on cottage cheese or yogurt. Crisp apples, firm pears, new strawberries. Go to the farmer's market and load up.

Pizza for Passover?
Last night my seventeen year old son said, "I really want pizza! I'm sure Tali has a recips. Can't you get it?" (Tali is the Israeli woman who leads the Teen trips that my son went on last summer. For more on the teen trip and an absolutely glorious way to send your darling teen away for a month so you can taste the sweetness of freedom, call Tali at 510-839-2900 x255. Any teen who is a sophmore in high school in the bay area can go.) Yes, indeed! She has a Passover Pizza recipe and I'll share it here with you.

Passover Pizza Israeli-style

small can tomato paste
catsup
salt & pepper
oregano
mozzarella cheese
toppings – mushrooms, olives, onions

Wet a sheet of matzah and lay it on a clean towel. It will gradually become soft.
In a bowl combine the tomato paste and catsup. Mix until you have the consistency you like. Place the pliant sheet of matzah on a cookie sheet that you’ve sprayed with oil. Spread the sauce on the matzah, sprinkle it with the cheese and put on the toppings you like.
Put it in a 350 degree oven for 10 minutes.
Voila!

Yes, that's as good as it gets for another four days.

Participating in Jewish Life!

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How can the engaged Jewish community reach out to the unaffiliated and invite them to explore Judaism?
Building Jewish Bridges has a wide range of opportunities.

For synagogues
In February Building Jewish Bridges partnered with Project Welcome to offer Increasing the Warmth of Your Welcome, a workshop that helps synagogues enhance their websites, bulletins, membership materials and phone response to be as inviting as they want to be. This workshop, specifically for East Bay congregations, was held in the Federation boardroom. Responses from participants were enthusiastic.

Dawn Kepler of Building Jewish Bridges with synagogue lay leaders.

Everything we learned was really practical; we could implement the recommendations right away.
Synagogue Board Member

The sharing of ideas and practices was really helpful.
Membership VP

The most useful part of the workshop was hearing from the other congregations that they are experiencing the same problems we are.
Synagogue Co-President

For the unaffiliated
Partnering with local synagogues, Building Jewish Bridges offered these programs recently.
With Temple Sinai in Oakland, Passover: The Set Table
This workshop offered an educational and culinary moment with both a presentation by Rabbi Mates-Muchin and Dawn Kepler on how to enhance your seder for family and guests of all backgrounds as well as a charoset tasting.

Rabbi Mates Muchin describes the varity of Jewish Passover practices.

Working with Netivot Shalom in Berkeley and B’nai Shalom in Walnut Creek, Building Jewish Bridges offered -
A Taste of Judaism

Rabbi Menachem Creditor and Rabbi Michelle Fisher welcomed Jews and non-Jews in a class that teaches the basic tenets of Judaism to all. One Hindu man remarked, "Jews have always been helpful to me. In fact a Jew sponsored me to come to America. I want to learn about their tradition." Several young adults stated that as children of interfaith parents they wanted to learn about their heritage and find a way to be Jewish. A few participants said they were coming with the desire to convert.

Rabbi Menachem Creditor opens with a musical blessing.

Want to participate? Everyone is welcome. Singles, couples and families can attend programs. Synagogues and JCCs can partner in offering welcoming events for everyone curious about Jewish community.

Contact Dawn Kepler at 510-839-2900 x347 or 925-943-1484 for more information.

Passover Community Seders & Resources

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Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Passover just a few days away: Saturday, April 19 at sundown
Passover will be here very soon and some of you are looking for information for your own home seder, others want to find a community seder. I’m listing a lot of community seders below. You can check www.planitjewish.com for seders or you can call me or the volunteer at Jewish Community Information and Referral at 415-777-4545. Check the website first as Gail at JCI&R urges every congregation and agency to put their events on the community calender there.

If you are in the East Bay you can go to www.jfed.org and scroll down to Passover Happenings. Click on that you will get a long list of Passover programs taking place in the East Bay. Thank you to the ever resourceful Tanya at the Federation for compiling this!!

Passover resources for children
I received this message from Rabbi Menachem Creditor of Netivot Shalom. Take a look at this online Haggadah. It looks good for children. You can download it at make as many copies as you have kids. Some of you specifically told me you are looking to keep little ones engaged at the table.

A dear friend of mine who is also a gifted educator, Alex Weinberg, has shared the latest version of his Haggadah that he wrote last year for my children, but have since shared with his community and friends. The Haggadah is designed for families of all ages and has space on each page for children (or adults) to illustrate the page.

To use this Haggadah at your Seder, print out a master copy and then share pages with your participants (before Pesah). Have them illustrate different pages of the Haggadah. Collect the pages before the Sederim and give them to a local copy shop where they can make double sided, spiral bound booklets to use at your Seder. At the Seder be sure to have the participants who illustrated each page explain their drawings—it is a great way for them to be included in the discussions and to become leaders at your Seder!
Instructions from Alex are below, and I recommend it very highly
Chag Sameach, Menachem Creditor
You can download the Haggadah here: http://www.alexweinberg.org/haggadahnew2008.pdf

Fast Seder
Someone on this list bought a book called, 30 minute Seder. She told that there is also online downloadable music. It looks like you can buy it online too. www.the30minuteseder.com

Here’s a terrific booklet from Project Welcome ~
Personalizing Passover
http://urj.org/_kd/Items/actions.cfm?action=Show&item_id=12753&destination=ShowItem

New Jewish Magazine
A few months ago I told you about a new magazine - Jewish Living. They seem to be in the bumpy start phase in terms of their website. But take a look. I went ahead and subscribed because there’s nothing else like them.
www.jewishlivingmag.com

Jewish Summer Camp Scholarship Money
I want to remind you to think about summer camp now. If you want to get an $1800 scholarship for your child you must apply soon.
http://www.sfjcf.org/endowment/scholarships/camp3.htm

Camp Tawonga - here in our own area was named one of the top ten Jewish summer camps in Jewish Living Magazine -
Camp Tawonga: http://www.tawonga.org/
Article: http://www.jewishlivingmag.com/top10/top10_summercamps.php

EVENTS
Prospective Member Gathering (Oakland)
Meditation Minyan (Berkeley)
Passover Seder Prep (San Francisco)
Beginning Jewish Living, Part 2: Living a Life of Holiness (San Rafael)
Spiritual Preparation for the Exodus (Berkeley)
Freedom Seder (Oakland)
A Festive Learning Seder for Families (Pleasanton)
Young Family Shabbat (Redwood City)
JCCSF First Night Community Seder (San Francisco)
Congregational Community Seder (Walnut Creek)
Congregational Seder (Berkeley)
Passover Seder (Albany)
Intergenerational Community Seder (San Francisco)
Second Night Passover Seder (Milbrae)
Community Passover Seder 2008 (Tiburon)
More than Four Questions (El Cerrito)
Community Passover Seder at Chabad (Piedmont)
12th Annual Passover Freedom Seder (San Francisco)
Community Passover Seder (Castro Valley)
Vocolot (Emeryville)
Yom HaZikharon (Oakland)

Prospective Member Gathering
Are you looking for Jewish Community? Spirituality? Study Groups? New Friendships? Then please attend our prospective member gathering. It is a great way to meet our clergy and staff, tour the synagogue and ask questions.

Date: Friday, April 11
Time: 6pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
For more information or to RSVP, please contact Gabby at (510) 451-3263 x211 or gabby@oaklandsinai.org
Tot Shabbat will also be tonight - at 6:30pm.

Meditation Minyan
led by Rabbi Carol Caine
This service is an alternative to the main service taking place in the sanctuary. The service includes chanting sacred phrases from the liturgy and periods of silence, with intentions woven in from the week's parsha or from where we are in the Jewish year cycle. The meditation service ends at 10:30, with participants then invited to join the main service in the sanctuary. We encourage people to try and arrive by 9:30, so that we can set our intentions together, but please don't stay away if you arrive later, just please enter the room quietly.

Date: Saturday, April 12
Time: 9:30 to 10:30am
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley - meets in Room 5 upstairs.
The meditation minyan meets every month, on the second Shabbat of the month, so please feel free to come in the future if you can't make this one.
www.netivotshalom.org

Passover Seder Prep
Passover is one of the most celebrated of Jewish holidays and it is not ALL about the food. Whether you are hosting a Seder in your home or want to attend a Seder with more understanding, this workshop will be all you need. Temple Haggadah, Cantor Barak's CD, and menu suggestions/recipes for Seder meals included. No charge, but space is limited.

Date: April 13
Time: 3:30pm
Place: Guild Hall, Emanu-El, 2 Lake Street, San Francisco
Free
Contact: Frana Price at (415) 751-2541 ext. 151 or fprice@emanuelsf.org

Beginning Jewish Living, Part 2: Living a Life of Holiness
with Rabbi Noa Kushner
The word 'spirituality' seems to be everywhere these days, but what does it truly mean to pursue a modern life of holiness? Required book: A Book of Life, by Rabbi Michael Strassfeld.

Date: Tuesday, April 15
Time: 7:30 - 8:50 pm
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
for more info call Jerrine at (415) 479-3441
www.rodefsholom.org

Spiritual Preparation for the Exodus
Why is this night different from all other nights? In the course of the Passover Seder, matzah is transformed from the "bread of affliction" to the token of liberation. The matzah of liberation must be whole; yet we begin the Seder ritual by breaking a matzah in half – later internalizing it as the afikomen. How do we understand our own journeys from oppression to liberation? What brokenness in ourselves must be internalized before we can move to liberation? How we can open ourselves more fully to embrace the other – within and without – as we remember "the heart of the stranger for we were strangers in the Land of Mitzrayim… Join Rabbi Yoel Kahn for an evening of spiritual preparation for Passover, exploring these and other questions as we prepare for Passover.

Date: Wednesday, April 16
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Beth El, 1301 Oxford St., Berkeley
Info: 510-848-3988

Freedom Seder
Join us as we welcome the greater community to celebrate with us the universal theme of freedom from oppression as we strengthen our bonds with each other. We will share the music and ritual of traditional Seder, special readings, and delicious Passover desserts. We encourage you to invite your non-Jewish friends.

Date: Thursday April 17
Time: 7pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2823 Webster St., Oakland
For info call Gabby at 510.451.3263
www.oaklandsinai.org

A Festive Learning Seder for Families
Why is this night different from all other nights? Find out!
Learn more about the Passover holiday Tips for infusing your Seder with holiday fun. No experience required

Date: Thursday, April 17
Time: 6:30pm
Place: Faz Restaurant 5121 Hopyard Rd. Pleasanton
Cost: $40 per adult $18 children ages 4-12 Free for children 3 and under
Sponsored by The Jewish Community Federation of The Greater East Bay Regional Office, Faz Restaurant, Center for Jewish Living and Learning, and The Shalom Chapter of Hadassah
Info: Tanya Shore: (925) 943-5238 or tanya@jfed.org

Young Family Shabbat
Services are at 6:15pm and dinner follows at 7pm in the Social Hall. Please come meet us.

Date: Friday, April 18
Time: Services at 6:15; Dinner at 7pm
Place: Temple Beth Jacob, 1550 Alameda De Las Pulgas, Redwood City
Cost: Adults $14; Kids (ages 4 to 12) $9; Little kids (2-3) $3
RSVP by 5pm on Wed., April 16
Info: 650-366-8481 or tbj@templebethjacob.org

JCCSF First Night Community Seder
With Rabbi Eve Ben-Ora, JCCSF Jewish Educator
Join our community on the first night of Passover to retell the story of the Jewish people's journey from slavery to freedom. Participate in the telling of the story, sing old and new favorites, ask questions and find the afikomen. A traditional kosher seder meal will be served.

Date: April 19 Saturday
Time: 6:30pm
Place: JCC of San Francisco, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: $55.00 - Adults; $35.00 - Seniors and Students; $25.00 - Children; Children under 5 free
Limited seating, call to reserve your space at 415.292.1233.

Congregational Community Seder
Join Rabbi Raffi Asher and Cantor Jennie Chabon for a fully catered seder. This event fills up quickly and you should sign up soon! Menu choices from the caterer are Beef Brisket or Stuffed Zucchini. Of course there will be all the Passover fixings.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 5:45pm
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft Way, Walnut Creek
Cost: $55/adults and $30/child age 4 to 12
Call for more details to 925-933-5397
Or just send your check payable to Congregation B’nai Tikvah to the address above.

Congregational Seder
led by Rabbi Cohen

Rabbi Yonatan Cohen, very friendly man.

This Pesach, join your CBI family for a community celebration of the Second Seder. WE will learn, share, eat, and celebrate our exodus from Mitzraim! Catered fleischig meal with ample vegetarian options.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 8:15 pm
Place: Congregation Beth Israel, 1630 Bancroft Way, Berkeley
Cost: Adults $50, Children 6-12 $18
Info: 510.843.5246 www.cbiberkeley.org

Passover Seder
You, your family and friends are invited to join Kol Hadash for a unique humanist Passover seder service and Sephardic catered meal. Join us as we rededicate ourselves to the ideals of freedom for all people. Service led by Rabbi Jay Heyman, with music by Bon Singer.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 6:00 pm
Place: Albany Community Center, 1249 Marin Avenue, Albany
Sponsored by: Kol Hadash
Cost: Adult (13 and over) $65.00; child 4-12 $25.00
Pay: By Mail-send with your check to Kol Hadash Passover Seder, P. O. Box 2777, Berkeley, CA 94710.
Info: Alana Shindler Phone: (510) 551-6137 or passover@kolhadash.org
http://www.kolhadash.org for more information.

Intergenerational Community Seder
Our lively 2nd night intergenerational seder with your participation begins at 6:30 PM. Adults with have the choice of the following entrees: chicken, salmon, mushroom caps.
Children under nine: chicken nuggets and mashed potatoes.
Optional childcare is available for ages 3-9 with reservation.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 6:00 pm
Place: Beth Israel-Judea, 625 Brotherhood Way, San Francisco
Cost: Adults $22.00, Child $11.00, Childcare $8.00
For information, please call Marcia Brooks at 415.586.8833, x25 for reservations.
office@bij.org

Second Night Passover Seder
Second Night Passover Seder for the Whole Family. Join us for this child and family friendly celebration.
Sponsored by: Peninsula Temple Sholom

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 6:30 pm
Place: Airport Westin Hotel, 1 Old Bayshore Highway, Millbrae
Cost: Adults $45.00; Child (6-13) $35.00; Child (under 6) $23.00
Pay: By Mail
Info contact: Georgina Baca Phone: (650) 697-2266 or gbaca@sholom.org

Community Passover Seder 2008
Join with the Kol Shofar community for a joyous and inspiring participatory Second Night Passover Seder led by Rabbi Chai Levy. The evening will be filled with music, stories, teachings, discussion and food! A delicious Kosher-for-Pesach dinner from Mangia Nosh will be served. Open to members and non-members alike, and appropriate for adults and older children. Dinner will be served at approximately 9:15pm. We'll have plenty of food to nosh on beforehand!

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 7:30pm
Place:
Congregation Kol Shofar, 215 Blackfield Drive, Tiburon
If you have any questions please contact Adam Eisendrath at 415-388-1818 x 18.
Space is limited. Reservations are taken on a first come, first serve basis. Payment in full must accompany this form (http://www.kolshofar.org/getDoc.do?sid=258) and be received by April 15, 2008 Mail to: 215 Blackfield Drive, Tiburon, CA 94920 or Fax to: 415-388-5423
Visit http://www.kolshofar.org for more information.

More than Four Questions:
A Seder for those seeking connection to Jewish life
Are you seeking connections to Jewish life and community? Do you want to explore Jewish identity in an open environment? Then this Passover Seder is for YOU! Join us to explore your questions about Jewish identity, and how to connect with Jewish life and community as we: tell the Passover story, carry out the rituals, and enjoy the Seder meal. No experience necessary!

Rabbi Bridget at Jewish Gateways, she's just as nice as she looks.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 5:45pm
Place: JGate: Your Gateway to Jewish Life, 409 Liberty St., El Cerrito
Info: 510.559.8140 www.jgate.org
Cost: Potluck or a $10 donation

Community Passover Seder at Chabad
Enjoy the holiday of freedom in the warm company of friends and family! Join us for an inspirational Seder, complete with authentic hand-baked Shmurah Matzah, four royal cups of kosher wine, and a gourmet Passover dinner, all in a royal and traditional setting.

Date: April 20
Time: 6:45 - 8:45 pm
Place: Piedmont Community Hall 711 Highland Ave, Piedmont
Space is very limited. All Jews, regardless of background or affiliation, are welcome to join.

12th Annual Passover Freedom Seder
With Rabbi Elisheva Salamo
Experience an innovative Seder and delicious holiday meal. special guest speakers address various aspects of social and economic justice through moving personal stories

We are very excited that Be'chol Lashon representative, Dr. Denise Davis, will be helping to lead the service with Rabbi Elisheva Salama this year. This will be a multicultural Passover seder filled with education, dialogue and celebration. The crossing of the Red Sea from slavery to freedom during the Exodus was experienced by the ancient Israelites, but its message has been central to many liberation movements throughout history. Our historical and continuing struggles for freedom and justice are honored at this special, kosher seder meal.

Date: Friday, April 25
Time: 6:30pm
Place: San Francisco JCC, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: $30
Info: 415-292-1200
www.jccsf.org

Community Passover Seder
The Community, including unaffiliated and interfaith families, is invited to join the Congregation in a great festive retelling of the liberation of the Jewish people from slavery. The Seder will feature Passover songs and music. A Kosher-style holiday meal will be served. The service will be led by Rabbinic Intern Carla Fenves.

Date: Saturday, April 26
Time: 5:30 pm
Place: Castro Valley Community Center, 18988 Lake Chabot Rd. Castro Valley
Cost: Adult $30.00; Child (12 & under) $10.00
Pay: At Event, By Mail
Send registration information and payment by check made out to:
Congregation Shir Ami to: Congregation Shir Ami attn: Barbara Heimowitz 4529 Malabar Avenue Castro Valley, CA 94546

Vocolot
the World's Best Jewish Music Ensemble
Vocolot is going to Amsterdam! Please help them prepare for the competition
to be held in May. Join them at their Bon Voyage House Concert.
Opening for Vocolot: Ira & Julia Levin
Refreshment reception following the show

Date: Saturday, April 26
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Doyle Street Cohousing Complex, 5514 Doyle Street, Emeryville
Doors open at 6:45pm
Minimum Donation: $10
Reservations Recommended: Vocolot@mindspring.com
We will ask for your feedback after the show
Fundraising donations for our trip can be made to:
http://www.tbssanleandro.org/donate.html#VocolotConcert
http://www.vocolot.com

Yom HaZikharon
Join us as we remember those who have fallen in defense of the State of Israel. An evening of Israeli culture presented by members of our East Bay Israeli community will follow the commemoration.

Date: Tuesday, May 6
Time: 7:30 p.m.
Place: Temple Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland
Admission is free.
For more information: marilyn@jfed.org or call 510.839.2900 ext.256.

DAWN '08
The Contemporary Jewish Museum and Reboot, are pleased to announce DAWN '08, an all-night, arts and culture festival and celebration of Shavuot at the grand opening of the Contemporary Jewish Museum, offering guests the opportunity to groove, learn, explore and mingle at the Museum's new building and exhibition space before the doors open to the public the following morning.

Date: Saturday, June 7
Time: 8pm - Sunrise
The new building is located on Mission Street between 3rd & 4th streets in San Francisco
Co-presented with Reboot

Passover - Getting ready

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Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

You’ll see below that I have loads of seders! My gratitude goes to my dear friend and colleague, Rabbi Bridget Wynne and her associate, Bon, who gathered most of the seders! Rabbi Bridget is the director of Jewish Gateways in El Cerrito. Take a look at her website to see the innovative and engaging events she offers. If you live in San Francisco and wish you could go but just can’t make the drive on a Friday night, please put yourself on her list. She hopes to start serving the City in the coming year!
www.jewishgateways.org

There are more Community Seders than I could list here. Be sure to check planitjewish.com or just call me (number at the bottom of the email) or call Gail at Jewish Community Information and Referral at 415-777-4545 if you can’t find anything or are confused.

Passover
I enjoyed seeing a number of you at the workshop on Sunday. For the remaining 700 of you who didn’t make it, here’s what we covered.

Rabbi Mates-Muchin described the elements of the Passover table and each of the elements on the seder plate, why some plates have five and some six designated items. You can go here for an online visual of the plate and it’s parts.
http://urj.org/holidays/pesach/plate/

She talked about the pillow, the salt, the different foods for different Jewish cultures and the different haggadot (the book read for the seder) and why there are so many.

Rabbi Mates Muchin in action

Workshop participants browsing through haggadot.

The First step preparing for Passover - cleaning
In most cultures there is a “spring cleaning” that takes place. For Judaism, it is specifically attached to the commandment to get rid of all leavening and associated products.

The commandment is to get rid of chamatz. Chamatz is defined as:
Fermented or leavened wheat, rye, oats, spelt and barley. When these grains come in contact with water, they leaven within 18 minutes. In the case of hot or salted water, leavening takes place instantly.
Chametz may not be consumed either by eating or drinking, and may not be held in one's possession, nor may any benefit be derived from Chametz. Grain flour is commonly produced from grains that have been washed and tempered. Tempering is the process by which grains are softened by soaking in water, and this flour and all products made with it are, therefore, chametz.
(From the OUKosher.org website)

For lots of Passover information from a traditional perspective check out:
http://www.ou.org/chagim/pesach/

No matter how far you intend to go with your observance of the Passover rules it is good to know what they are. Then you can make an informed decision about what you will do.

If you go to a Jewish website, yahoo group or other communal spot you’ll see people refer to “the C word” – cleaning the house for Passover. You don’t have to make it a burden. My kids loved the search for chamatz. True, I did the real cleaning but they went through all the pantry and shelves pulling out cereal, pasta and beans. Everything went into a box that we “sold” to our next door neighbor. She gamely gave me a dollar that went up on the frig under a magnet.

Find the fun in each step of Pesach (Passover)! There is so much fun to be had.

General Passover Information
If you would like a liberal overview of Passover take a look at www.urj.org (the Reform movement’s website) where you’ll find lots of information. Go to their home page and click around on the Passover links:

www.urj.org

Locally the SF Federation has a great page with info -
www.jholidays.org

This will take you straight to the Passover page:
http://www.sfjcf.org/resources/jholidays/links/default.asp?holidayurl=passover&holidayname=Pesach

But don’t click on the “Mishmash” link - it isn’t a Passover page and it won’t let you click “back” to the previous page. I’ve ask Judy and Gail to fix it.

Cooking
Start exploring the recipes that are either specifically for Passover or can work for Passover because they don’t contain any of the forbidden foods.

Haroset/Charoses - by any name, it’s darn good!
Check out some charoses recipes that I posted online at:
www.jewishinterfaith.blogspot.com
Clink on Passover and you’ll be sure to find it.

Most of them are from the Charoset tasting at Sunday’s Passover workshop. One is a California charoset made with avocado. Another is one I got from the Multiracial Jewish Network and is Haitian with tropical fruits. I also list the standard Ashekenazi apples and walnuts recipe. Try something new this year. Have at least two charoses recipes and have your guests do a taste test for themselves.

Some recipes using matzah:
http://urj.org/holidays/pesach/recipes/

Kosher for Passover recipes
http://oukosher.org/index.php/passover/recipes
http://www.koshercooking.com/recipes/passover/asso.html

EVENTS
Freedom: The Legacy of Passover (Oakland)
Kabbalat Shabbat (San Francisco)
The Role and Place of scripture in the Sikh and Jewish Faiths (San Jose)
Yeashore Chanty Sing & Bonfire (San Francisco)
Women’s Seder (Walnut Creek)
Spring Holidays - Cooking & Rituals Workshop (San Francisco)
Fractures Within The Abrahamic Faiths (San Francisco)
Do-Ahead Passover Seder (San Francisco)
Beginning Jewish Living, Part 2: Living a Life of Holiness (San Rafael)
Passover Congregational Seder (Richmond)
Community Second Night Seder (Livermore)
Congregational Family Seder - Second Night of Passover (San Francisco)
Seder for Adults on the Second Night of Passover (San Francisco)
12th Annual Passover Freedom Seder (San Francisco)
Women’s Seder (Redwood City)
Jerusalem: One City, Three Faiths (Palo Alto)

Freedom: The Legacy of Passover
Please join us this Saturday, April 5 for a Synaplex Shabbat! Start your day with yoga at 9AM, or if you’d prefer, join former Lehrhaus Judaica president Ken Cohen for a discussion of whether the Biblical story of the exodus really happened. For the children, we have the parent-led Shabbat Mishpacha and Junior Congregation led by Susan Simon. During the main service, SFSU Professor Marc Dollinger will speak about the impact of the civil rights movement on American Jewish politics.
After the Kiddush lunch, our program continues with a Passover-themed speed shmooze, followed by two programs: Ben Goldstone and Danielle Saunders will explore inner journeys toward freedom and Sandy Margolin will examine haggadot and the seder (order) of the seder.
Childcare is provided during the program sessions.
Come for one program or spend the day. We look forward to seeing you there!

Date: Saturday, April 5
Time: starts at 9am
Place: Temple Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland
phone: 510-832-0936
For program details, please check out the Shabbat programming link at the www.tbaoakland.org

Kabbalat Shabbat
Join us for Shabbat Services with our Koleynu Choir followed by a delicious Oneg of Middle Eastern food catered by Sunrise Deli.

Date: Friday, April 4
Time: 6pm
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California Street, San Francisco
FREE of course
For more information contact Aviva Hicks at ahicks@sherithisrael.org or 415-346-1720 ext 24.

The Role and Place of scripture in the Sikh and Jewish Faiths
The Living Word series will offer 12 monthly lectures, each exploring some aspect of the Sri Guru Granth Sahib, and a talk on a similar theme about the scripture of another faith, to be followed by a discussion session. Speakers: Dr. I. J. Singh - The Role and Place of scripture in the Sikh Faith; Dr. David Mesher - The Role and Place of scripture in the Jewish Faith.

Date: Saturday, April 5
Time: 2:00-4:00 pm
Place: Room BBC 004, Business Classroom Bldg, San Jose State University, San Jose
Free event.
Sponsored by the Chardi Kalaa Foundation in conjunction with the Guru Nanak Heritage Institute of Punjabi Studies at SJSU.

Yeashore Chanty Sing & Bonfire
The Yeashore Community invites all ye ashore to a Chanty Sing with the National Park Service, after Havdalah!
Look for a windsock that looks like a fish. (Rain or Shine! - Bring an umbrella.)
At 8 p.m., after Havdalah, we will join the National Park Service for a free public sing-along. We will have a fun evening singing songs sailors sang sailing the seas, aboard ship, inside, at the Hyde St. Historic Pier, in San Francisco. If you are late, just tell the person at the gate you are with the Yeashore Community.
No facility in music or singing needed - only a desire for song and spirit!! We will share our voices into the night. Don't want to sing? Then come down and listen. Please bring many friends and musical instruments, a mug for hot cider or hot chocolate, plus a blanket if it's cool, and join the fun!

Date: Saturday, April 5
Time: 7:30 p.m.
Place: We meet at Hyde and Jefferson Streets in S.F. by the Hyde St. Pier.
(For maps please visit: yeashore.org)
Info: Yeashore@aol.com

Women’s Seder
This is a seder just for women - daughters are welcome to join their moms. Led by Cantor Jennie Chabon, this is a wonderful way to get ready for Passover. There is no cost for the event, just bring a Sephardic dish to share.

Wondering what a "Sephardic" dish is? The Sephardic Jews are the Jews that originated in the area that was ancient Spain. They developed slightly different food customs for Passover. They allow the eating of corn and beans. Call Diane Leventhal for food ideas and to RSVP at 925-837-1026.

Date: Sunday, April 6 Sunday
Time: 1pm
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft Way, Walnut Creek
Synagogue office number is 925-933-5397

Spring Holidays - Cooking & Rituals Workshop
Creating Your Own Rituals - Passover highlights the theme of liberation from slavery and is commemorated with a traditional seder meal, where the order of rituals reminds us of past and current injustice. Easter, the most holy of Christian sacred days, highlights the themes of rebirth and renewal and is a time of celebration and feasting. Explore these themes and rituals, discuss your own past experiences and learn how to prepare foods that are traditionally eaten at the seder and at this season.

Date: Sunday, April 6
Time: 1:00pm
Place: JCCSF, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: Couple/Family $10.00
Contact Helena McMahon at (415) 292-1252 or hmcmahon@jccsf.org
info: http://www.jccsf.org/content_main.aspx?catid=212#2212

Fractures Within The Abrahamic Faiths:
Can We Get Along In Our Own Families?
Speakers: James Donahue, president of GTU, Mahmoud Ayoub, distinguished Islamic Studies and Comparative Religions professor at Temple University, and Marvin Goodman, director of the Board of Rabbis of Northern California.

Date: Sunday, April 6
Time: 4:30-7:00 pm
Place: Islamic Society of San Francisco, 20 Jones Street, San Francisco
Cost: $20 includes dinner.
Info: Paul Chaffee - (415) 775-4635

Do-Ahead Passover Seder
Learn how to prepare the Passover Seder entirely in advance. The delicious menu combines traditional favorites with contemporary innovations, drawing from American, Sephardic and Ashkenazi cuisines. We will also discuss cleaning and koshering your house for Passover, the Haggadah, the Seder plate, Kosher for Passover foods and resources to guide you easily through the spring holiday. Some of the dishes you will prepare include Matzo Ball Soup, California Gefilte Fish, Mixed Vegetable Tsimmis, Pavlova and Viennese Chocolate Truffle Torte. Students will receive written recipes and get to taste lots of samples!

Date: Tuesday, April 8 Tuesday
Time; 6:30pm
Place: JCCSF, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: Members $45.00; Public; $50.00
Contact: JCCSF Registration Hotline
Phone: (415) 292-1278 or info@jccsf.org
info: http://www.jccsf.org/content_main.aspx?catid=331#63

Beginning Jewish Living, Part 2: Living a Life of Holiness
with Rabbi Noa Kushner
The word 'spirituality' seems to be everywhere these days, but what does it truly mean to pursue a modern life of holiness? Required book: A Book of Life, by Rabbi Michael Strassfeld.

Date: Tuesday, April 15
Time: 7:30 - 8:50 pm
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
for more info call Jerrine at (415) 479-3441
www.rodefsholom.org

Passover Congregational Seder
Please join the Temple Beth Hillel community at a Congregational Seder on the Second Night of Passover.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 5:00 p.m.
Place: Temple Beth Hillel, 801 Park Central, Richmond
Cost: Adults $30/each, children (7-12) $18, children (3-6)$8/each
Reservations are required.
Reservations must be returned to the Temple Office with payment in full no later than April 15. Send your check made out to Temple Beth Hillel to PO Box 20910, El Sobrante CA 94820-0910
Please bring Kosher-for-Passover Desserts to share.
Sacramental wine will be provided. Please feel free to bring your own wine (Kosher for Passover) to accompany dinner.

Community Second Night Seder
The Tri-Valley Cultural Jews' Passover seder celebrates the heroism and courage of the human participants in the original freedom struggle of the Jewish people and in all struggles for freedom throughout the world. All of the traditional symbols are there, but their meaning is interpreted in a non-religious manner. The children ask the four questions, the four cups of wine are drunk, and a festive meal is held - all without mention of any supernatural forces affecting human lives or human history.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 5 pm
Place: Bothwell Center, 2466 Eighth St. in Livermore
The seder is a potluck and reservations are required. A donation of $10/adult (over 13) is requested. For reservations and food assignment, call (925) 485-1049.

Congregational Family Seder - Second Night of Passover
A family style Seder with communal singing and participation for congregants and their families, and special activities for children. Led by Rabbis Peretz Wolf-Prusan and Jonathan Jaffe, with musical accompaniment by Jonathan Bayer.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 6pm
Place: Congregation Emanu-el, 2 Lake, St. San Francisco
Cost: Adult members $55; Adult Non-members $70; Children under 10 - $25; Children 10 – 15 - $35.
Reservation deadline April 11. After April 11, if space is available, reservations will be accepted at the non-member price. Pre-registration is required: Online – http://www.emanuelsf.org/register or email Vera at veraz@emanuelsf.org .

Seder for Adults on the Second Night of Passover
at the Concordia-Argonaut
Rabbis Stephen Pearce and Lawrence Kushner and Cantor Roslyn Barak augment the Passover Seder with song, commentaries, humorous stories, and legends. This enriched Seder will be interspersed between the first courses, and before the main meal is served.

Date: Apr. 20
Time: 6:00 pm
Place: Concordia-Argonaut Club, 1142 Van Ness Avenue (at Post Street), San Francisco
Parking across Van Ness Ave. at the Cathedral Hill Hotel.
Cost: Adults only - $105.
Reservation deadline April 11. After April 11, if space is available, reservations will be accepted at the non-member price. Pre-registration is required:
Online – http://www.emanuelsf.org/register or email Vera at veraz@emanuelsf.org .

12th Annual Passover Freedom Seder
With Rabbi Elisheva Salamo
Experience an innovative Seder and delicious holiday meal. special guest speakers address various aspects of social and economic justice through moving peresonal stories

Date: Friday, April 25
Time: 6:30pm
Place: San Francisco JCC, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: $30
Info: 415-292-1200
www.jccsf.org

Women’s Seder
Dessert, fruit, wine and chocolate! Mmm! Bring your mothers, sisters and friends to Temple Beth Jacob’s first Women’s Seder.

Date: Sat., April 26
Time: 7pm
Place: Temple Beth Jacob Social Hall, 1550 Alameda de las Pulgas, Redwood City
650-366-8481
Cost: $10 per person
Kindly RSVP by April 18 to Wendy at wendy@templebethjacob.org, or simply send your check to the above address made out to "Temple Beth Jacob Sisterhood."

Jerusalem: One City, Three Faiths
The city of Jerusalem stands as a religious crossroad unlike any place in history. Karen Armstrong, a former Roman Catholic nun who teaches Judaism and is an honorary member of the Association of Muslim Social Services, has written Jerusalem: One City, Three Faiths, a walk through the city's fascinating 3,000-year history. Kevin Dincher's class draws on Armstrong's book to explore the city's religious turning points from historic battles to earthquakes to events, such as invasions by the Romans and the Crusaders, that nearly wiped out the city to current strife.
KEVIN DINCHER, M.A. counseling, M.A. philosophy, M.A. divinity

Dates: Tuesdays May 6, 13, 20 & 27
Time: 7:00-9:00pm
Place: Cubberley Campus, Studio D, ALSJCC, 4000 Middlefield Road, Palo Alto
Fee: $60 members, $80 non-members
To register call Osher Life Long Learning at 800-660-8639, ALSJCC members receive Osher member prices. For more information contact Michelle Rosengaus, 650-852-3515,

Passover - Charoses Recipes

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We had a great time at the Passover workshop today. There were five different kinds of Charoses to sample. I thought I'd post at least those five. Here are even more than five recipes...

You'll notice in the first picture that charoses is piled up in a little pyramid. This is a fun way to involve the kids. I learned it from Ira Steingroot who wrote, Keeping Passover, a book very much worth buying.

Charoses
1/4 cup pitted dates
1 large apple
1/4 cup dried apricots
1/4 cup chopped walnuts
orange juice & sweet wine to taste.
Chop up all the ingredients. You can use a blender and process just a bit at a time. Mix everything together.

Traditional Ashkenazi Apple Haroset
4 medium apples, 2 tart and 2 sweet
½ cup chopped almonds
¼ cup sweet wine
¼ cup dry wine
1T cinnamon
Peel, core and shred the apples. Add in all other ingredients.
Allow to sit for 3-6 hours, until all the flavors have blended.

Aleppian Date Preserves (Haroset Halebieh)
3 pounds pitted dates
½ cup sweet red wine
1 t ground cinnamon (optional)
1 cup chopped walnuts (optional)

Put the dates in a medium saucepan with enough water to cover. Bring to a boil, lower the heat, and simmer, stirring frequently, until the dates are soft.
Pass the date mixture through a strainer or rotary grader. A food processor may also be used.
Before serving, add the wine, cinnamon and walnuts and mix thoroughly
From Heather’s husband’s family who is Sephardic.

Surinam Haroset
10 ounces sweetened grated coconut
7 ounces almonds, ground
3 cups water, approximately
8 ounces mixed dried fruits preferably pitted prunes and dried apples, coarsely chopped
8 ounces raisins
7 ounces dried apricots, chopped
8 ounces dried pears, chopped
2 or 3 t cinnamon
12 ounces cherry preserves
2/3 cup sweet wine

In a large, heavy pot, combine all the ingredients except the jam and wine, add water to cover. Simmer over low heat until the mixture begins to thicken, stirring occasionally with a wooden spoon.
Add additional water as the mixture thickens to prevent it from drying out or sticking to the pot.
After about 45 minutes stir in the cherry preserves. Cook approximately 15 minutes longer until the coconut has softened and the mixture is extremely thick. Let stand and cool. Stir in the wine. The mixture should be moist and thick.
Refrigerate until served. Might need additional wine to remoisten it.

California Haroset
1 large avocado, peeled and diced
juice of 1/2 lemon
1/2 cup sliced almonds
1/3 cup raisins
4 seedless dates
2 figs or prunes
1 whole orange, peel and sections
2 tbsp. apple juice
2 tbsp. matzo meal

Toss the avocado and lemon juice in a bowl. Set aside. In a processor or blender, place the almonds, raisins, dates, and figs. Process until coarsely chopped. Add the orange peel and orange sections and process briefly to combine. Add the avocado and process just 1 or 2 seconds more. Transfer the mixture to a glass bowl and gently fold in the apple juice and the matzo meal. Cover with plastic wrap and chill in the refrigerator.
Yield: 3 cups
Source: The Gourmet Jewish Cook
by Judy Zeidler
William Morrow & co., 1988)

A Haitian Jew listed this interesting recipe on the Multiracial Jewish Network
Barbara's HAITIAN HAROSET
1 cup dried papaya, diced*
1 cup dried mango, diced*
1 cup guava paste, diced*
1 cup shredded, sweetened coconut flakes
1 cup or more raw cashew nuts (or almonds or peanuts)
1 medium ripe fresh banana, cut up
Manischewitz Concord Grape Wine

Combine all ingredients in food processor with steel blade and process until blended to desired consistency. (Not quite a paste, still slightly chunky is good; it will have to be processed enough to incorporate the very sticky guava paste.) Makes about 4 cups haroset. Serve with matza crackers and red (cranberry or beet) horseradish for a "Hillel Sandwich."

*preferably unsulphured, reduced sugar dried fruits. Dried pineapple can also be added or substituted for any of the dried fruits listed. For Passover 2007, I used almonds and two packages of Dole diced mixed tropical fruits that has papaya, mango, and pineapple and omitted the guava paste.)

Haroset for Passover in the Jewish Community of Rome
From Celebrating Italy by Carol Field

Makes 15 to 20 servings
1 ½ cups plus 1 tablespoon (180 grams) walnuts
1/3 cup plus 1 tablespoon (45 grams) hazelnuts, skinned
1 cup (150 grams) almonds
1/3 cup (60 grams) raisins, coarsely chopped
6 or 7 (75 grams) pitted prunes, coarsely chopped
9 or 10 (75 grams) dates, coarsely chopped
4 (75 grams) figs, coarsely chopped, optional
1 pound cooking apples, peeled and coarsely chopped
1 pound cooking peas, peeled and coarsely chopped
¾ (150 grams) cup sugar
¾ teaspoon ground cinnamon
½ teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
½ cup kosher red wine
1 tablespoon (15 grams) pine nuts for garnish

Toast all the nuts in a 350 degree oven 10 minutes. Using a food processor fitted with the steel blade or a sharp knife, coarsely chop them. Combine dried fruits, apples, pears, and nuts in a heavy-bottomed saucepan. Stir in the sugar, cinnamon, and nutmeg and pour over the wine. Cook over very low heat 2 to 3 hours, until the mixture is as thick as preserves. Stir frequently to keep the mixture from sticking to the bottom of the pan. You may need to add 2 to 3 tablespoons red wine during the cooking. Serve in a dish and decorate with pine nuts.

Haroset for Passover in the Jewish Community of Rome
From Celebrating Italy by Carol Field
Makes 15 to 20 servings

1 ½ cups plus 1 tablespoon (180 grams) walnuts
1/3 cup plus 1 tablespoon (45 grams) hazelnuts, skinned
1 cup (150 grams) almonds
1/3 cup (60 grams) raisins, coarsely chopped
6 or 7 (75 grams) pitted prunes, coarsely chopped
9 or 10 (75 grams) dates, coarsely chopped
4 (75 grams) figs, coarsely chopped, optional
1 pound cooking apples, peeled and coarsely chopped
1 pound cooking peas, peeled and coarsely chopped
¾ (150 grams) cup sugar
¾ teaspoon ground cinnamon
½ teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
½ cup kosher red wine
1 tablespoon (15 grams) pine nuts for garnish

Toast all the nuts in a 350 degree oven 10 minutes. Using a food processor fitted with the steel blade or a sharp knife, coarsely chop them. Combine dried fruits, apples, pears, and nuts in a heavy-bottomed saucepan. Stir in the sugar, cinnamon, and nutmeg and pour over the wine. Cook over very low heat 2 to 3 hours, until the mixture is as thick as preserves. Stir frequently to keep the mixture from sticking to the bottom of the pan. You may need to add 2 to 3 tablespoons red wine during the cooking. Serve in a dish and decorate with pine nuts.

Passover is coming!

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Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Spring is here and that means Passover is just around the corner. My parsley is waving in the flowerbeds, ready to be snipped for the Passover table.

If you are coming on Sunday to the Passover program, please shoot me a quick email and let me know.

Passover: The Set Table
The ultimate Jewish holiday: Passover! Whether you’ve never had a seder or you consider yourself a pro, you’ll learn something at this workshop.. We’ll literally have a set table - with all the elements identified and explained. We encourage you to bring ideas and practice from your own tradition and family. We’ll have sample foods and recipes as well as an assortment of Hagadot for you to peruse. Come for the fun; come for the food!

Date: Sunday, March 30
Time: 11am to 1pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
FREE
Co-sponsored by Temple Sinai and Building Jewish Bridges
I hope you’ll be joining me. Call me for more info at 510-839-2900 x347 or email dawn@jfed.org

Passover is acomin’
Next week we’ll move into April and the entire Jewish world will be thinking PASSOVER. It is time to talk about how make the foods that create memories, how to keep little people entertained and engaged and how to be sure the adults aren’t bored by child-level discussion nor esoteric snore-fests. I’ll give you a run down on Sunday and if you miss it, I’ll be emailing you ideas as the next 20 days go by.

Want to bail on the whole cooking thing and attend a community seder? Leave the cooking to the experts (and the caterers) and just pay! I’m looking around for Community seder options. Let me know if your congregation is holding one and I’ll include it in the email. Need to find one, give me a call.

Spiritual Health in a Scientific World
There was a terrific article by Rabbi Dean Kertesz in his congregation’s (Temple Beth Hillel in Richmond) newsletter in January titled, Assessing Our Spiritual Health. He reflects on the human “need for tangible proof of the intangible.” He sides with the scientists even as he examines the value of prayer and its impact on the human condition.
http://www.templebethhillelrichmond.org/community/shofar/0108.pdf

EVENTS
Shabbat and a Celebration of: A Mystical Haggadah (Berkeley)
A Sabbath Morning Soul Journey (Oakland)
Celebrating Passover with Young Children (Berkeley)
Jewish Vote 2008 Forum (Oakland)
Got Shabbat? (Lafayette)
Women’s Seder (Walnut Creek)
Looking Beyond The Torah (Lafayette)
Dance and Party After Shabbat Service (Los Altos)
Taste of Freedom: Passover Tasting (El Cerrito)
Got Shabbat? (San Francisco)
Bible by the Bay (Palo Alto)
Model Seder (Oakland)
Jewish Playgroup! (Walnut Creek)
A Festive Learning Seder for Families (Pleasanton)
Congregational Community Seder (Walnut Creek)
More than Four Questions (El Cerrito)
Congregational Passover Second Night Seder (San Leandro)
Community Passover Seder (Livermore)

Shabbat and a Celebration of: A Mystical Haggadah
Join us this Shabbat as we celebrate the recent publication of "A Mystical Haggadah" by our beloved member and teacher, Rabbi Eliahu Klein. We will gather for an early kiddush in the social hall (approx. 11:30 am) followed by a lecture in the Sanctuary (approx. 12:00-12:30 pm).
"A Mystical Haggadah" explores the mystical, meditative, and empowering aspects of Jewish traditions as seen through the rich and meaningful Passover eve Seder ritual. This Haggadah also includes many Hassidic teachings and stories that have never been presented to the English reading audience, as well as a step-by-step guide to the fifteen steps of the Seder.

We look forward to celebrating with all the community.
Good Shabbos! From Rabbi Yonatan Cohen

Date: Saturday, March 29
Time: Approx. 11:30am
Place: Congregation Beth Israel, 1630 Bancroft Way, Berkeley
Synagogue number: (510) 843-8052
This is a traditional community so don’t expect to write or take notes at the discussion. Dawn

A Sabbath Morning Soul Journey
Please join Cantor Richard Kaplan and Rabbi SaraLeya Schley for -
Raza d'Shabbat: The Secret of the Sabbath
"More than we keep the Sabbath, the Sabbath keeps us"
Our journey will feature chants and melodies from Jewish communities around the world,
meditation, and a participatory Torah service led by Rabbi SaraLeya Schley.
Hazzan Kaplan will lead a davvenen that takes the neshamah (soul) through the Four Worlds,
as taught by the Jewish Mystical Tradition:
*Body - Birchot haShachar / Morning Blessings
*Heart - Pesukey deZimrah / Songs of Praise
*Mind - Shema / Stretching the In-tuition
*Spirit - Amidah / Merging/Hitkalelut
Our Siddur has been especially created for these gatherings in which the prayer texts are presented in Hebrew, transliteration, and translation - all set up linearly - thus inviting all levels of Hebrew skill.

Date: Saturday, March 29
Time: 9:30am
Place: In the Chapel at Temple Beth Abraham,
If you are going for the first time, call the office for specific directions into the chapel. Beth Abraham is doing some remodeling and it can be confusing to get into the right place.

More information: TBA Office @ 510-832-0936
www.tbaoakland.org

Celebrating Passover with Young Children
We hope you'll join us as we explore many fun and age-appropriate ways to make Passover exciting and meaningful for young children! Janet Harris will lead this workshop for parents.
Please RSVP as soon as you can to Deb Fink: debincali@aol.com.

Date: Sunday, March 30
Time: 10:30am - 12:00pm
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley
phone: 510-549-9447

Jewish Vote 2008 Forum
Join us for an enlightening discussion that focuses on a range of Jewish ideas and issues in the contemporary election 2008 context. The program will touch on questions related to foreign policy, national security and domestic issues.
Welcoming Remarks: Rabbi Mark Bloom, Temple Beth Abraham
Panelists: Howie Perlin, Moderator
Howie Perlin is Chair of the East Bay Jewish Community Relations Council.
Joel Freid, Panelist, Joel Freid is an attorney and a California Democratic Party Central Committee Member, Oakland
Larry Greenfield, Panelist, Larry Greenfield is the California Director of the Republican Jewish Coalition.

Date: Wednesday, April 2
Time: 6:45pm Registration and Refreshments
7:00 – 9:00pm Program
Place: Temple Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland, In the Chapel
To RSVP please contact: Eve Gordon, Temple Beth Abraham at emgordon@comcast.net or (925) 253-6028
Or contact Myrna David, JCRC East Bay Regional Director at myrna@jfed.org or (510) 839-2900, X217
ALL ARE WELCOME!
Sponsored by Temple Beth Abraham, The JCRC East Bay Region, the Northern California Chapter of the Republican Jewish Coalition & the Raoul Wallenberg Jewish Democratic Club

Got Shabbat?
We’d love to have you join us for “come as you are” family services on the first Friday of the month. Bring the whole family for a delicious pizza dinner. Salad and challah are also provided. There’ll be a lively song session, and interactive Shabbat services followed by a yummy dessert oneg, activities for children and Israeli dancing. Please pre-pay or reserve space for dinner

Click here for the registration form, or call the Religious School office at 284-9191 to reserve space for dinner . Pizza dinner for the whole family is $18. Individuals are $10 Mail checks to Temple Isaiah with Got Shabbat in the memo line.

Date: Friday, April 4
Time: 6:30pm preceding services
Place: Temple Isaiah, 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette
Phone: 925-283-8575

Women’s Seder
This is a seder just for women - daughters are welcome to join their moms. Led by Cantor Jennie Chabon, this is a wonderful way to get ready for Passover. There is no cost for the event, just bring a Sephardic dish to share.

Wondering what a “Sephardic” dish is? The Sephardic Jews are the Jews that originated in the area that was ancient Spain. They developed slightly different food customs for Passover. They allow the eating of corn and beans. Call Diane Leventhal for food ideas and to RSVP at 925-837-1026.

Date: Sunday, April 6
Time: 1pm
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft Way, Walnut Creek
Synagogue office number is 925-933-5397.

Looking Beyond The Torah
Rabbi Graetz will lead us to lesser known books of the Hebrew Bible and their meaning. From Judges to Prophets and a taste of Wisdom literature students will better understand how the Bible grew and what each part contributed to the shaping of Jewish beliefs and practices. Since only selected passages will be read during class, reading the Book of Judges, the prophet Jeremiah and the Book of Lamentations is recommended but not required.

Sundays, April 6-13-27 and May 4
Time 11:15am to 12:30pm
Place: Temple Isaiah, 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette
www.temple-isaiah.org

Dance and Party After Shabbat Service
Let the music of Shabbat carry you away…and let the party begin! Our celebration continues with dancing, food and fun. We’ll nosh and dance the night away (Israeli style) led by Shirley Smith, dance teacher extraordinaire. Bring your dancing shoes and get ready to party. For all ages and levels of experience. See you there!

Date: April 11
Time: After the 6:15pm Shabbat service
Place: Beth Am, in the Social Hall, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Synagogue phone: 650-493-4661

Taste of Freedom: Passover Tasting
Jewish Gateways invites you to join us for pre-Passover tasting & teaching. Passover starts April 19. In preparation, we want to offer you various tastes of freedom! All are welcome.
Join us for this delicious, no-experience-necessary Shabbat dinner that will include laughter and learning. We'll try different versions of favorite Passover foods and explore their meanings. You'll go home with recipes and handouts so you can enjoy your favorite foods and teachings later on.

Date: Friday, April 11
Time: 6:15pm - gather
6:30 - Candle lighting and dinner, during which we'll explore the meanings of Passover foods in lively and interactive discussions with Rabbi Bridget
8:30 - dessert and time to "schmooze" (hang out and chat)
Place: Jewish Gateways' cozy home near El Cerrito Plaza and BART station
Childcare: available free by reservation

Space is limited, so RSVP is required.
Please contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at Jewish Gateways, (510) 559-8140, or rabbibridget@jewishgateways.org, to make a reservation and get directions and your food assignment. If your schedule doesn't allow you to bring a dish to share, we offer you the option of contributing $7 toward the dinner.

Got Shabbat?
Join us for a Shabbat morning experience at Temple Emanu-El. Families with children of all ages are welcome! We will meet on the 2nd Saturday morning of each month. Starting at 10:45 am, your family will enjoy a short service, arts-n-crafts, music with Jonathan Bayer…and of course, a nosh! Mark your calendars for Got Shabbat: May 10, June 14.

Date: Saturday, April 12
Time: 10:45am
Place: Emanu-el, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
Phone: 415-751-2535
www.emanuelsf.org

Bible by the Bay
Come to Lehrhaus Judaica’s Jewish Education extravaganza for adults!
1pm is Keynote speaker Prof. Ziony Zevit: Were We Slaves in Egypt? Was There an Exodus? A Conquest of Canaan? Biblical Archeology and Common Sense
2 - 3:15pm Workshop Session 1
Ken Cohen- Hardening Pharaoh’s Heart: The Moral Dilemma
Maha Elgenaidi- The Bible & Islam
Prof. Charlotte Fonrobert- How the Rabbis Read and Misread the Bible
Dr. Jehon Grist- How Did They Write the Bible? The Origins of the Hebrew Alphabet
Rabbi Daniel Kohn- Jerusalem: From Biblical Times to Today
Igael Gurin Malous- Independence: Narratives of the Nation, a State and Ourselves from the Bible to Modern-day Israel
Rabbi Noam Silverman- Unauthorized Surveillance in the Bible: 12 Spies caught between Vision and Reality
3:45 – 5pm Workshop Session 2
Rabbi Alan Lew- Heart on a Leash: The Biblical Story of Balaam and his Ass; A Cautionary Tale about the Importance of Mindful Living
Yiskah Rosenfeld- What the Bible Left Out: Miriam in Modern Poetry
Nitzhia Shaked- Basic Human Rights in Biblical and Jewish Law
Rabbi Henry Shreibman- The Bible and Mesopotamia: Myth, Law, Humor and Wisdom
Rabbi Dan Steinberg- The Power of Regret: Abraham’s Secret Trial

Date: Sunday April 13
Time: 1- 5pm
Place: Kehillah Jewish High School, 3900 Fabian Way, Palo Alto
Phone number at the high school is (650) 213-9600
You may register at www.biblebythebay.org or by calling Lehrhaus at (510) 845-6420.

Model Seder
Are you . . .
Sometimes lost at the seder table?
Planning to lead a Pesach seder but feeling a little shaky on the details?
Just searching for a clearer sense of the meaning and order of the Pesach seder?
Please join Rabbi David Kasher for an instructional MODEL SEDER.

Date: Sunday, April 13
Time: 7:00 – 8:30 pm
Place: Oakland Hebrew Day School, Library, 2nd floor, 5500 Redwood Rd, Oakland
Free
For more program details, call Melanie Marcus at (510) 531-8600, ext. 26.
This event is co-sponsored by the National Jewish Outreach Program and OHDS Adult Education.

Jewish Playgroup!
A playgroup for families with children under 6. Circle time, Jewish holiday activities, and fun games. Schmooze while your children play. Everyone is welcome- bring your friends! Free!

Dates: One Sunday a month, April 13, May 18
Time: 10 to 11am
Place: Contra Costa JCC, 2071 Tice Valley Blvd., Walnut Creek
For info or to RSVP: Tanya@jfed.org or 925-943-5238
Sponsored by The Jewish Community Federation of the Greater East Bay, The Contra Costa JCC, and the Tikvah Chapter of Hadassah

A Festive Learning Seder for Families
Why is this night different from all other nights? Find out!
Learn more about the Passover holiday
Tips for infusing your Seder with holiday fun
No experience required
Scrumptious festive meal prepared especially by FAZ.

Date: Thursday, April 17
Time: 6:30- 8:30 pm
Place: Faz Restaurant, 5121 Hopyard Rd., Pleasanton
Cost: $40 per adult, $18 children ages 4-12, Free for children 3 and under
RSVP to tanya@jfed.org or call 925.943.5238
Led by Rabbi James Brandt, Executive Director CJLL
Sponsored by The Jewish Community Federation of The Greater East Bay Regional Office, Faz Restaurant, Center for Jewish Living and Learning, and The Shalom Chapter of Hadassah

Congregational Community Seder
Join Rabbi Raffi Asher and Cantor Jennie Chabon for a fully catered seder. This event fills up quickly and you should sign up soon! Menu choices from the caterer are Beef Brisket or Stuffed Zucchini. Of course there will be all the Passover fixings.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: Arrive at 5:45pm, seder begins promptly at 6pm
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft Way, Walnut Creek
Cost: $55/adults and $30/child age 4 to 12
Call for more details to 925-933-5397
Or just send your check payable to Congregation B’nai Tikvah to the address above.

More than Four Questions
A Seder for those seeking connection to Jewish life
Join us to explore your questions about Jewish identity, and how to connect with Jewish life and community, as we:
tell the Passover story, carry out the rituals, and enjoy the seder meal.
No experience necessary!

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 5:45pm
Place: Jewish Gateways' cozy home near El Cerrito Plaza and BART station
Childcare: available by reservation
Cost: potluck or donation
Space is limited, so RSVP is required.
Please contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at Jewish Gateways, (510) 559-8140, or rabbibridget@jewishgateways.org, for more information, and to make a reservation and get directions and your food assignment. If your schedule doesn't allow you to bring a dish to share, we offer you the option of contributing $10 toward the dinner.

Congregational Passover Second Night Seder
The dinner should be scrumptious! The chicken matzah balls should be fluffy, the ten plagues dealt with, and all we will need is you to rsvp!

Date: Sunday, April 20.
Time: 6pm
Place: Beth Sholom, 642 Dolores Ave., San Leandro
Cost: Adults: $26 Kids ages 5-13: $18
Please RSVP to the Office 357-8505.
RSVP to (510) 357-8505 by April 17

Community Passover Seder
Please join us for our annual community Passover Seder.
We use a Secular, progressive haggadah in English. This is a great introduction to the Secular (Cultural) Jewish way. We will have a potluck style meal so please call Jamie at 510-888-1404 to sign up to bring a dish.
There is no charge for members, non-member's charge is $10 per adult.
Please bring a non-perishable donation for the Alameda Food Bank.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 5:00pm
Place: The Bothwell Center, 2466 8th St., Livermore
For information call 510-888-1404
Sponsored by the Tri-Valley Humanistic Jews.

Passover: The Set Table

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The ultimate Jewish holiday: Passover! Whether you’ve never had a seder or you consider yourself a pro, you’ll learn something at this workshop.. We’ll literally have a set table - with all the elements identified and explained. We encourage you to bring ideas and practice from your own tradition and family. We’ll have sample foods and recipes as well as an assortment of Hagadot for you to peruse. Come for the fun; come for the food!

Date: Sunday, March 30
Time: 11am to 1pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
FREE
Co-sponsored by Temple Sinai and Building Jewish Bridges
I hope you’ll be joining me. Call me for more info at 510-839-2900 x347 or email dawn@jfed.org

A Taste of Judaism

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Are You Curious?

A Taste of Judaism has been around for more than ten years and literally tens of thousands of people have taken it. It is aimed at the adult learner who has little knowledge of Judaism, but a good mind. The class covers the three pillars of Judaism:
Jewish spirituality -- Jewish views of the divine
Jewish ethics -- the source of the Jewish way of life, the teachings
Jewish community -- the community that Jews create in every generation to sustain Jewish life.

The three session class is free but pre-registration is required.

Classes in the Spring of 2008
Tuesdays, March 25, April 1 and April 8 in Walnut Creek
Mondays, March 31, April 7 and 14 in Berkeley

Teaching in Walnut Creek is Rabbi Michele Fisher

Teaching in Berkeley is Rabbi Menachem Creditor

Jewish Summer Camp

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Kids at Camp Kee Tov
(info on camper scholarships below)

If you have a child who has never been to a Jewish summer camp that child is eligible to receive a scholarship to camp this summer, 2008.

FREE $1800 JEWISH SUMMER CAMP GIFT CERTIFICATES!
Do you have a child entering grades 6-8 this fall?
There is funding available for summer camp - but act fast as 500 of the 1000 incentives have already been awarded!
A child who has never been to Jewish overnight summer camp can now receive up $1800 toward camp tuition! The unparalleled experience of going to a Jewish summer camp is about to become available to the widest range of families ever.
Through generous support from the Jim Joseph Foundation, and in partnership with the Foundation for Jewish Camping, we are able to make this extraordinary opportunity available to 1000 new campers this year, and we need your participation to make it happen! The best part is that the $1800 JWest incentives can be combined with the Jewish Community Endowment Fund scholarships that have been available to you through the Bureau of Jewish Education for more than 30 years.
Go here for information about JWest eligibility criteria and to be guided through an online application, (http://66.7.56.125/CheckArea.cfm) or click here: (http://www.bjesf.org/financialaid.htm) for information about BJE Financial Aid.

For more information, contact: Jwest Campership Program, (888) 888-4819
jwest@jewishcamping.org

Bureau of Jewish Education, (415) 751-6983
FinAid@bjesf.org

PASSOVER IS COMING SOON!

EVENTS
Family Program: Classic Israeli Children’s Stories (San Francisco)
Purim Shpiel and Carnival (Los Altos)
Contorial Concert (Berkeley)
Exploring the World of Judaism (San Rafael)
Beginning Jewish Living: Living a Life of Holiness (San Rafael)
A Taste of Judaism: Are you Curious? (Around the bay)
Young Adult Feast of Jewish Learning (San Francisco)
Holiday Baking Classes (Berkeley)
Passover Classes (Los Altos)
Tot Shabbat (San Rafael)
Community Shabbat Service & Kiddush Lunch (Los Altos)
Ayelet Waldman "Making It Work..." (Berkeley)
Book Signing - A Mystical Haggadah (Berkeley)
Friends and Family Day (Berkeley)
Rosh Chodesh Nissan - Women’s gathering (Los Altos)
Do-Ahead Passover Seder (San Francisco)
Family Program: Israeli Dance for the Whole Family (San Francisco)
Community Shabbat Dinner (San Francisco)

Family Program: Classic Israeli Children’s Stories
with Liora Brosbe
What stories do Israeli children ask for when they curl up with their parents on a cold winter day or a hot summer night? In Israel, many families read Ha’bayit Shel Yael (Yael’s House), Tiras Cham (Hot Corn), Ma’aseh Be’chamisha Balonim (A Tale of Five Balloons), and Dira Le’haskir (A Flat for Rent). Liora Brosbe brings these stories to life in both Hebrew and English for children ages two to seven.

Date: Sunday, March 23
Time: 1pm.
Place: Jewish Community Library, 1835 Ellis Street in San Francisco
Info: 415.567.3327 x 703.
Presented by the Israel Education Initiative, a joint project of the Israel Center of the Jewish Community Federation of San Francisco, the Peninsula, Marin and Sonoma Counties, the Bureau of Jewish Education, and the Israel Engagement Network (Makom)—founded by the Jewish Agency for Israel.

Purim Shpiel and Carnival
The whole family will enjoy the Purim Carnival. It’s a fun-filled day of theatre, games, music, and, of course, food! The day begins at 11 a.m. with a Purim Shpiel especially for families. Following the Shpiel, we will kick off our Purim Carnival for adults and children of all ages. Tickets to the Carnival support youth education at Beth Am! Don’t forget to come dressed as your favorite character of the Purim story.

Date: Sunday, March 23
Time: 11am
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Info: 650-493-4661
For more information visit http://www.betham.org.

Contorial Concert
World-renowned Hasidic cantor, Benzion Miller has been featured on the PBS special, Cantors: Faith in Song. He captivates audiences with his brilliant tenor voice and technique as well as his deep spirituality.
You are invited to join Cantor Miller for a post-performance reception in the social hall.

Date: Sunday, March 23
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley
Cost: $25/public; $21 members of Netivot Shalom or the JCC East Bay
This concert is part of the Jewish Music Festival; for more information go to:
www.jewishmusichfestival.org

Exploring the World of Judaism
How Can We Provide Our Children with Lasting Values in a Throw-Away World?
is the topic discussed by Vicky Kelman, Director, Jewish Family Education Project, Bureau of Jewish Education, San Francisco. Come for light nosh and some knowledge.
Date: Sunday, March 23
Time: 9:30am
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
Email Dave Becker at davebecker99@comcast.net if you have any questions.

Beginning Jewish Living: Living a Life of Holiness
with Rabbi Noa Kushner
The word ‘spirituality’ seems to be everywhere these days, but what does it truly mean to pursue a modern life of holiness? Required book: A Book of Life, by Rabbi Michael Strassfeld.

Dates: Tuesdays, March 25 – April 1
Time: 7:30 – 8:50pm
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
Info: (415) 479-3441

A Taste of Judaism: Are you Curious?
What are the three pillars of Judaism? Jewish spirituality, Jewish ethics, and Jewish community. Come learn about them in a three session class.

Mondays evenings in Berkeley beginning March 31
Tuesday evenings in Walnut Creek beginning March 25
Free, but pre-registration is required. Call Dawn for information at:
510-839-2900 x347 x347 or 925-943-1484

Classes in San Francisco, San Jose and Napa. Call Project Welcome to inquire about West Bay classes - 415-392-7080 x16 and talk to Lisa.

Young Adult Feast of Jewish Learning
Movement of the People
Join your friends for 20 free workshops on Jewish thought, texts, philosophy, spirituality, culture, life and love. Taught by professors, rabbis, artists, and educators from all walks of Jewish life
Each participant can attend two 90-minute workshops
PLUS: Kosher catered food, live entertainment, and hundreds of young adults!
Bring your friends and partners: this day of learning and fun is open to everyone.

Date; Sunday, March 30
Time: 4pm -9:30pm
Place: JCCSF at 3200 at California Street in San Francisco
Everything is FREE!
For details and to RSVP, contact Mariana Roytman Schiffner at feastrsvp@bjesf.org.

Holiday Baking Classes
Register now for the popular holiday baking classes taught by Deborah Lewis on Sundays.

March 30 (blintzes and knishes)
April 13 (Passover desserts)
For adults and youth 8 and over (with an adult).
Time: 1:30-3:30 pm
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley
Cost is just $12/class for adults and $8/class for youth.
Pre-registration is necessary to ensure your spot ($36 adults, $24 kids) by contacting Deborah at youthed@netivotshalom.org

Passover Classes
with Rabbi Allenberg
Find more meaning in your Seder. Enjoy one class or all three. The Passover Seder reenacts the most important story of the Jewish people’s history. Make your Passover Seder something special this year! Three classes to help you make and find more meaning in your Seder. Classes are open to the beginner and to the experienced. If you have a Haggadah that you use, bring it with you.

Dates: Sundays, Mar. 30, Apr. 6 & 13
Mar. 30: Making Sense of the Passover Haggadah—The Way it Works
Apr. 6: Making Meaning of the Passover Seder—Why it Works
Apr. 13: Making a Passover Seder—How it Works
Time: 9–11 a.m.
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Info: 650-493-4661
For more information visit http://www.betham.org.

Tot Shabbat
Plushy torahs, unbridled singing and dancing, and sharing of juice and challah. For toddlers through kindergartners.

Date: April 5
Time: 9:30 to 10:15am
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road in San Rafael
Info: 415-479-3441

Community Shabbat Service & Kiddush Lunch
Bring friends and family and join your fellow congregants and clergy in making Shabbat morning festive and warm. We’ll have beautiful music and singing, creative learning, and time to visit with each other and meet members you don’t know. You’re invited to join in morning services to worship and learn with your community. Following the service we’ll join in a congregational Kiddush luncheon. Please bring a dessert to share with others.

Date: Sat., April 5
Time: 10:30am
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Info: 650-493-4661
For more information visit http://www.betham.org

Ayelet Waldman "Making It Work..."
Author, Ayelet Waldman will speak on Making it Work: Struggling and Juggling in a Half-Changed World. A book-signing (Love and Other Impossible Pursuits), courtesy of Afikomen, will follow, along with refreshments.
Author of several books, former lawyer and instructor at Boalt, Ayelet's personal essays have been published in a wide variety of periodicals, including the New York Times, Elle Magazine, and the Guardian. She has a regular column on Salon.com.

Date: Sunday, April 6
Time: 10:30 am
Place: Temple Beth El, 1301 Oxford St., Berkeley
for info call the synagogue at 510-848-3988.

Book Signing - A Mystical Haggadah
Rabbi Eliahu Klein will speak on his book, A Mystical Haggadah. This new haggadah features a spiritual interpretation of the Seder, an-easy-to-read transliterated text with new translations and commentary, many Hassidic teachings and stories never presented before in English, as well as a step-by-step guide to the fifteen steps of the Seder.
Ordained by Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan in 1983, Rabbi Eliahu Klein has taught Kabbalah, Jewish Meditation, and Hassidism for over thirty years throughout the United States, Great Britain, and Israel. He currently serves as Jewish Chaplain for San Francisco Jails and the State of California Department of Rehabilitation.

Date: Sunday April 6
Time: 2pm
Place: Afikomen, 3042 Claremont Avenue, Berkeley
For more information call Afikomen at 510.655.1977

Friends and Family Day
Create tree images
Plant seeds and seedlings
Produce “sunprints”The theme of the day is trees and their importance in the celebration of the 60th anniversary of Israel. Come to the museum and let your creativity blossom with the different ways to create a tree, using photography paints and nature itself. Come join us in the garden and in the museum as we celebrate Israel, nature and the art of creating. Children and adults of all ages are welcome.

Date: Sunday April 6
Time: 11am 3pm FREE
Place: Magnes Museum, 2911 Russell Street, Berkeley
For more information all 510-549-6950
And for information about the new exhibition @60.art.israel.world and the Magnes Museum, visit www.magnes.org

Rosh Chodesh Nissan - Women’s gathering
Take a break from Passover preparations to remember why Passover resonates so deeply for so many of us. Ellen Bob will take us on a tour of some of her favorite things for Pesach including Haggadah highlights, favorite melodies, deep insights, and maybe a recipe or two. Ellen Bob, a graduate of Brandeis University, loves to teach about anything Jewish.
The Rosh Chodesh group is sponsored by Beth Am Women.

Date: Monday, April 7
Time: 7:30 p.m.
Place: bob and bob bookstore, 4500 El Camino Real, Los Altos
Information: Ellen Stromberg, (650) 493-4936 or estromberg@alcabes.com

Do-Ahead Passover Seder
Learn how to prepare the Passover Seder entirely in advance. The delicious menu combines traditional favorites with contemporary innovations, drawing from American, Sephardic and Ashkenazi cuisines. We will also discuss cleaning and koshering your house for Passover, the Haggadah, the Seder plate, Kosher for Passover foods and resources to guide you easily through the spring holiday. Some of the dishes you will prepare include Matzo Ball Soup, California Gefilte Fish, Mixed Vegetable Tsimmis, Pavlova and Viennese Chocolate Truffle Torte. Students will receive written recipes and get to taste lots of samples!
Instructor: Rebecca Ets-Hokin (the woman who writes the cooking column in the J-Weekly)

Date: Tue, Apr 8
Time: 6:30pm - 9:00pm
Place: San Francisco JCC, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: $50
info: 415-292-1200

Family Program: Israeli Dance for the Whole Family
with Bruce Bierman
Kick off your shoes, circle up, join hands and celebrate Israel’s 60th anniversary with fun and easy Israeli dances made just for children and kids at heart. For children, teens, and adults age 6 years and up.
All programs are free and open to the public; free parking available at the Pierce Street entrance between Ellis and Eddy.

Date: Sunday, May 4
Time: 1pm
Place: BJE Jewish Community Library, 1835 Ellis Street, San Francisco
www.bjesf.org
Ph: 415.567.3327 x706

Community Shabbat Dinner
Bring in the light of Shabbat with family and friends or meet new people at a special dinner. Relax, enjoy a catered kosher-style vegetarian dinner and sing festive songs at a warm evening of Shabbat celebration. Bring your own Shabbat candlesticks and share the Shabbat light with others at your table.

Date: Fri, May 9
Time: 6:00pm - 8:00pm
Place: San Francisco JCC, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: Child: $8.00; Adult: $14.00
info: 415-292-1200
www.jccsf.org

Hamentashen Recipes for Purim

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The Cooks are Happy!

Hamentashen Baking Day has become an annual event with my friend, Laurie. She makes up several batches of dough and filling in advance of the Sunday before Purim. Then she invites friends and family to join her in her kitchen for the assembly line production of hundreds of Hamentashen - the traditional cookie of Purim.

She uses three different cookie dough recipes - just about any sugar cookie or refrigerator cookie dough will do. According to my Joan Nathan cookbook, Jewish Holiday Kitchen (you really need this book), there is an ongoing debate about whether a yeast dough is better than a non-yeast dough. So far I haven’t tried a yeast cookie dough; my kids are fond of the one I use. I’ll give you Laurie’s three recipes here.

Fillings! The most common fillings are poppy seed, prune, and apricot. It all makes sense for a late winter cookie – poppy seeds, prunes and dried apricots would be among the treats available in a community that didn’t have supermarkets. I’ll give you those three recipes also. But let me say, add your own family favorites and let your loved ones experiment. My son loves homemade strawberry jam so we have strawberry jam Hamentashen. At Laurie’s party some of the younger chefs decided to try chocolate versions. Everyone was satisfied.

Laurie's Hamentash-a-thon Recipes

Flo Braker’s Hamantashen
36 filled cakes

3 cups flour
2 teaspoons baking powder
½ teaspoon salt
1/4 pound margarine
1 cup sugar
1 large egg
1/3 cup orange juice
1 teaspoon vanilla

Cream the sugar with margarine. Beat eggs with OJ and vanilla, add to butter/sugar. Add dry ingredients and mix. Shape dough into disks and chill. Roll out to ¼ inch thickness, cut into circles, fill with choice of filling and shape into triangles. Bake on an ungreased cookie sheet at 375 degrees for 15 -18 minutes or until lightly browned.

Options: Brush with beaten egg and sprinkle with coarse sugar, if desired.
Roll dough in mixture of granulated sugar and flour for a sparkle effect

Brown Sugar and Oat Hamantashen Dough

1 cup butter or margarine, at room temperature
1 cup firmly packed brown sugar
1 teaspoon grated orange peel
½ teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 large egg
1 teaspoon baking soda
2 ¾ cups all-purpose flour
1 cup rolled oats

Beat butter, sugar, orange peel, and cinnamon until blended in a large bowl. Beat in egg. Combine dry ingredients in another bowl. Add to butter mixture and beat until thoroughly blended, at least 5 minutes on medium speed with mixer. Chill 1 hour in the refrigerator. Roll out to ¼ inch thickness, cut into circles, fill with choice of filling and shape into triangles. Brush with beaten egg and sprinkle with coarse sugar, if desired. Bake on an ungreased cookie sheet at 350 degrees for 12 – 15 minutes, or until lightly browned.

Optional icing:

1 ½ cups powdered sugar
1 teaspoon each orange-flavored liqueur and water
1 teaspoon grated orange rind

Blend together until smooth. Spread on cooled hamentashen. Let set at room temperature until firm.

Apricot Filling

6 ounces dried California apricots
3 T. granulated sugar
2 t. grated orange rind

Cover the apricots with boiling water in a small pan. Simmer on low heat for 10 minutes. Cool. Drain apricots, reserving the cooking liquid. Chop drained apricots in food processor. Add sugar, 2-3 T. cooking liquid and the grated orange rind. Process until pureed. Cool before using. Refrigerate for up to a week.

Prune Filling

6 ounces dried pitted prunes
2 T. granulated sugar
2 t. grated lemon rind
(1/4 cup chopped walnuts, raisins)

Cover the prunes with boiling water in a small pan. Simmer on low heat for 10 minutes. Cool. Drain prunes, reserving the cooking liquid. Chop drained prunes in food processor. Add sugar, 2-3 T. cooking liquid and the grated lemon rind. Process until pureed. Stir in walnuts and/or raisins if desired. Cool before using. Store in refrigerator for up to a week.

Poppy Seed (Mohn) Filling

1 cup whole poppy seeds
½ cup milk or water
¼ cup honey
1/8 cup sugar
pinch salt
1 egg
(3 T. almond paste)

Use coffee grinder to grind poppy seed in batches. Add to a small pan with milk or water, honey, sugar and salt. Cook over medium heat until thick. Remove from heat and cool slightly. Beat in the egg and almond paste, if desired. Return to heat briefly if too thin. Cool before using. Store covered in refrigerator for up to a week.
Recipes from Laurie Leiber 3.5.06

Laurie and her daughter, Sarah, satisfied with their efforts!

Purim Fun

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PURIM!
Be Happy! It’s Adar!

There are so many fun things to do for Purim – make costumes, bake cookies - and other foods, give food gifts to friends, wear crowns and masks. Lots of playing opportunities for kids and adults. The drinking and carousing should be for the grown-ups, and kept within reason.

Here is a great local site for holiday information. Go here and click on “Purim”
http://www.sfjcf.org/resources/jholidays/

Giving gifts of food for Purim
It is traditional for Purim to give gifts of food to friends and neighbors. I found the funniest site that had some wonderful ideas for non-traditional food gifts! Things you’re have fun making, giving, and receiving. Perfect for the west! Take a look:

http://www.aish.com/family/cooking/Purim_Mishloach_Manot_Ideas.asp

The Silicon Valley Federation has a newsletter with a column, Ask the Rabbi, which has a nice description of the traditional elements of observing Purim. Look online:

http://www.jvalley.org/jcn/2_2008/askrabbi.html

Here’s rather cartoony looking site with a wide range of information:
http://www.aish.com/holidays/purim/

Project Welcome has a nice brochure you can download that gives you all the basics:
http://urj.org/_kd/Items/actions.cfm?action=Show&item_id=12752&destination=ShowItem

Making cookies – hamentashen – for the holiday.
A hamentashen recipe with several fillings
http://jewishappleseed.org/apple/hamnrecp.htm

A hamentashen recipe by Joan Nathan, one of my favorite cookbook authors:
http://www.myjewishlearning.com/holidays/Purim/TO_Purim_Home/Foods/hamantashen.htm

Go to wwwmyjewishlearning.com and search for Purim, you’ll get a variety of articles on customs, rituals, the story, food, etc.

Telling the story of Queen Esther to your kids
Go to a local Jewish book and gift store and get some books for your kids.
There is a sweet picture book on the Purim story by Tomie DePaola titled Queen Esther. I was walking through the gift shop at B’nai Tikvah in Walnut Creek last week and saw a number of children’s books on Purim. If you’re in the East Bay check out Afikomen on Claremont Avenue in Berkeley. If you’re on the peninsula, try bob and bob’s in Los Altos on El Camino Real. In San Francisco go to Dayenu at the SF JCC on California. Many of the synagogues will have gift shops with books also.

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Here are some bay area Purim celebrations you can attend -

Purim Spiel and Carnival
Come for the Purim Spiel, "The Megillah According to Walt Disney," and stay for the carnival! We'll have challenging games, thrilling prizes, delicious food and lots of fun! These events have no admission fee. Tickets for activity booths and food during the carnival are available for pre-purchase in the Education Office or at the carnival.

Date: Sunday, March 16
Time: 9:30am
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
For more information call Sinai’s Education office at 510-451-0313.

Purimpalooza 2008
Kickoff at 10am in the Sanctuary with music, fun, and special surprises!
Featuring Carnival midway games and prizes!
Outdoor activities!
Fabulous BBQ lunch starting at 11:30 AM!
And the return of the chosen surfers Meshugga Beach Party!

Date: Sunday, March 16
Time: 10am to 1:30pm
Place: Peninsula Temple Sholom, 1655 Sebastian Drive, Burlingame
Info: 650-697-2266
Ticket Prices: 6 tickets: $5; 30 tickets: $25; Lunch: 6 tickets or $5
Games and rides cost from 1 to 3 tickets
Anyone in costume will receive 4 free tickets!!
Queen Esther's Wish Food Drive: In keeping with the spirit of Tikun Olam, we are sponsoring a food drive for Jewish Family & Children's Services as part of our celebration. Families bringing a donation of non-perishable food will receive 2 free tickets as well as our thanks!

Celebrate Purim
Celebrate Purim with games, crafts, hamentashn-baking, a costume parade and more!
Suitable for pre-school and elementary school kids. Come in costume.

Date: Sunday, March 16
Time: 10:30 am to 12:30 pm
Place: Bothwell Center, 2466 Eighth St. in Livermore.
No charge, but please bring a donation for the Alameda County Food Bank.
For more information, call 925 485 1049 or e-mail CulturalJews@aol.com.
Sponsored by the Jewish Culture School of the Tri-Valley Cultural Jews.

Purim for Families
Congregation Netivot Shalom and our Religious School are creating a wonderful Purim Bash great for all ages. We will have a Circus Performer and instructor teaching tricks to kids 5 and up, ending with a circus parade. Traditional Megilah Reading interspersed with lots of music & dancing. Enjoy the Shushan Cafe with dinner & treats (there is a charge for food, it is a school fund raiser).

Date: Thursday, March 20
Time: Cafe opens at 6pm
Activities and Megilah begin at 6:30.
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave., Berkeley
Free
For info call the synagogue at (510) 549-5447 or email Andrea Shupack (education@netivotshalom.org)

The Megillah According to Walt Disney
Join us as we read from the Book of Esther, drown out Haman's name with groggers, and sing along to familiar Disney songs. Laugh, sing, dance, and celebrate Purim a
Zip-A-Dee-Doo-Dah way!

Date: Thursday, March 20
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
For more info call Gabby at 510-451-3263.

Purim Carnival!
Fun for the Whole Family! Featuring Puppeteer Diana Shmayana & 'Megillah Madness!' Come dressed in costume. Eat Hamentaschen, raffle prizes, play games, cake walks, face painting. Children ages 4-12 & their adults enthusiastically welcome!

Date: Sunday, March 23
Time: 2 to 4pm
Place: Kehilla Community Synagogue, 1300 Grand Avenue, Piedmont.
Cost: $10-$25 sliding scale --Family Fee includes 10 game tickets per child and food/drink tickets.
Visit www.KehillaSynagogue.org. Info: (510) 547-2424 ext. 100.

Shpiel & Family Carnival
It’s that time of year again… time to put on your costumes and dig out your graggers (noise makers), because Purim is approaching! Please save the date for a fantastic weekend of Purim celebrations. The whole family will enjoy the Purim Carnival. It’s a fun-filled day of theatre, games, music and of course, food! The day begins with a Purim Shpiel especially for families. Following the Shpiel, we will kick off our Purim Carnival for adults and children of all ages. Tickets to the Carnival support youth education at Beth Am! Don’t forget to come dressed as your favorite character of the Purim story.

Date: Sunday, March 23
Time: 11am
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Rd., Los Altos
see all the Beth Am options at:
http://www.betham.org/download/PurimFlyer5768.pdf
Info: 650-493-4661

What if my child doesn’t look Jewish?

2008-03-13T17:47:00.000-07:00

Last month I talked about raising kids in an interfaith family - will we raise them Jewish or some other religion?
One of the concerns that can arise for parents is: How will if feel raising kids Jewish if they don’t “look” Jewish? The first question is - To whom do they not look Jewish? To you? To your community? To the rabbis? Chances are what you mean is they don’t look traditionally Eastern European to most American Jews.

Some people think a blonde, blue eyed child won’t look Jewish. But you will find many blonde Jews from Poland, Germany, England. Being blonde is unlikely to warrant notice. My own daughter is blonde and blue-eyed and it has never brought a mention at all. One of my son’s best friends is an Israeli boy with a wild head of blonde curls. His mother attributes it to her Sephardic roots – (Sephardic Jews are from Spain) so all you of Spanish heritage can explain that one.

More common concerns are that racially diverse kids won’t be accepted by the general Jewish community. Asian or African heritage is seen as “not” Jewish looking. You are correct, many traditionalists will think your multiracial child doesn’t look Jewish if she is Black, Asian, or Hispanic. AND at the very same time there are thousands of born Jews that are Black, Asian and Hispanic. Here in the bay area there are a lot more of them. In an urban, metropolitan community diversity is just a bigger reality.

On one hand, explaining your child’s racial heritage can be easier than explaining a different religious tradition. There are clear cut elements that are fun and non-threatening to the mainstream Jewish community – food, music, language, art, history. On the other hand you know that your child may be faced with questions that are not always pleasant to hear. You will need to arm your child with a strong knowledge of their identity and a community that affirms that identity. Let your child know that they are unequivocally Jewish. Feel free to ward off ignorant adults.

Don’t let the prejudices of others determine your life. Would you let someone who disliked you pick your home? Your job? No. Surround yourself with people who share your values, your joy in the diversity of life and the beauty of the human spirit.

Call me if you want support or resources.

Check out Bechol Lashon (In Every Voice), a local group that supports and celebrates Jewish racial diversity. They will hold a fabulous Purim Celebration on Sunday in San Francisco. I’ve listed it below and you can look at their website. Many of us (yes, me too) have racially diverse families. You’d be surprised how many people aren’t really giving your diversity a second thought.
www.jewishresearch.org

Here’s a new program for interfaith and unaffiliated families. Take a look and call Vivien (contact info below) if you want additional information.

Parenting Matters: Jewish Wisdom for Mindful Parenting
Parenting Matters is a new parenting discussion group for interfaith and unaffiliated Jewish parents raising young children (five years of age and younger). This interactive 8-week learning program will explore basic Jewish principles and apply them to our modern parenting concerns. All levels of learners are welcome.
Our discussions will lead us on a path of discovery on topics such as:

Creating sacred moments with your children
The quest for personal and family spirituality
Ethics within the family and between people
The pursuit of personal meaning

Our parent groups will also deepen their connections with one another with an informal Shabbat dinner and a family potluck at the culmination of the sessions.
Our discussion groups will be in two sites:

San Rafael (Evening Group): Osher Marin Jewish Community Center, Begins April 1st
Berkeley (Morning Group): Congregation Netivot Shalom, Begins April 7th

Our instructor, Rabbi Menchem Creditor, is an educator, musician, and activist, and serves as rabbi of Congregation Netivot Shalom in Berkeley. He is the author of The Tisch, an email commentary on Torah and Spirituality, and the founder of Shefa: The Jewish Activists' Network.
For more information, please contact Vivien Braly at vivienb@sfjcf.org or call (415) 499-1223, ext. 8106.

2008-03-04T18:55:00.000-08:00

The next holiday is Purim. Congregations everywhere are preparing their Purim shpiel -- a sort of play in which the story of Queen Esther saving her people is told in a funny way. Often using familiar tunes with new lyrics. Like Purim according to Disney, or Elvis. I saw a pregnant Purim when the cantor of a congregation was pregnant and they used her as their "theme."

You can browse the websites of the congregations near you to see what they will be doing. Purim falls on Thursday, March 20 this year. Start planning your costume!

The flier above is for the Bechol Lashon Purim Celebration taking place in San Francisco on Sunday, Marh 16. Look at the details (in a larger format) on their website, www.jewishresearch.org.

I'm Not Raising my Kids Jewish

2008-02-26T09:20:00.000-08:00

I’m not raising my kids Jewish
Last week I talked about the decision to raise kids Jewish. What if you decide to NOT raise your kids Jewish? How do you teach them about their Jewish heritage? Relate to Jewish relatives? Help them understand their interfaith, intercultural family?

Let me put this in non-religious terms – what if you are raising your child American with Italian heritage? Or Swedish heritage? Or Japanese heritage?

First, racial differences can make some parents feel that they can be MORE clear about messages to the kids, after all a child of Thai heritage will always look to some degree Asian, so the external world will support and affirm this dual heritage. Frankly, that brings it’s own unique challenges, but for now let’s move on to the child who does not wear their identity on their face. I’ll talk about that next week.

Let us suppose that your family is French. You might choose to teach your child some French, make traditional French foods, celebrate Bastille Day, read about the history of France, sing some French songs.

You can do the same thing with Jewish heritage. Teach your child about the country that the Jewish parent comes from. Judaism is expressed differently in different parts of the world. Read them books about the holidays. Point out Israel on the map. You could take them to a Jewish deli, get a Jewish cookbook and make some foods together. If your child has living Jewish relatives, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins, get your relatives to help by telling stories about their own lives.

Explain to your child that mommy or daddy’s family is Jewish and tell them that they are being raised – Christian, or whatever you have chosen for them.

How do you share this?
When your child is young they will understand through DOING and through hearing STORIES.
Doing: Take them to holidays at relatives. Let them participate in holiday preparation at family events.

Stories: Read books about Jewish kids. Tell them stories about their grandparents and about Jews around the world.

How might this be different from raising kids Jewish with an understanding of a Christian parent? Christianity is the dominant religion in America. The entire culture is teaching us about Christianity. You need do nothing and your American child will know the basics about Christianity. But Judaism is a minority tradition and you will have to actively educate a child to know the basics.

A caveat. Be clear to your child that they have Jewish heritage and don’t know all there is to know about Judaism. I have seen adults feel hurt and embarrassed upon learning that although they were raised by a Jewish parent their knowledge gaps are significant. When they are with Jews their gaffs make them feel bad and they call me wondering what is it they are not understanding. They don’t want to ask their parents because they interpret their parents as not knowing either.

As your Christian child of Jewish heritage gets older their questions will become more sophisticated and you can add more nuance to describing their extended family and Judaism.

Be honest with them. Tell them, without rancor that they are Christian or Muslim or whatever you have chosen for them. Don’t make the message a subtle one of anger – even if you have issues with other family members.

Naturally this is a longer – in fact, a life long conversation – so do call or email me if you have questions and issues that you are trying to sort out or articulate to your children or family members.

Contra Costa Jewish Film Festival
If you live in the East Bay you should certainly treat yourself to at least one film at the Festival!
The Festival runs March 1 through March 7.
Take a look at the website:
http://www.eastbayjewishfilm.org/

EVENTS
Wishful Drinking (Berkeley)
Walking With God (San Rafael)
Community Sing Along (Berkeley)
Transformations: Memory and Identity in Modern Jewish Literature (Los Altos)
Interfaith Families at the Movies: Bad Faith (Pleasanton)
Welcoming Your Jewish Baby… Whether You’re Jewish or Not (Oakland)
Simchat Shabbat - Music & Israeli Dancing(Los Altos)
Museum Opening after early Shabbat Services (San Francisco)
Preschool Family Education -- Purim (Walnut Creek)
Women in Interfaith Relationships: Giving our Kids Roots & Wings (Walnut Creek)
Speaking at Cross Purposes: the Hidden Impasse in Jewish-Christian Dialogue (San Francisco)
Jewish Playgroup (Walnut Creek)
Dan Chan the Magic Man (San Francisco)
Passover: The Set Table (Oakland)
A Taste of Judaism: Are you Curious? (Around the Bay)
With Whom Is your Soul Bound? (San Francisco)
Community Second Night Seder (Livermore)

Wishful Drinking
Carrie Fisher is the life of the party on Berkeley Repertory Theatre's fortieth birthday with Wishful Drinking, an uproarious and sobering look at her Hollywood hangover directed by Tony Tacconne. Fisher tells a true and intoxicating story with the strong, wry wit that she poured into bestsellers like Postcards from the Edge. Born to celebrity parents - a Jew and a Christian - she was picked to play a princess in the original Star Wars when she was only nineteen years-old. Alas, aside from a demanding career and her role as a single mother, Carrie also spends her free time battling addiction, weathering the wild ride of manic depression and lounging around various mental institutions. It's an incredible tale. Don't miss this outrageous chance to get Carried away.

Dates: February 8-March 30
Place: Rode Theater, Berkeley Rep, 2025 Addison Street, Berkeley
To purchase tickets go to: www.berkeleyrep.org

Walking With God
Tracing the Idea of God from Biblical through Contemporary Thought
Join Rabbi Dorothy Richman to trace the idea of God through Jewish text, i.e. the Bible, Talmud, etc., up through contemporary theologians.

Dates: Wednesdays, February 27 – March 19
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
Info: (415) 479-3441

Community Sing Along
Be a part of a united community that sings together! English, Hebrew, Yiddish lyrics will be provided, the East Bay Jewish Folk Chorus and Achi Ben-Shalom will perform. Community Art Project with Artist Nancy Katz.
We’ll begin with a Havdalah to end the Shabbat, followed by a community art project. We’ll end with easy-to-follow Israeli folk dancing. Bring veggie snacks and desserts to share.

Date: Sat., March 1
Time: 8pm
Place: Seventh Heaven Yoga Center, 2820 Seventh Street, Berkeley (Near Ashby)
Your donation of $15 at the door supports the music and the art project.

Transformations: Memory and Identity in Modern Jewish Literature
with Dr. Joyce Moser and Rabbi Janet Marder
Join Dr. Joyce Moser, a professor at Stanford University since 1989 and also a popular Beth Am teacher, as she and Rabbi Marder engage with some extraordinary writers. Their works, written against the background of huge personal, cultural and political upheavals, have transformed and enlarged the nature of Jewish identity in the modern world. They have also given us some of the most vivid prose of the last hundred years. We will be drawing on a wide range of short stories and novellas written in English or translated from Yiddish, German or Hebrew.

Dates: Sundays, March 2, 9 and 16, May 4 and 11
Time: 9:00-11:00 am
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Cost: $36 per person (includes bagels, cream cheese, juice and coffee)
To register for this Toledot Mini-Course go to
http://www.betham.org/download/JewishLit.pdf
Print out the form and mail it along with a check to:
Congregation Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Attention: Jessica Rosenberg.
www.betham.org 650.493-4661

Interfaith Families at the Movies: Bad Faith“Bad Faith” is part of the Contra Costa Jewish Film Festival.
Clara and Ishmael are gorgeous, happy, in love and in Paris. How nice is that? Like many cosmopolitan Parisian couples, the fact that she is Jewish and he is Muslim barely crosses the mins fo these oh-so-secular lovebirds.. Until Clara announces that she’s pregnant. That’s when the troubles start.

Date: Monday, March 3
Time: 4:30pm
Place: CinArts, 2314 Monument Blvd., Pleasant Hill (in the Kohl’s Center)
for more information call Dawn at 925-843-1484.
Co-Sponsored by Building Jewish Bridges.
http://www.eastbayjewishfilm.org/

Welcoming Your Jewish Baby… Whether You’re Jewish or Not
A Group for Moms and babies 0-6 months
Meeting in the East Bay

Join us for a discussion!
Discussion topics include:
Support for Moms with new Babies
Jewish Resources for Mom, Baby and Family
Getting Your Groove Back & Adjusting to the New Normal
Considering Jewish Choices and Practices for your Home

Date: starts Tuesday, March 4 (5 sessions)
Time: 11:30am to 1pm (feel free to bring a snack)
Place: Meets in a private home in Oakland.
Cost: $36
Call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 for location more information or to sign up.
Please call soon as space limited

Simchat Shabbat - Music & Israeli Dancing
Celebrate a special musical Shabbat. We’ll nosh and dance the night away (Israeli style) led by Shirley Smith, dance teacher extraordinaire! Bring your comfy shoes and get ready to party. For all ages and levels of experience.

Date: Friday, Mar. 7
Time: 7:15 p.m.
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Info: 650-493-4661

Museum Opening after early Shabbat Services
Brushstrokes of the Shtetl: Samuel Rothbort’s Memory Paintings
Samuel Rothbort (1882-1971), sculptor and painter, came to America in 1904 at the age of 22 and won acclaim as a painter of raw talent. In the late 1930s Rothbort began painting “Memory Paintings” based on his childhood experiences of life in the ghettos and surrounding woodlands of Polesie, in Byelorussia. A prize winning documentary, Memories of The Shtetl (The Ghetto Pillow,) produced by Harriet Semegram, used several hundred of Samuel Rothbort’s watercolors, which also became a major visual resource for Jerome Robbins’ film and play, Fiddler On The Roof. Another award-winning documentary, The Lost Wooden Synagogues of Eastern Europe, produced by Albert Barry and Florida Atlantic University and shown at the U.S. Holocaust Museum in Washington, D.C. and on Public Television, used many of Rothbort’s paintings to illustrate life in pre-war Eastern Europe.
Please join us for the opening of this exhibit following the 5:30 pm service in the Main Sanctuary foyer.

Date: March 7
Time: Following 5:30pm services
Place: Emanu-el, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
info: 415-751-2535 or www.emanuelsf.org

Preschool Family Education -- Purim
Join us for a monthly education program for families with young children ages 2-5. All sessions are scheduled once a month on Shabbat from 10:30 am to 12:30 pm. The final 20 minutes is a Tot Shabbat service led by Rabbi Asher or Cantor Chabon.

Date: March 8
Time: 10:30 am
Place: Congregation B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft Way, Walnut Creek
Cost: $20 per family
For more information call 925-933-7633.

Women in Interfaith Relationships: Giving our Kids Roots & Wings
Raising kids is hard. You have to be a cook, chauffeur, therapist, private secretary, doctor, and chief bottle washer. And in there you’re supposed to give your kids “roots” and “wings.” Roots: a foundation from which to spring. Wings: confidence & self knowledge. Ours is the first generation to think that Moms can do that alone. Forget it! Come get and give support.

Date: March 9
Time: 9 to 11am
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft, Walnut Creek
Facilitated by Dawn Kepler, Building Jewish Bridges - Call me for more information at 925-943-1484 or email me at dawn@jfed.org

Speaking at Cross Purposes: the Hidden Impasse in Jewish-Christian Dialogue
The Koshland Lecture
An hour of learning with the newest faculty of the Hebrew Union College in Los Angeles. This month, presenting Joshua Holo, Ph.D. Associate Professor of Jewish History; Director, Louchheim School of Judaic Studies.

Date: March 9
Time: 10:30 am
Place: Emanu-el, 2 Lake St., San Francisco, in the Martin Meyer Reception Room.
Coffee, tea, bagels, and discussion.
Open to the community, no charge.
Info: 415-751-2535

Jewish Playgroup
Join Our Jewish Playgroup! A playgroup for families with children under 6. Circle time, Jewish holiday activities, and fun games. Schmooze while your children play. Everyone is welcome- bring your friends!
Free!
Dates: Sundays, March 9, April 13 May 18
Tine: 10:00–11:00 a.m.
Place: Contra Costa JCC, 2071 Tice Valley Blvd., Walnut Creek
For info or to RSVP: Tanya@jfed.org or 925-943-5238

Dan Chan the Magic Man
Come see Kat the Acrobat and their dog Johnny Ace Pawer in a high-energy variety show. Where? At the Be’chol Lashon Purim Festival! A day of fun - face painting, photo booth, create crowns & tiaras. Good food and games round out the festival.
Come celebrate the diversity of the Jewish people! Be’chol Lashon grows and and strengthens the Jewish people through ethnic, cultural and racial inclusiveness.

Date: Sunday, March 16
Time: 1 to 4:30pm
Place: African American Art & Culture Complex, 762 Fulton St. At Webster, San Francisco
Free and open to the public; free parking too!
Co-sponsored with every shul in the bay area as far as I know.
For more information go to the website: www.jewishresearch.org

Passover: The Set Table
The ultimate Jewish holiday: Passover! Whether you’ve never had a seder or you consider yourself a pro, you’ll learn something at this workshop.. We’ll literally have a set table - with all the elements identified and explained. We encourage you to bring ideas and practice from your own tradition and family. We’ll have sample foods and recipes as well as an assortment of Hagadot for you to peruse. Come for the fun; come for the food!

Date: Sunday, March 30
Time: 11am to 1pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
FREE
Co-sponsored by Temple Sinai and Building Jewish Bridges
Call Dawn for more info at 510-839-2900 x347 or email dawn@jfed.org

A Taste of Judaism: Are you Curious?
What are the three pillars of Judaism? Jewish spirituality, Jewish ethics, and Jewish community. Come learn about them in a three session class.

Mondays evenings in Berkeley beginning March 31
Tuesday evenings in Walnut Creek beginning March 25
Free, but pre-registration is required. Call Dawn for information at:
510-839-2900 x347 x347 or 925-943-1484

Classes in San Francisco, San Jose and Napa. Call Project Welcome to inquire about West Bay classes - 415-392-7080 x16 and talk to Lisa.

With Whom Is your Soul Bound?
Creating Welcoming Community for Queer Interfaith Couples
Torah teaches us that our souls are inextricably connected to one another, yet so many people experience isolation, exclusion, and a deep longing to be truly welcomed and welcoming within our Jewish community. This is particularly true for LGBT Jews, and interfaith/multicultural couples and families.
Using the rich spiritual themes of Passover and the season of spring, we will engage in interactive discussion, text study and other practices. Together we will explore our personal spiritual and cultural paths, and how honoring the unique shared journeys in an interfaith relationship can connect us more deeply to each other and to this community.

Date: April 5
Time: 5:30 start time
6:00 dinner
7-8:30 program
8:30 Havdalah ritual
Place: Sha’ar Zahav, 290 Dolores St., San Francisco
Cost: $10/couple for Sha'ar Zahav members, $20/couple for non-members
call for more info at 415-861-6932

Facilitators: Karen L. Erlichman, MSS, LCSW, is the Bay area Director Jewish Mosaic: the National Center for Sexual and Gender Diversity.

Rabbi Elliot Rose Kukla is a Chaplain Resident at the University of California at San Francisco (UCSF) Medical Center and Langley Porter Psychiatric Institute. He has lectured and led workshops on gender and sexual diversity in Judaism throughout the U.S.

Community Second Night Seder
The Tri-Valley Cultural Jews' Passover seder celebrates the heroism and courage of the human participants in the original freedom struggle of the Jewish people and in all struggles for freedom throughout the world. All of the traditional symbols are there, but their meaning is interpreted in a non-religious manner. The children ask the four questions, the four cups of wine are drunk, and a festive meal is held - all without mention of any supernatural forces affecting human lives or human history.

Date: Sunday, April 20
Time: 5 pm
Place: Bothwell Center, 2466 Eighth St. in Livermore
The seder is a potluck and reservations are required. A donation of $10/adult (over 13) is requested. For reservations and food assignment, call (925) 485-1049.

Raising Jewish Kids

2008-02-14T21:19:00.000-08:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Last week I had the program, How I Decided to Raise My Kids Jewish. Often people who couldn’t make it to a program ask, “What was it like? What did people say?” So let me report back:
This program had a panel of non-Jewish parents – one Lutheran, one Catholic and one rather secular with Buddhist leanings. The two Christians are long time members of Temple Sinai and their children are ages 18 to 25. They were at a place in life to reflect on what had been and how it is turning out.

All the parents wanted their children to have a spiritual life, a communal place of belonging and connection to others. Each said that making the decision was “easy” until they were pressed, “Don’t you have any feelings of loss?” Yes, they said, sure. Things didn’t happen as I planned as a child. My kids won’t be married in a church. They weren’t given communion or christened. Christian holidays meant little to their children.

One of the mothers is herself a pediatrician and said, “Being a parent always involves sacrifices. We want what is best for our children and we put that first.” The others concurred.

When asked do you care whether your children marry Jews the answers were:
“My kids are 5 and 7, I can’t even imagine marriage!”
“No, I just want them to be happy. No matter who they marry their own identity as Jews is firm.”
“Yes! I put 25 years into raising them as Jews and I want them to stick with it!”

Many of the eighteen people who attended stuck around for about 10 to 5 minutes to chat with each other. They shared their own thoughts and asked a few personal questions. They exchanged phone numbers.

How I Decided to Raise My Kids Jewish - a panel discussion

2008-02-06T08:00:00.000-08:00

(A must see film: Vis, Va et Deviens -Live and Become)

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Here’s what’s coming up this month -

How I Decided to Raise My Kids Jewish
I look forward to seeing some of you tonight at the program, How I Decided to Raise My Kids Jewish. You don’t have to have RSVPed, just show up. There will be several other classes going on at Temple Sinai tonight so I’ll put a copy of the flier with the room number on the front entry door - enter on SUMMIT ST.

How I Decided to Raise My Kids Jewish
Two Hearts, One Home
When a non-Jewish parent decides to raise their children as Jews, how does that process work? Once the decision is made, how do you make it happen? How do you retain your own religion? How do you share your identity? Join a panel of non-Jewish parents as they discuss their journey to a Jewish home identity.

Date: Wednesday, Feb. 6
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
For more information call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347
Co-sponsored by Temple Sinai and Building Jewish Bridges

Interfaith Couples Discussion Group starting Feb. 13 in Oakland
I am putting the final touches on the next couples group. My friends, this may be the last one I do for some time so if you want to join a group, I strongly urge you to call me THIS WEEK. 510-839-2900 x347.

What does the group talk about?
Clarifying religious/ethnic values & traditions
Interacting with extended family
Raising children
Holiday observance
Take the time for you and your partner, you’ll be glad you did.

A Quick Overview of the Friday Shabbat Service – aimed at Kids
Temple Isaiah in Lafayette developed a small (four page) handout that covers the high points of the Friday night Shabbat service. They use it for the children’s services. Cantor Keys from Temple Sinai saw it and was excited - she has three little ones. She brought the idea back with her to Sinai. I picked up a dozen copies and am happy to mail a copy to anyone who is interested. It is in Hebrew, transliteration, and translated. The translations appear to be pretty literal so you actually know what you’re saying. (For example, Shir Hama’alot says, A Song of Ascent.) Send me your name and street address if you want one.

Conversion to Judaism
How to scare a Jew – mention conversion, any conversion, it doesn’t have to be theirs! So all the Jews on the list should just jump over this paragraph. Now for the not Jewish folks, if you have thought about conversion and would like to learn more without rattling your partner’s cage, just call me. If you are converting and want to talk to others in the process, or who have completed the journey, call. If you are working with a rabbi towards conversion and would still like to talk to an actual convert to Judaism, again, I can put you in touch with someone.
Just so you know, you are not the only one.
Dawn
510-839-2900 x347
925-843-1484

EVENTS
Belief & the Ballot: Do Jewish Values Affect Your Decisions in this Election Year? (El Cerrito)
Young Family Shabbat (Los Altos)
Got Shabbat? (San Francisco)
Havdalah Beneath the Stars (Berkeley)
The Shabbat Afternoon Club (San Francisco)
Israeli Extravaganza (San Francisco)
Israel for Reel: Vis, Va et Deviens (Berkeley)
Jewish Parenting Class (San Francisco)
Exploring the World of Judaism (San Rafael)
Torah and Tacos (San Francisco)
Shirei Tikvah: Songs of Hope (Walnut Creek)
Dead Mother or Shirley Not All in Vain (San Francisco)
Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival: The Band’s Visit (Campbell)
The Bedtime Sh'ma Pajama Party! (Berkeley)
Gan Ami Open House for Infants to 3 Year Olds (Los Altos)
Family Games Day (Walnut Creek)
Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival: Beauford (San Jose)
Musical Erev Shabbat Service (Walnut Creek)
Interfaith Families at the Movies: Bad Faith (Pleasant Hill)
Welcoming Your Jewish Baby… Whether You’re Jewish or Not (Oakland)
Cooking Jewish: Got kugel? (Berkeley)
Women in Interfaith Relationships: Giving our Kids Roots & Wings (Walnut Creek)
Holiday Baking Classes (Berkeley)
Jews in Space (San Francisco)
A Taste of Judaism: Are you Curious? (Berkeley and Walnut Creek)
Passover: The Set Table (Oakland)

Belief & the Ballot: Do Jewish Values Affect Your Decisions in this Election Year?
What Jewish values are most important to you?
Do they help shape your decisions about who and what you support in this election year?
Should they? Join us to explore these questions. Rabbi Bridget Wynne will lead a lively interactive teaching on basic Jewish values and how they may -- or may not --relate to our election-year decisions We will share a no-experience-necessary Shabbat dinner, eat, laugh, and learn. All are welcome.

Date: Friday, February 8
Time: 6:15pm
Place: Jewish Gateways' cozy home near El Cerrito Plaza and BART station
Childcare: available by reservation After gathering at 6:15, we'll continue with:

Space is limited. Please contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at Jewish Gateways, (510) 559-8140, or rabbibridget@jewishgateways.org, to make a reservation and get directions and your food assignment. If your schedule doesn't allow you to bring a dish to share, we offer you the option of contributing $7 toward the dinner.

Young Family Shabbat
Join our fun, interactive half-hour Young Family Shabbat Service. Snack is provided following the service, as well as a special arts and crafts activity and time on the playground. For families with children ages 3 months–6 years.

Dates: February 9 & 23
Time: 9:30–10 a.m.
Place: Chapel/Room 1 at Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Info: 650-493-4661
www.betham.org

Got Shabbat?
Join us for a Shabbat morning experience at Temple Emanu-El.
Families with children of all ages are welcome! We will meet on the 2nd Saturday morning of each month. Your family will enjoy a short service, arts-n-crafts, music with Jonathan Bayer…and of course, a nosh!

Dates: Feb. 9
(Mark your calendars for Got Shabbat: Mar. 8, Apr. 12, May 10, June 14.)
Time: 10:45am
Place: Emanu-el, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
Info: 415-751-2535

Havdalah Beneath the Stars
A special event for preschool children and their families
Celebrate the sweetness of Havdalah, from a spot overlooking the Bay. Sing along with Ira, our amazing song leader. Explore the exhibits at the Lawrence Hall of Science and enjoy some puppet theater.
Tickets are limited, so reserve your space NOW!

Date: Sat., Feb. 9
Time: 6pm
Place: Lawrence Hall of Science, Berkeley
Cost: $18/family in advance, $20 at the door
On-line registration and payment is available at:
www.brownpapertickets.com/event/26701
For complete details call Judith Markowitz at 925-938-7800 x289

The Shabbat Afternoon Club
This a great NEW Shabbat Program sponsored by the Bureau of Jewish Education.
This month’s theme will be “My Favorite Book.”
Discover with your children the joys and rewards of quiet Shabbat space: for families with children ages newborn to five years old and their siblings who love them.
Led by Jeni Clancy our beloved Playgroup leader, a Family Educator, Pre-School learning specialist and storyteller who has worked throughout the Bay Area bringing joy to the lives of families and children.

Dates: Saturday, February 9, March 8, April 5, May 10
Time: 1:30-3:30pm
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California Street, San Francisco
Cost: Members $80, nonmembers $100
To sign up and for more information contact: Meredith Reich, Early Childhood Educator, 415-346-1720 ext 32 or mreich@sherithisrael.org.

Israeli Extravaganza
Enjoy live Israeli folk music with Achi Ben Shalom, leader of the band Adama, who is also musical director of the Nigunim choral ensemble and the East Bay Jewish Folk Chorus. Guided Israeli folk dance instruction will be provided by Bruce Bierman, artistic director of the Jewish Dance Theatre. Lyrics to the songs in the first set will be projected onto a screen so non-dancers can sing along if they like.
In the second music set, experience the new sound of young Israeli music as performed by the popular Israeli band Kol Creation. You can have a natural henna tattoo applied by Darcy, of the Henna Lounge, and there will be refreshments, informational tables, Israeli-made items for sale, and a big raffle drawing. With so much to see and do, it'll be fun for all ages!
This event, in honor of Israel at 60th anniversary, is co-sponsored by the Consulate General of Israel, San Francisco Hillel, the Israel Center of the Jewish Community Federation, TZAVTA, the Jewish Community Relations Council, JIMENA, B¢nai B¢rith and BBYO. Everyone - young and old, dancers or not -- is encouraged to attend. Schmooze, tap your feet to the music, eat, dance, drink and have a great time at the biggest community bash we’ve had in a long time!

Date: Saturday, February 9
Time: 7:00 - 9:30 p.m.
Place: Congregation Beth Israel-Judea, 625 Brotherhood Way, San Francisco
Free Admission
FOR MORE INFORMATION: adult.educ@yahoo.com or (415) 678-0327
FREE ADMISSION, FREE PARKING. For more information, contact Sonya Hicks, Chair of Adult Education at Beth Israel-Judea (415) 678-0327.

Israel for Reel: Vis, Va et Deviens
(Live and Become)
2005, 140min, French, Amharic, and Hebrew (English Subtitles)
Director Radu Mihaileanu
As Beta Yisrael, the Jews of Ethiopia, are airlifted to Israel under Operation Moses, a Christian Ethiopian woman seizes the opportunity and sends her young son to join the exodus. Once in Israel, the newly named Shlomo struggles not only with his secret, but also with a new culture and new parents. With the strong support of his adoptive family and an Ethiopian Jewish leader, he finds love, Israeli culture and a career-one that will eventually send him back to the refugee camp he left twenty years before.
Facilitator: Riva Gambert, Director, Israel Center

Date: Sunday February 10
Time: 7:00pm
Place: East Bay JCC, 1414 Walnut St., Berkeley
Free
Co-presented by Jewish Community Federation of the Greater East Bay's Israel Center, Congregation Beth El and the Jewish Community Foundation

Jewish Parenting Class
A Series for Jewish and Interfaith Parents of Babies through Teenagers
This month's topic: Havdalah: the Perfect Transition Ceremony
The beautiful ceremony of Havdalah helps us and our children to learn how to live in the moment, incorporate the past and look to the future. How can all this happen in only a few minutes? Come find out and leave knowing how to do it at home.
Childcare available, babies welcome in laps.
Facilitated by Rabbi Julie Saxe-Taller.

Date: Sunday, February 10
Time: 9:45-11am
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California Street, San Francisco
For more information contact Nancy Sheftel-Gomes
at nsgomes@sherithisrael.org or 415-346-1720 ext 28.

Exploring the World of Judaism
Diplomacy and Military Force
A brief history of Israel’s 60 years of security policy” will be discussed by Uri Bar-Joseph, Ph.D., Division of International Relations, School of Political Sciences, University of Haifa. Dr. Bar-Joseph is also a visiting Goldman Professor at SFSU.

Date: Sunday, February 10
Time: 9:30 am
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
Info: contact Jerrine, (415) 479-3441 or jerrine@rodefsholom.org

Torah and Tacos
We are lucky to live in a city featuring the best taquerias in the world, each neighborhood featuring its own favorite. We will gather monthly to meet at a local joint and study some Torah over tacos, burritos, and horchata. Do you like the idea of burritos made from organic and locally grown ingredients? How about meat from Niman Ranch and chicken from Fulton Valley farms? Ok, if that doesn’t convince you, then how about two dollar bottles of Pacifico? Come and join Rabbi Jaffe at this hidden gem in the NoPa neighborhood. Meet neighborhood friends, discuss the wisdom of the Torah portion Tetzaveh , and get to know a great neighborhood taqueria.

Date: Feb. 13
Time: 6:30 pm
Place: Green Chile Kitchen, at 601 Baker Street (cross Fulton).
For Info call Emanu-El, 2 Lake St., San Francisco at 415-751-2535.

Shirei Tikvah: Songs of Hope
A Musical Service
Please join us for a musical evening.

Arrive at 6:15 for Shabbat dinner catered by Poulet.
butternut squash & crimini mushroom lasagna, macaroni & cheese (for kids), caesar salad and roasted vegetables. Dinner reservations due February 8. Send a check to the address below. Adults are $15 each and children 4 to 12 are $7.50 each.

Date: Friday, February 15
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft Way, Walnut Creek
info: Judy at 925-933-5397
www.tikvah.org

Dead Mother or Shirley Not All in Vain
In this post-modern farce, Harold got away with impersonating his dead mother once and now he has to do it again, and again, and again. But in the hands of celebrated New York playwright David Greenspan, this comic situation runs through bad marriage, bad acting, Greek myth, and the circles of Hell, bending genders and theatrical reality along the way in a savagely funny, sharp and haunting 90 minute romp through the confusing layers of identity and family.

Playing now through February 17, 2008
Place: Traveling Jewish Theater,
470 Florida Street (17th and Mariposa Street) in San Francisco
For more information call 415.522.0786

Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival: The Band’s Visit
A Blockbuster Israeli Film, The Band’s Visit (http://www.thebandsvisit.com/) features an Egyptian Police Band in Israel that lands at the airport without anyone to meet them. Mishaps continue. Won Best Film, Best Actor, and Best Actress of the Israeli Film Academy.

Date: Sunday, Feb. 17
Time: 7pm
Place: CAMERA 7 Theater, Pruneyard Shopping Cntr, 1875 S. Bascom Ave., Campbell.
Tickets, $5, may be purchased at the Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival website http://www.svjff.org or by calling 1(800)838-3006.

The Bedtime Sh'ma Pajama Party!
Sarah Gershman is an extraordinary Jewish educator who is well-known and much-loved in the Bay area. To our delight, Sarah will be in town to host a snuggly and engaging program for families with young children.
Sarah is the author of a wonderful children's book called "The Bedtime Sh'ma" which is a beautiful adaptation of the traditional nighttime prayers. The gorgeous illustrations and sweet messages of this book invoke blessings of peace and comfort.

All children are encouraged to wear pajamas!
Please bring sleeping bags, blankets, pillows, stuffed animals, blankies
and any other comfy items that are associated with bedtime.

"The Bedtime Sh'ma" book and the accompanying CD will be on sale at the program.

Date: February 16
Time: 6:30pm - 7:30pm
Place: Congregation Beth Israel: 1630 Bancroft Way, Berkeley
If you have any questions about the program, please contact:
Yael Galinson: yael@galinson.com or Deb Fink: debincali@aol.com.
Sponsored by Congregation Beth Israel and Congregation Netivot Shalom, both of Berkeley
We are very grateful to Claudia Valas and EKS Publishing for generously supporting this event! A portion of the sales will go to the co-sponsoring organizations.

Gan Ami Open House for Infants to 3 Year Olds
Are you interested in Beth Am’s Early Childhood Education Program, Gan Ami? Have you considered enrollment in the current parent-toddler or 2 year-old program? Do you need a program for your infant, 2 year-old, or 3 year-old next fall? Come to our Open House! We will have children’s activities, refreshments, staff to answer questions and help you enroll! Spread the word! Tell your friends!

Date: Sunday, Feb. 24
Time: 3:30pm
Place: Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Road, Los Altos Hills
Contact Sherrie Rose Maleson, (650) 493-4665, ext. 256, srmaleson@betham. org or visit http://www.betham.org/youth/ganami. html

Family Games Day
COME IN OUT OF THE RAIN! Fed up with winter weather? Don’t stay cooped up at home! Come join your friends at B’nai Shalom for a cozy afternoon of games, nosh, coffee and conversation. It’s time for . . . B’nai Shalom Family Games Day
Featuring games for all ages!
- Mah Jongg - Trivial Pursuit
- Candy Land - Cranium
- Bingo - Scrabble
- Pictionary - Monopoly
and many more . . .

Date: Sunday, February 24
Time: 12:30 – 3:30
Place: In the Social Hall of B’nai Shalom, 74 Eckley Lane, Walnut Creek
Cost: $1 per person for all the drinks and nosh you want!
This event is open to all, members and non-members alike, who want to share in the fun.
RSVP to the B’nai Shalom office as soon as possible: office@bshalom.org or call 925-934-9446

Silicon Valley Jewish Film Festival: Beauford
Consul General of Israel of the Pacific Northwest, and Cinequest Film Festival partner to present Beaufort ,the Israeli Academy Award nominee as the Best Foreign Language Film, and Ron Leshem, noted Israeli author of the book on which the movie was based.
Beaufort , a 2007 film, is based on actual events focusing on the dilemma of Israeli soldiers during their withdrawal from Lebanon and their post in the Beaufort Crusader stronghold.

Date: Feb. 28
Time: 7pm
Place: San Jose Repertory Theater in downtown San Jose.
Tickets available after Jan. 30 from http://www.cinequest.org/index.php

Musical Erev Shabbat Service
Upbeat Musical Service
featuring Contemporary Selections & Inspirational Congregational Melodies with Musical Accompaniment
All Welcome!
Dairy Oneg (reception) following service

Date: Friday, February 29
Time: 7;30pm
Place: B’nai Shalom, 74 Eckley Lane, Walnut Creek
Info: 925-934-9446
www.bshalom.org

Interfaith Families at the Movies: Bad Faith
“Bad Faith” is part of the Contra Costa Jewish Film Festival.
Clara and Ishmael are gorgeous, happy, in love and in Paris. How nice is that? Like many cosmopolitan Parisian couples, the fact that she is Jewish and he is Muslim barely crosses the mins fo these oh-so-secular lovebirds.. Unitl Clara announces that she’s pregnant. That’s when the troubles start.

Date: Monday, March 3
Time: 4:30pm
Place: CinArts, 2314 Monument Blvd., Pleasant Hill (in the Kohl’s Center)
for more information call Dawn at 925-843-1484.
Co-Sponsored by Building Jewish Bridges.

Welcoming Your Jewish Baby… Whether You’re Jewish or Not
A Group for Moms and babies 0-6 months
Meeting in the East Bay

Five sessions, first meeting is Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Meets in a private home in Oakland.
11:30am to 1pm (feel free to bring a snack)

Join us for a discussion!
Discussion topics include:
Support for Moms with new Babies
Jewish Resources for Mom, Baby and Family
Getting Your Groove Back & Adjusting to the New Normal
Considering Jewish Choices and Practices for your Home

Cost: $36
Call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 for location more information or to sign up.
Please call soon as space limited

Cooking Jewish: Got kugel?
Got Kugel with Toffee Walnuts? Now you do. Here's the real homemade Gefilte Fish-and also Salmon en Papillote. Learn how to prepare Grandma Sera Fritkin's Russian Brisket, Hazelnut-Crusted Rack of Lamb and a contemporary rendition of matzoh balls with shiitake mushrooms, as court reporter-turned-cookbook author Judy Kancigor discusses her just-released tome of classic and family recipes, Cooking Jewish, and demonstrates how to make some of the most delicious Jewish dishes.

Date: Tuesday March 4
Time: 7:30pm
Place: East Bay JCC, 1414 Walnut St., Berkeley
FREE
Info: 510-848-0237
www.jcceastbay.org

Women in Interfaith Relationships: Giving our Kids Roots & Wings
Raising kids is hard. You have to be a cook, chauffeur, therapist, private secretary, doctor, and chief bottle washer. And in there you’re supposed to give your kids “roots” and “wings.” Roots: a foundation from which to spring. Wings: confidence & self knowledge. Ours is the first generation to think that Moms can do that alone. Forget it! Come get and give support.

Date: March 9
Time: 9 to 11am
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft, Walnut Creek
Facilitated by Dawn Kepler, Building Jewish Bridges - Call me for more information at 925-943-1484 or email me at dawn@jfed.org

Holiday Baking Classes
Deborah Lewis teaches baking! March 9 - Hamentashen; March 30 – blintzes and knishes; April 13 - Passover desserts. For adults and youth 8 and over (with an adult).

Dates: Sundays, March 9, March 30 and April 13
Time: 1:30-3:30 pm
Place: Netivot Shalom1316 University Ave., Berkeley
Cost: $12/class for adults and $8/class for youth. Register for the series to ensure your spot ($36 adults, $24 kids). To register or for more info, contact Deborah at youthed@netivotshalom.org

(Jews in Space)
Jews in Space
Argentina, 2005, 90 Min
Santiago and Luciana are childhood sweethearts and present day quirky adult cousins who are reunited on the eve of Passover in Buenos Aires. Argentinean director Gabriel Lichtmann's comic drama JEWS IN SPACE follows the heartfelt efforts of Luciana, a theater student and kleptomaniac, who throws herself into preparing the Seder-after an unfortunate family uproar caused by her curmudgeonly grandfather's suicide attempt.

Date: Wednesday, March 26
Time: 7:30 pm
Place: Yerba Buena Center for The Arts, 701 Mission Street (corner of 3rd), San Francisco
Ticket Prices: $8 general/$6 Jewish Film Forum and YBCA members, students, seniors
Seating is limited - Advance purchase recommended
For tickets call: 415.978.ARTS (2787)

A Taste of Judaism: Are you Curious?
What are the three pillars of Judaism? Jewish spirituality, Jewish ethics, and Jewish community. Come learn about them in a three session class.

Tuesday evenings in Walnut Creek beginning March 25
Mondays evenings in Berkeley beginning March 31
Free, but pre-registration is required. Call Dawn for information at:
510-839-2900 x347 x347 OR 925-943-1484
ADDITIONAL LOCATIONS ARE BEING ADDED AROUND THE BAY

Passover: The Set Table
The ultimate Jewish holiday: Passover! Whether you’ve never had a seder or you consider yourself a pro, you’ll learn something at this workshop.. We’ll literally have a set table - with all the elements identified and explained. We encourage you to bring ideas and practice from your own tradition and family. We’ll have sample foods and recipes as well as an assortment of Hagadot for you to peruse. Come for the fun; come for the food!

Date: Sunday, March 30
Time: 11am to 1pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
FREE
Co-sponsored by Temple Sinai and Building Jewish Bridges
Call Dawn for more info at 510-839-2900 x347 or email dawn@jfed.org

Welcoming Your Jewish Baby...Whether You're Jewish or Not

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A Group for Moms and babies 0-6 months

Join us for a discussion!
Discussion topics include:
Support for Moms with new Babies
Jewish Resources for Mom, Baby and Family
Getting Your Groove Back & Adjusting to the New Normal
Considering Jewish Choices and Practices for your Home

Date: Five sessions, first meeting is Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Time: 1pm to 2:30pm (feel free to bring a snack)
Place: Meets in a private home in Oakland.
Cost: $36
Call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 for location more information or to sign up.
Please call soon as space limited

It doesn't stop with the group! Mamas continue meeting for outings. Below is dinner out at a Chinese restaurant.

Interfaith Couples Discussion Group

2008-02-05T19:12:00.001-08:00

Discussion Series for Interfaith/Intercultural Couples

8 Sessions
Exchange ideas about such issues as:

 Holiday Observances – Which holidays will be celebrated in our home?

 Dealing With Our Families – How will we talk to our parents about our choices?

 Raising Children – How can we make sure our child is “part” of each of us?

 Spiritual Concerns – How do we satisfy our needs and recognize our Partner’s?

 Cultural Differences – How do communication styles and familial expectations impact our relationship?

This is one of the most meaningful and powerful things you can do for your relationship. I encourage every couple to participate in a couples group.

There is a sliding scale. NO ONE turned away. Tell me you work evenings, tell me you can't get a babysitter, but don't tell me it's the money because we can make it work.

IN OAKLAND
With Dawn Kepler
call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 or e-mail dawn@jfed.org to register or receive more information.

Women in Interfaith Relationships

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Women in Interfaith Relationships:
Giving our Kids Roots & Wings
Raising kids is hard. You have to be a cook, chauffeur, therapist, private secretary, doctor, and chief bottle washer. And in there you’re supposed to give your kids “roots” and “wings.” Roots: a foundation from which to spring. Wings: confidence & self knowledge. Ours is the first generation to think that Moms can do that alone. Forget it! Come get and give support.

Date: March 9
Time: 9 to 11am
Place: B’nai Tikvah, 25 Hillcroft, Walnut Creek
Facilitated by Dawn Kepler, Building Jewish Bridges - Call me for more information at 925-943-1484 or email me at dawn@jfed.org

Give yourself the gift of Time

2008-01-30T16:50:00.000-08:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

A New Year’s Resolution for 2008
Time - our most precious possession
A friend of mine has a new baby. Everyone says to her, “treasure this time, it goes so fast.” My twenty-one year old daughter looks at a picture of her “little” brother as a six year old and says, “Oh, mom, look how cute he was!” Those delightful times with cherub faces.

Yes, there are the long agonizingly moments too, when a child is sick or miserable. The endless nights of homework wars or timing soccer practice or making the 100,000th peanut butter sandwich. But those times too are quickly past.

Judaism makes time sacred. It sets aside one day a week to BE instead of DO. If you have children I urge you to make this a ritual in your week. Make the most of Shabbat. Use as many of those 25 hours (yes, Judaism wants you to get a little extra) as you possibly can.

If you don’t have children don’t you still deserve to enrich your life with precious moments, moments worth remembering? Of course you do.

Turn off your computer and TV. Ignore the phone. Invite friends over. Play charades, tell tale tales, read aloud. I promise you won’t regret it.

What are all the Jews around the world Reading this Week?
If you go to synagogue on Shabbat (Sabbath), any synagogue, the service will have a section of the Torah (Bible) assigned to THAT particular Shabbat. Every synagogue in the world will be reading the same section. Each section has a name, usually picked as the first NOUN used in the text. A child who is having their bar or bat mitzvah will chant from that section (called a Torah portion or, in Hebrew, parshat. Ask any Jew who has had a bar or bat mitzvah, “what was your Torah portion?” and they will have an answer. You may get, “Oh, it was horrible! All about boils!” Or “I got lucky! Breshit, the creation story!” But no matter the portion, each child (or now adult) will have learned and taught something from the text.

The Torah portion for Shabbat, week beginning Feb. 1 at sundown and continuing till Feb. 2 at sundown.
http://www.myjewishlearning.com/texts/Weekly_Torah_Commentary/mishpatim_summary.htm

Interfaith at the Movies: Bad Faith

2008-01-16T06:19:00.000-08:00

Bad Faith
French Film, 2006
The film industry offers this synopsis: Like many cosmopolitan Parisian couples, Clara and Ishael scarcely notice that she is Jewish and he is Muslim...until Clara discovers that she’s pregnant. Suddenly baby names, circumcision and keeping Ramadan become flashpoints. Can love really conquer all? A snappy, sexy comedy.

A French viewer commenting on the film at Internet Movie Database (www.imdb.com) says the movie is “one minute too long.” Why? Because in that one minute the movie ends on a surprisingly unrealistic note.

In a discussion following last summer’s screening, the Jewish wife in a Jewish - Muslim couple offered the comment, “Everything they showed... it happens. But the ending isn’t so simple.”

Join me to see for yourself.

Monday, March 3, 2006, 4:30pm
CinArts, 2314 Monument Blvd., Pleasant Hill (in the Kohl’s Center)

Do it Yourself Tu Bishvat Seder

2008-01-15T21:14:00.000-08:00

Dear Interfaith Couples and Friends,

The Holiday Ahead
Tu Bishvat (many spellings, same sounds) will begin next Monday at sundown. This holiday is much more widely embraced and celebrated by the younger generation that was done by folks over 30. Here’s a link to an interesting article on the topic.
http://www.jta.org/cgi-bin/iowa/news/article/2008011320080111tubshevatseders.html

Tu Bishvat Seder online
Many years ago I attended my first Tu Bishvat seder led by Claire Sherman, daughter of the legendary Berkeley Jewish maven, Ursula Sherman. It was a feminist, Renewal-focused seder and I was transfixed. Soon my circle of women’s friends began doing our own seder. We developed a guide to the seder that I’ve decided to post online on the blog. Take a look. You may need someone to help you get through some of the Hebrew transliterations and translations (translations are not literal all the time). But it’s a fun and mystical, feminine, multi-source based seder. Use it as a jumping off point to develop your own observance of this holiday. You and your family will enjoy eating fruit and nuts and honoring the trees that sustain our planet.

Seder: www.jewishinterfaith.blogspot.com

Learn More
Here’s a link with some information and some book suggestions.
http://www.hebcal.com/holidays/tu-bshvat.html

You can also go to www.jholidays.org and click on Tu B’shevat “more info.”

From Union for Reform Judaism
http://urj.org/holidays/tubishvat/

From MyJewishLearning
http://www.myjewishlearning.com/holidays/TuBishvat.htm

From Torah.org
www.torah.org/learning/yomtov/tubshvat/

Tu Bishvat Seder

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A number of years ago I experienced my first Tu Bishvat Seder. It was led by Claire Sherman at the Berkeley JCC. I loved it. It inspired me to return to my women's group and start doing seders with them. Below is a seder we created. Copy, borrow, change. Have your own fun and focus. The translations are not always literal.

You'll need red and white wine or grape juices, lots of fruit and nuts. A barley soup and a loaf of bread make for a good meal.

Tu B'Shevat

Why do we observe Tu B'Shevat?

When the Temple stood the tithing system included a 1/10th tax on fruit. The tithe could be given only on the fruit that had actually ripened that year. In order to organize the tithe there had to be an agreed date of the end of one fruiting year and the beginning of the next. Hillel chose to the 15th of Shevat, the date of an existing midwinter full-moon festival, at time when the sap is low and the trees are dormant.

Tu B'Shevat gained significance when a community of mystics in the town of Safed in the 16th century developed new practices for the holiday. The mystics became interested because one of the Kabbalists' images of the S'phirot or emanations of God is a Tree. They envisioned God as a Tree of Life whose roots were in the heavens and whose branches extended toward earth, bringing life and blessing. The tree is a visual representation of the flow of Divine energy into the world.

"The S'phirot represent the dynamic aspects of God through which the creation of the world continually takes place - aspects that begin in the unimaginable, undiscussable Eyn Sof -the Endless One- and become progressively more in touch with the created world and with human understanding." (Seasons of Our Joy) God is the Tree of S'phirot, and it is the ultimate flow of universal life that gives life to the whole palpable universe.

The New Year of the Trees is a holy time, an opportunity to partake of the fruit of the trees and a time to thank God for the wonder of renewed life for the universe. The mystics taught that "saying blessings over the fruits would help to release the holy sparks of life-flow in them. Moreover, actually chewing the fruit would have an even more profound effect--since we have 32 teeth, and the word Elohim, God, appears 32 times in the story of creation. Instead of hoarding the holy sparks on earth, the person who joins in the Seder would be returning them to the Creator, to the Tree of Life--to keep the life-flow going." (Seasons of Our Joy)

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We shall go out in joy and be lead forth in peace.
The mountains and the hills will break forth before us.
There will be shouts of joy and all the trees
of the field will clap, will clap their hands,
The trees of the field will clap their hands as we go out in joy.
(Isaiah 55:12)

For the Holy One brings you into a good land, a land with streams and springs and fountains issuing from hills and valleys; a land of wheat and barley, of vines, figs and pomegranates, a land of olive trees and honey.
(Deuteronomy 8:7-8)
On Tu B'Shevat we endeavor to eat of each of the seven species.
It is said, if the Messiah comes while you are planting a tree, you should first finish planting the tree and then go to greet the Messiah.
Baruch ata, Adonai Eloheinu, melech ha olam, oseh ma-asei vereishit.

Blessed art thou Creator of the universe who continually does the work of creation.

Psalm 104
Praise God, O my Soul; My God, You are very great;
You are clothed in glory and majesty, wrapped in a robe of light.
You spread the heavens like a tent cloth.
You set the rafters of Your lofts in the waters.
You make the clouds of Your chariot move on the wings of the wind.
The trees of the Holy One drink their fill, the cedars of Lebanon, God's own planting,
Where birds make their nests; the stork has her home in the junipers.

Eli, Eli by Hannah Senesh
Eli, Eli
She-lo y'gamer l'olam
Ha-chol v'ha-yam
Rish-rush shel ha-mayim
B'rak ha-shamayim
T'filat ha-adam

Eli, my God
I pray that these things never end
The sand and the sea
The rush of the waters
The crash of the heavens
The prayer of the heart.

According to Kabbalah there are four worlds or levels of creation. The fourth and highest level, atzilut, "emanation," is spiritual and beyond concrete representation. The third is beriah, "creation," (creation by God only) and is symbolized by ten fruits that have neither pits on the inside or shells on the outside -- that is they are totally edible: grapes, figs, apples, carobs, pears, etrogim, lemons, quinces, raspberries, and blueberries. (Seeds are considered edible in this system.) The second level is yetzirah, "formation," (creation by human beings) and is represented by fruit that has pits inside, but the outside can be eaten. Its ten fruits are olives, dates, cherries, jujubes, persimmons, apricots, peaches, loquats, plums, and hackberries. The bottom level is assiyah, "action," our world of physical reality. This level is represented by fruit with an outer protective shell and a soft, edible inside. The ten fruits and nuts are pomegranates, walnuts, almonds, pine nuts, chestnuts, hazelnuts, coconuts, Brazil nuts, pistachios, and pecans. The symbolism, in brief, is as follows: those parts that can be eaten represent holiness; the inedible parts, that is, the pits, represent the impure; and the shells serve as protection for the fragile holiness inside.

THE FIRST CUP: WHITE WINE

Our first cup of wine is white, symbolizing the Winter. We are still in the dormant months, awaiting spring and rebirth. Now the sap is low in the trees. Trees are pruned now because their life source is hidden deep within; their cuts will not bleed. As trees now lie dormant, some people are dormant. Though they are physically alive, they do not draw nourishment from the Divine, nor do they share the divine sparks.

Brucha at Shechina, hay ha-olamim, boreit pri hagafen.

Blessed are you, Holy One, Source of all life, Creator of the fruit of the vine.

Recite the Shehehiyanu

ASSIYAH - the first level of fruit
The lowest level of physical creation is Assiyah, (action, physical reality). For Assiyah we eat nuts and fruits with a tough skin or shell to remind us of the protection the earth gives. A shell can also isolate or separate us from others. We acknowledge that we need protection in life, both physical and emotional. We struggle to remove the walls that separate us from receiving what we want and need. We bless our internal defense systems and seek a strength that allows vulnerability.

The ten fruits of assiyah are: pomegranates, walnuts, almonds, pine nuts, chestnuts, hazelnuts, coconuts, Brazil nuts, pistachios, and pecans.

I said to the almond tree: Sister, speak to me of God. And the almond tree blossomed. (N. Kazantzakis)

The word for almond in Hebrew comes from the root word to "watch" or "wake." The almond tree is among the first to awaken out of the winter sleep.

Baruch ata Adonai Elohaynu melech ha-olam boray pri ha-etz.

Blessed are you, Shechina, Source of life, Creator of the fruit of the tree.
(Almonds are eaten)

Rabbi Tarfon likened the people of Israel to a pile of walnuts. If one walnut is removed, each and every walnut in the pile will be shaken. When a single Jew is in trouble every other Jew is shaken and affected.
(Avot de Rabbe Natan 18)
(Walnuts are eaten)

I went down to the nut garden,
to see the young plants
growing by the stream,
to see if the vine has blossomed,
if the pomegranate has bloomed.
(Song of Songs 6:11)

On seeing trees blooming for the first time in the year:

Brucha at Yah, ruach ha-olam, shelo cheser b'olama davar, uvara vo briyot tovot v'ilanot tovim l'hanot bahem b'nai u'vanot adam.

Blessed art thou, Queen of the Universe, who has withheld nothing from this world and has created beautiful creatures and beautiful trees in it, so that we may delight in them.

Hinei Ma Tov (from Psalm 133)

Hinei ma tov u'ma nayim
Shevet nashim gam yachad

How good, how pleasant it is
To sit here, women together.

THE SECOND CUP: PINK WINE

Our second cup of wine is white, but tinged with red. It symbolizes the beginnings of springtime and the earth's reawakening. The trees nestled on the breast of earth begin to draw nourishment through their roots. Their branches bear the tight buds like promises. Some people have a sense of discomfort, an awareness the life is not fulfilling, but they have trouble receiving or giving comfort. Yet there is hope because there is some awareness.

Baruch ata Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, borei pri hagafen.

Blessed are you, Holy One, Source of all life, Creator of the fruit of the vine.

YETZIRAH - the second level of fruit

The second level is Yetzirah (formation). The Kabbalists viewed this as a more sturdy form of creation; it is represented by fruits with pits. Is this inner seed a sheltered potential for procreation or a hard, resistant heart? The ten fruits are olives, dates, cherries, jujubes, persimmons, apricots, peaches, loquats, plums, and hackberries.

Our boughs shall spread out far,
Our beauty shall be like the olive tree's,
Our fragrance like that of Lebanon.
(interpreted from Hosea 14:7)

Brucha at Yah, makor ha-olam, boreit pri ha-etz.

Blessed are you, Holy One, Source of Life, Creator of the fruit of the tree.
(olives are eaten)

Deborah used to sit under the Palm of Deborah, between Ramah and Bethel in the hill country of Ephraim, and the Israelites would come to her for decisions.
(Judges 4:5)

The righteous shall flourish like the palm tree; They will grow like a cedar in Lebanon.
Planted in the House of God, they flourish in the courts of our Creator.
(Psalms 92)

(dates are eaten)

It is said that in King Solomon's palace there was a room painted with murals showing apricot trees in full bloom. Their fruit was so golden and lifelike that guests could smell their sweet aroma as soon as they entered. Known as "golden apples," apricots were first brought to the Middle East from Armenia at the time of Noah.
(from The Jewish Holiday Kitchen) (apricots are eaten)

THE THIRD CUP: LIGHT RED WINE

We lift our cups a third time with rose colored wine representing spring with its promise of bounty. Lilies, roses, poppies, strawberries, melons, color and life surge from the earth. The leaves are opening now; trees are covered with sprays of bright green. Spring fever, that wild, exhilarating sense of joy flows through us.

Brucha at Yah, hay ha-olamim, boreit pri hagafen.

Blessed are you Shechina, Source of all life, Creator of the fruit of the vine.

BERIAH - the third level of fruit

The third level, "creation," is symbolized by ten fruits that are totally edible: grapes, figs, apples, carobs, pears, etrogim, lemons, quinces, raspberries, and blueberries.

As human beings, struggling to survive whole in a world which often seems antagonistic to our integrity, we can develop hard shells to protect our inner core. Although we survive as individuals within our shells, we remain partly hidden and cut off from each other, and touching one another takes the patient effort of separating the protective layer from the inner core while keeping the core intact. We can also be more like the fruit of the second world, available up to a point, but withholding our innermost part, perhaps needing a secret toughness to keep from collapsing under the pressure.

But in our most precious relationships, we are most like the fruit which can be taken whole, available to each other in every aspect and facet of our personalities, and strong in a way which does not cut any part of us off from each other. When we look at each other it is with complete openness and with complete acceptance.

Nation shall not lift up sword against nation,
Neither shall they learn war any more.
But they shall sit every woman under her vine and under her fig-tree;
And none shall make them afraid.
(Micah 4:3-4)

Why were the words of the Torah compared to the fig tree? The fruit of the fig tree does not ripen all at once. The more one searches, the more figs one finds in it. So it is with the words of the Torah. The more one studies them, the more relish one finds in them.
(Eruvin 54a,b)

Brucha at Shechina, makor ha-olam, boreit pri ha-etz.

Blessed are You, Shechina, Source of Life, Creator of the fruit of the tree.

(figs are eaten)

One day Choni, the righteous man, saw an old man planting a carob tree. He asked him, "how long does it take for this tree to bear fruit?" "Seventy years," the old man replied. "But you are so old you will never taste the fruit," said Choni. "You are right, but I have eaten the fruit of trees that were planted by my grandfather and I plant this tree for my grandchildren."
Choni sat down to have a meal and sleep overcame him. As he slept, a rocky formation enclosed him and hidden from sight, he continued to sleep for 70 years. When he awoke, he saw a man gathering the fruit of the carob tree and he asked him, "Are you the man who planted the tree?" The man replied, "No, I am his grandson."
(Ta'anit 223a)

(carob is eaten)

Like a lily among the thorns,
So is my love among the maidens.
Like an apple tree among trees of the forest,
So is my beloved among the youths.

(apple is eaten)

Brucha at Shechina, makor ha-olam, asker kiddishatnu b'mitzoteha v'tzivatnu at n'tilat yadayim.

Blessed are You, the Divine Presence, Source of creation, whose sacred energy flows through our hands and connects us, one with another.
(Claire Sherman)

Baruch ata, Adonai, Eloheinu, melech ha-olam, ha-motzi lechem min ha-aretz.

Blessed are You, the Divine Presence, Source of all life, who brings forth bread from the earth.

THE MEAL IS SERVED

ATZILUT - the fourth level of creation

The highest Kabbalistic category of creation is spiritual and cannot be represented by physical food. Atzilut deals with the Holy One's love, mercy, wisdom and other essential and omnipresent realities which we perceive with our heart rather than with the five senses. We bring this realm into the world when we express the qualities of love and compassion to each other.

A symbol for this spiritual level is flowers and spices.

Brucha at Yah, hay ha-olamim, ha-notenet rei-ah tov ba-perot.

We praise You, the Divine Presence, who gives a pleasant fragrance to fruits.

THE FOURTH CUP - DEEP RED WINE

We fill our cups a fourth and final time with blood red wine. This vital color represents the fullness of summer when blossoms have born fruit. The trees' branches are hidden in masses of leaves, leaves in every shade of green. The older the tree, the more it is valued. It provides more fruit, more shade. It stands strong and gnarled on the breast of the earth, roots deep in the foundations of the soil, branches offering broad shelter. So too can old women and men offer a calm perspective, wise guidance and loving compassion.

As a white candle
in a holy place,
So is the beauty
Of an aged face.
(The Old Woman by Joseph Campbell)

Brucha at Yah, hay ha-olamim, boreit pri hagafen.

Blessed are You, Holy One, Source of all life, Creator of the fruit of the vine.

OSEH SHALOM
Oseh shalom bimromav
Hu ya'aseh shalom aleinu
V'al kol Yisrael
V'imru, amen.

Ya'aseh shalom,
Ya'aseh shalom,
Shalom aleinu
v'al kol Yisrael.

May the One who makes peace in the heavens
Grant peace to us
And to all the people Israel
And let us say, Amen.

Lo alecha ha-m'lacha ligmor v'lo ata ven chorin l'habatel mimena.
It is not your duty to complete the work, neither are you free to desist from it.
(Pirke Avot)

New Year of the Trees

2008-01-09T20:51:00.000-08:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Holiday in January: Tu Bishvat
The next holiday on the Jewish calendar has interesting roots. Tu Bishvat (spelled many different ways, just make the sounds as best you can) has it’s roots in the Torah. Among the laws given for living in the land of Israel were the ones that outlined sacrifices given to the Temple. A portion of the orchard harvest was given in tithe. The farmer had to know when the year “began” for the trees and how old they were - you don’t harvest from a very young tree. A date was needed and for those of you who are gardeners you can see the sense in choosing a date in January - February (the season for planting trees from rootstock). The name of the holiday means the 15th of Shvat (think of the fourth of July).

But this rather straightforward meaning was enhanced by the mystical rabbis who used the image of a tree with it’s roots in heaven and it’s branches here on earth as a metaphor for the relationship between heaven and earth. So for the holiday marking the new year of the trees they developed a mystical seder, the Tu Bishvat seder.

The holiday begins at sundown on Monday, Jan. 21. Here’s a link with some information and some book suggestions.

http://www.hebcal.com/holidays/tu‑bshvat.html

You can also go to www.jholidays.org and click on Tu B’shevat “more info.”

Seders will be held by many synagogues and Jewish Community Centers around the bay. I’ll list some here and you can call Jewish Community Information and Referral to have them check for one near you. Their number is 415-777-4545.

Christian Man, Jewish Father

Here is an interesting article of a Christian man talking about being a Jewish father
http://urj.org/Articles/index.cfm?id=2023&pge_prg_id=30372&pge_id=4659

How I Decided to Raise My Kids Jewish

2008-01-05T10:45:00.000-08:00

Two Hearts, One Home
When a non-Jewish parent decides to raise their children as Jews, how does that process work? Once the decision is made, how do you make it happen? How do you retain your own religion? How do you share your identity? Join a panel of non-Jewish parents as they discuss their journey to a Jewish home identity.

Wednesday, Feb. 6, 7:30pm
Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
For more information call Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 or 925-943-1484.

Start 2008 by doing something for yourself

2008-01-02T22:00:00.000-08:00

January 3, 2008

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Here it is - 2008! Let’s make the most of it!

Do something for your relationship
For starters I am going to recommend that you participate in an interfaith couples discussion group. Call me right now and let’s talk about it. You’ll look at who you each are, improve your communication, and sort out issues that have felt stuck. If you want to talk to someone who already did it, just say so. You don’t have to take my word for it.

Learn something new
The Lehrhaus Judaica catalog just came out. Call for a copy or look at it online at www.lehrhaus.org. There are loads of new classes starting in January and February.

American Jews on PBS
There will be a documentary of the 350 year history of Jews in America on PBS on Jan. 9, 16, and 23. You can see a clip from the show at their website:
http://www.jewishtvnetwork.com/jewishamericans/

Jewish Chicken Farmers

2007-12-28T16:41:00.000-08:00

I have a soft spot in my heart for chickens. Dumb as they are, my grandmother had chickens, my mother had chickens and yes, I had chickens. They made for very educational pets.

I received this notice:
In case you missed it earlier, we are pleased that "A Home on the Range: The Jewish Chicken Ranchers of Petaluma" will be re-broadcast this Sunday, December 30th on KQED, channel 9, at 6 pm as part of their Truly CA series.

http://www.kqed.org/arts/truly/episode.jsp?eid=130980

There’s a woman in my congregation whose father was one of those Jewish Petaluma chicken farmers and for years I lived next door to an old gentleman who was one of the non-Jewish farmers. He remembered the Jewish farmers of his growing up days.

If you won't be home Sunday night either tape it or check the website for other dates it will be shown.

Cookies for all seasons

2007-12-20T11:05:00.000-08:00

I got a lot of help from Eileen, bless her! She mixed up lots of frosting colors and did most of the work.

OK, folks, let’s bake!

The stirring, the taste testing of the dough, the shapes, the scent from the oven, the colored frosting, maybe sprinkles, mmm! Don’t forget to crank up your favorite songs and SING ALONG while you cook.

Sugar Cookies
I got this recipe from my mom a very long time ago. I thought she got it from The Joy of Cooking but I just looked and I can’t find it there.

Cream:
1/2 cup butter
3/4 cup granulated sugar

Add:
2 eggs
1 tsp. Vanilla

Sift in:
2 cups flour
1 tsp. Baking powder
1/2 tsp. Each salt, baking soda, nutmeg

Blend well and chill until firm (about an hour). I do it the fast way – I put a ball of dough in the freezer for 10 minutes.
Roll out the dough to whatever thickness you like. My dad loved very thick cakey cookies. Cut shapes. Put your shapes on the cookie sheet and if you aren’t going to frost them, sprinkle them with a little granulated sugar and puff of nutmeg.
Bake on a greased cookie sheet at 350 degrees for 10 minutes or until golden.

If you ARE going to frost them, let them cool on a rack while you mix some food coloring into the frosting.

If you don’t have any Jewish cookie cutters just use a butter knife to cut out triangles. Put them on the cookie sheet overlapping into a Star of David. If you think the center is too thick just press it down with your thumb and put a dab of jam in the dip. Voila! Jewish thumbprint cookies.

Gingerbread Cookies
Another good recipe for cutting out shapes. I got this from a high school friend, Paula, who knows where she got it. Thanks Paula, where ever you are.

1/2 cup butter
1/2 cup sugar
Cream together and add:
1/2 cup molasses
1 egg
Sift in:
2 1/2 cups flour
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 tsp. Baking soda
1 tsp baking powder
1 tsp. Ginger
1/2 tsp nutmeg
1 1/2 tsp cinnamon

Blend everything together and chill for 2 hours. Naturally I don’t do this, I put a ball of dough in the freezer for more like 15 minutes. Roll out the dough as thick or thin as you like it. Cut shapes and place on an ungreased cookie sheet.
Bake at 350 degrees for 10 plus minutes – depends on how thick you made them
These are terrific plain or frosted.

I told you about these cookies – my son and a male friend of mine cut out loads gingerbread men and proceeded to create ginger aliens - blue faces, one red eye, green hands. It became a holiday tradition. We’ll be eating aliens around the board games next week.

No Holiday Blues!

2007-12-20T10:51:00.000-08:00

NO Holiday Blues!

A woman told me that she used to wait eleven months for Christmas and it HAD to be all that she expected. She said she felt like “a pressure cooker.” That kind of intense need is what leads to holiday blues and worse. Now just in case things don’t go as you have them planned – someone gets sick, someone missed the plane, gets lost on the road, begs out, fights with you, has a tree fall on their car – let’s set things up so you don’t get the blues. If Tuesday morning comes and it looks like all your dreams for Christmas are coming apart, stop! Start humming “I’ve got a New Attitude” and do these things.

Pick out your favorite music. Is it White Christmas? Grandma Got Run over by a Reindeer? I Heard it through the Grapevine? Whatever it is, put it on to play and sing along – LOUD! Break into a dance.

Find the popcorn, and put that out. Get out the ingredients for cookies. Make a list of what you will need for dinner (if the food was being brought by the guy whose engine died) - a little chicken from the store? A can of gravy? Refrigerator rolls? Cookie sprinkles? Make it easy. Dash out and get it – tell the grocery clerk Happy Holidays or Merry Christmas – which ever you prefer. But cheer them up too!

Get out your favorite movies - Christmas in Connecticut, The Blues Brothers, Lord of the Rings.

Is there anyone you can invite over? Here’s what you say, “It turns out my plans were unexpectedly changed. I would love for you to come by this afternoon. I’m making cookies.”

OK, put on the music. Sing along! Get the food going – even if you’ve settled on a bowl of Rice Krispies. Make the cookies, cut out shapes. No cutters? Use a glass turned upside down.

Put out the cookies. Let people frost them.
Put out the games and a jigsaw puzzle.
Put on the movie.

Now dance, laugh, play.

Feeling like you can relate to the pressure cooker analogy? Call me. I’ll tell you how she fixed it.

Two more Jewish options for Christmas Eve and Day --

Chopshticks
“Chopshticks" is an annual local tradition of great Comedy and gourmet Chinese Food. It's a yearly sell-out and tickets must be purchased in advance. In fact, 2006 sold out so quickly, a second night has been added this year. Why spend the holidays alone when you can spend it laughing out loud with other Jews?
This year's program features a cross-country, comedy triple threat: two fast-rising comics from the East Coast who are garnering great reviews and big laughs: Lenny Marcus and Brad Zimmerman, and exciting Bay Area newcomer Mo Mandel.
Attendees will enjoy a gourmet vegetarian (and fish) dinner at Mings, a beautiful Chinese restaurant in Palo Alto noted for its fine dining and upscale atmosphere. The multi-course meal includes a cocktail hour for the first hour.

Dates: Monday Dec. 24th at 7 pm
Tuesday Dec. 25th at 6 pm
Place: Palo Alto JCC, 1700 Embarcadero Rd., Palo Alto
Cost: Tickets are $70 per person or $700 for a table for ten.
Information: 650-493-9400
www.paloaltojcc.org

Young Adult: Meet and Greet / Chinese Food
This month's Young Adult Meet & Greet will coincide with an annual Jewish tradition: Chinese food on Christmas. While other folks will deck the halls and fa la la we'll enjoy a vegetarian meal at Mandarin Gourmet. It'll be just the thing to help you recover from the Latke Ball the night before.

Date: Tuesday December 25, 2007
Time: 7:00pm
Place: Mandarin Gourmet, 10145 N. De Anza Blvd., Cupertino
RSVP IF YOU WANT US TO SAVE YOU A SEAT!!
RSVP by emailing Aleeza at cbdyag[at]gmail.com
Contact: Michael Goldberger at Beth David (sponsoring synagogue) goldberger@beth-david.org
Cost: Pay for dinner there, dinner will be around $20/person
http://cbdyag.wordpress.com/

Christmas Just Ahead

2007-12-18T06:29:00.000-08:00

(From the film, THE BUBBLE, showing in Berkeley. See below. It will also be in the Contra Costa Film Festival in March.)

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Next Tuesday the vast majority of the country will be celebrating Christmas. For some this will be loads of fun, for others, not so much. If you are having trouble with the idea, call me, let’s talk. If you are ambivalent I suggest you get through the day as best you can and then resolve to explore your feelings come January.

Give your Relationship a Gift
What if you were to put your relationship first? That’s right, get a babysitter and come to a couples discussion group. Get to know your partner better, get to know yourself better, make some decisions about what is going to work for you now and create communication channels to support future challenges.

Call or email me today. Let’s start in January.
Dawn@jfed.org
510-839-2900 x347
925-943-1484

Latke Ball
Hundreds of Bay Area Jews dancing the night away on Christmas Eve.
This event is for young Jews – all the Young Adult programs are taking their members.

Date: Monday, Dec. 24
Time: 9pm to 2am Dec. 25
Place: Ruby Skye, San Francisco
Cost: $35 at the door

YLD in the East Bay (Young Leadership Division - Jews age 21 to 40ish) is chartering a party bus to and from the Latke Ball.
$40 includes your discounted ticket, transportation to and from Oakland, and wine and snacks on the bus. Space is limited. To purchase discount tickets and be part of our YLD party bus - email us at: youngleadership@jfed.org.

There will also be a party bus to the Latke Ball from Silicon Valley. Stops will be made in Los Gatos, Palo Alto, and Foster City. For more information, contact SVYAD Director Jonathan Berg at svyad@jvalley.org

The Meshugenah Comeday Tour
at Beth Emek
What is more fun than the traditional Chinese food dinner on Dec 24?
Bring your friends & family for a catered Chinese food dinner followed by four hilarious meshugenah (crazy) Jewish comedians.
This is a family friendly show youth 8 & up are welcome; It's at the parents discretion about bringing the kids - It's a comedy show consider how long your kids can sit and enjoy the show.

Date: Monday, Dec. 24
Time: 5:45pm - 9:15pm
Place: Beth Emek, 3400 Nevada Court, 3400 Nevada Court, Pleasanton
Catering by Canton Village, Dinner & Comedy admission prices:
$25 per adult
$20 per senior 65 + up
$10 per 12 & under
Pay at the door - reservations required
For more information contact: Sharon Cohen 925-931-1055 x11

Family Fun at the JCC
The SF JCC is open all day on Dec. 25. Go to their website, www.jccsf.org and decide what you’d like to do.

Date: Dec. 25
Time: looks to be 9am to 9pm
Place: San Francisco JCC, 3200 California St., San Francisco
call 415-292-1200.

Listen to Local Community On Christmas Day
Afikomen hosts Café ‘Komen on designated Sundays to present informal lectures on seasonal topics to increase your knowledge of, and appreciation for, Judaism's vibrant ritual life. Music and storytelling events are also presented. While there is no charge, donations are appreciated.

Date: Dec 25th - "Listen to Local" Community Celebration & Sale
Time: 11am to 6pm
11:00 - Children's music with Melita Silverstein
1:00 - Storytelling for all ages with Joel Ben Izzy
2:15 - Mizrachi music with John Erlich of Za-atar & friends
4:00 - Readings by local poets: Rebecca Fromer Camhi, Jenny Overman, Judith Goldhaber and others.
Place: Afikomen, 3042 Claremont Avenue, Berkeley
For more information all 510-655-1977.

Yiddish Folk Festival
Come join us for this fantastic event - fun for grandma, grandpa and the kids.
Featuring:
* Yiddish Food
* Yiddish Sing-a-longs
* Yiddish Dancing, with personalized lessons
* Yiddish Kibbitzing (instruction provided-if you need it!)
* Live music by TheKlezCalifornia All-Star Band led by Gerry Tenney
Program by: KlezCalifornia

Date: Tuesday, December 25
Time: 2-5pm
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave. Berkeley
Cost: $25 adult, $12 child
Contact Robin Braverman at (925) 979-1998 or rivkah48@sbcglobal.net for advance sales at discounted rates.
Co-sponsored by Congregation Netivot Shalom, Congregation Beth El, Jewish Community Center of the East Bay, Aquarian Minyan, Kehilla Community Synagogue and Chochmat HaLev

Movie: The Bubble
Israel for Reel presents Ha Buah (The Bubble)
Israel, 2006, 117min, Hebrew
and Arabic (English Subtitles)
Director Eytan Fox
Eytan Fox (Yossi and Jagger, Walk on Water, Song of the Sirens) is back with an intense drama about progressive minded twenty-somethings from Tel-Aviv who party and protest until the realities of the Arab-Israeli conflict hit home. The film hones in on the sexually and emotionally charged relationship between Noam, an Israeli on reserve duty, and the equally handsome and intense Palestinian Ashraf. Following their introduction at a West Bank security checkpoint, the two embark on a love affair headed for a tragic outcome.
Facilitator: Rabbi Yoel Kahn, Congregation Beth El

Date: Sunday, Jan. 13
Time: 7pm
Place: East Bay JCC, 1414 Walnut St., Berkeley
FREE
Co-presented by Jewish Community Federation of the Greater East Bay's Israel Center, Congregation Beth El and the Jewish Community Foundation

JCC On Ice
THE FIRST ANNUAL SKATE-FEST!
Come see for yourself the magical transformation of downtown Walnut Creek's Civic Park into a twinkling winter wonderland. Join friends and family for an afternoon of skating fun, hot chocolate and treats. Open to all ages.

Date: Sunday, January 13
Time: 3:00-5:00 PM (weather permitting)
Place: Civic Park, 1375 Civic Dr., the corner of Broadway and Civic in Walnut Creek
Admission & Skate Rental : $15 per skater includes skate rental; please pay at the door
Please RSVP to tanya@jfed.org 925-943-5238 by January 8
Tzedakah in action:
Please bring a can of food to donate to the Food Bank of Contra Costa and Solano.

Jewish Things to do on Christmas

2007-12-17T13:20:00.000-08:00

There have been a few questions about what can a person do on Christmas Eve or Day if they don't "do Christmas"? I'm going to list some community events here for you to consider.

Additionally, there is time to invite other Jewish friends over for a day of games, music and good food.

Jewish Music On Television
Kitka & Davka in Concert
The film Kitka and Davka in Concert: Old and New World Jewish Music returns to the Bay Area on public television this December. Produced by Forest Creatures Entertainment in association with KEET, KTOP, Searchlight Educational Media and the Jewish Music Festival, the production has been aired on more than forty PBS television stations to date, bringing this sold-out Jewish Music Festival concert to countless viewers throughout the United States.
The concert was filmed in Temple Sinai's Sanctuary, and is an attractively composed presentation of old and new Jewish music. While the production is obviously lifted by the power and depth of the music, it's the skill of the filmmaker and production team that brings the experience to life. The DVD is on sale now at www.forestcreatures.com
Dates and Times:
KRCB, Monday, December 17, 9:00pm
KQED, Sunday, December 23, 12:30pm

Sing-along Fiddler on the Roof
And Kosher Chinese Dinner
Oy vey – what should we do on Christmas Eve?
Planning to spend the holidays eating Chinese food and watching a movie? So are we! Please join the B’nai Shalom community for our first annual sing-along.
OPEN TO ALL – members, non-members, all ages welcome
Sing along with Tevye and the rest of the shtetl as we screen one of the most enduring and endearing movie musicals of all time. We supply the lyrics, you supply the fun – musical talent optional!

Date: Monday, December 24
Time: Dinner at 5:00pm
Movie at 6:15pm
Place: B’nai Shalom, 74 Eckley Lane, Walnut Creek
Cost: $18 per person includes dinner, popcorn and dessert – a bargain!
RSVP to the B’nai Shalom office as soon as possible :
office@bshalom.org or call 925-934-9446

Latke Ball
Hundreds of Bay Area Jews dancing the night away on Christmas Eve.
This event is for young Jews – all the Young Adult programs are taking their members.

Date: Monday, Dec. 24
Time: 9pm to 2am Dec. 25
Place: Ruby Skye, San Francisco

YLD in the East Bay (Young Leadership Division - Jews age 21 to 40ish) is chartering a party bus to and from the Latke Ball.
$40 includes your discounted ticket, transportation to and from Oakland, and wine and snacks on the bus. Space is limited. To purchase discount tickets and be part of our YLD party bus - email us at: youngleadership@jfed.org.

There will also be a party bus to the Latke Ball from Silicon Valley. Stops will be made in Los Gatos, Palo Alto, and Foster City. For more information, contact SVYAD Director Jonathan Berg at svyad@jvalley.org

The Meshugenah Comeday Tour
at Beth Emek
What is more fun than the traditional Chinese food dinner on Dec 24?
Bring your friends & family for a catered Chinese food dinner followed by four hilarious meshugenah (crazy) Jewish comedians.
This is a family friendly show youth 8 & up are welcome; It's at the parents discretion about bringing the kids - It's a comedy show consider how long your kids can sit and enjoy the show.

Date: Monday, Dec. 24
Time: 5:45pm - 9:15pm
Place: Beth Emek, 3400 Nevada Court, 3400 Nevada Court, Pleasanton
Catering by Canton Village, Dinner & Comedy admission prices:
$25 per adult
$20 per senior 65 + up
$10 per 12 & under
Pay at the door - reservations required
For more information contact: Sharon Cohen 925-931-1055 x11

Family Fun at the JCC
The SF JCC is open all day on Dec. 25. Go to their website, www.jccsf.org and decide what you’d like to do.

Date: Dec. 25
Time: looks to be 9am to 9pm
Place: San Francisco JCC, 3200 California St., San Francisco
call 415-292-1200.

Free Family Day on Christmas
Bring the entire family to the Contemporary Jewish Museum’s annual Family Day! Celebrate the building of the new Contemporary Jewish Museum with a day of creativity, family and fun. Roll up your sleeves to construct a take-home art project, nosh on tasty snacks and enjoy two exciting performers. Sing and dance with musician Jonathan Bayer at 12:00 and 2:00 PM and help story-teller Michael Katz tell amazing tales at 1:00 PM.

Date: Tu., Dec. 25
Time: 11am to 3pm
Place: RayKo Photo Center, 428 Third St., (Between Harrison and Bryant Streets), San Francisco
FREE
Please call 415-344-8836 or email jokmin@thecjm.org for more information. Visit the Museum online at www.thecjm.org
Sponsored by the Contemporary Jewish Museum

Yiddish Folk Festival
Come join us for this fantastic event - fun for grandma, grandpa and the kids.
Featuring:
* Yiddish Food
* Yiddish Sing-a-longs
* Yiddish Dancing, with personalized lessons
* Yiddish Kibbitzing (instruction provided-if you need it!)
* Live music by TheKlezCalifornia All-Star Band led by Gerry Tenney
Program by: KlezCalifornia

Date: Tuesday, December 25
Time: 2-5pm
Place: Netivot Shalom, 1316 University Ave. Berkeley
Cost: $25 adult, $12 child
Contact Robin Braverman at (925) 979-1998 or rivkah48@sbcglobal.net for advance sales at discounted rates.
Co-sponsored by Congregation Netivot Shalom, Congregation Beth El, Jewish Community Center of the East Bay, Aquarian Minyan, Kehilla Community Synagogue and Chochmat HaLev

Listen to Local Community
Afikomen hosts Café ‘Komen on designated Sundays to present informal lectures on seasonal topics to increase your knowledge of, and appreciation for, Judaism's vibrant ritual life. Music and storytelling events are also presented. While there is no charge, donations are appreciated.

Date: Dec 25th - "Listen to Local" Community Celebration & Sale
Time: 11am to 6pm
11:00 - Children's music with Melita Silverstein
1:00 - Storytelling for all ages with Joel Ben Izzy
2:15 - Mizrachi music with John Erlich of Za-atar & friends
4:00 - Readings by local poets: Rebecca Fromer Camhi, Jenny Overman, Judith Goldhaber and others.
Place: Afikomen, 3042 Claremont Avenue, Berkeley
For more information all 510-655-1977.

Chopshticks
“Chopshticks" is an annual local tradition of great Comedy and gourmet Chinese Food. It's a yearly sell-out and tickets must be purchased in advance. In fact, 2006 sold out so quickly, a second night has been added this year. Why spend the holidays alone when you can spend it laughing out loud with other Jews?
This year's program features a cross-country, comedy triple threat: two fast-rising comics from the East Coast who are garnering great reviews and big laughs: Lenny Marcus and Brad Zimmerman, and exciting Bay Area newcomer Mo Mandel.
Attendees will enjoy a gourmet vegetarian (and fish) dinner at Mings, a beautiful Chinese restaurant in Palo Alto noted for its fine dining and upscale atmosphere. The multi-course meal includes a cocktail hour for the first hour.

Dates: Monday Dec. 24th at 7 pm
Tuesday Dec. 25th at 6 pm
Place: Palo Alto JCC, 1700 Embarcadero Rd., Palo Alto
Cost: Tickets are $70 per person or $700 for a table for ten.
Information: 650-493-9400
www.paloaltojcc.org

Young Adult: Meet and Greet / Chinese Food
This month's Young Adult Meet & Greet will coincide with an annual Jewish tradition: Chinese food on Christmas. While other folks will deck the halls and fa la la we'll enjoy a vegetarian meal at Mandarin Gourmet. It'll be just the thing to help you recover from the Latke Ball the night before.

Date: Tuesday December 25, 2007
Time: 7:00pm
Place: Mandarin Gourmet, 10145 N. De Anza Blvd., Cupertino
RSVP IF YOU WANT US TO SAVE YOU A SEAT!!
RSVP by emailing Aleeza at cbdyag[at]gmail.com
Contact: Michael Goldberger at Beth David (sponsoring synagogue) goldberger@beth-david.org
Cost: Pay for dinner there, dinner will be around $20/person
http://cbdyag.wordpress.com/

Which Comes First, the Parent or the Child?

2007-12-11T18:11:00.000-08:00

Being an interfaith couple becomes most challenging when children arrive. What could be compromised as a couple cannot always be balanced in a child. Parents can feel torn between doing they see as best for their child and doing what they see as best for themselves and their relationship.

Where to begin?

Every time you take a plane flight the airplane staff demonstrates the safety measures. In the event of loss of air, oxygen masks will be released. The safety instructions always state: Place the oxygen mask over your own face before assisting others. The video shows a masked adult placing a second mask on a child. Why? Because if you are incapacitated, you’ll be useless to your child. The same is true for a parent torn by the myriad of issues in a family with two religious traditions. Before you can calmly and thoughtfully give your child a religious path, you must clarify your own. You have to determine what you personally need, and what you need as a couple. From there you can begin to unravel what you want to give your child. What should you do with your child in the meantime? I suggest nothing. Having no religious practice won’t kill them, it won’t even make them immoral. Focus on yourself without constantly tying your own identity back to your child.

Will this render things completely easy and painless? No. You will still have to ask yourself questions like:

My partner has a clear and singular religious identity and so do I. Do we want to give that to our child?

Is one or both of us willing to sacrifice part of our own happiness in order to give our child something that we find so precious that it’s feels impossible to give up?

Do I want my child to have a sense of acceptance and belonging in a religious/ethnic group?

If one or both of you are lukewarm about religion the process will be easier. But if both of you have strong feelings about your respective faiths your children will intuitively know that. You’ll have to make an effort NOT to create a subtle battlefield for your child’s allegiance. No matter what you decide for your child, that child will know that you have different perspectives and it will matter to them. Children like homogeneousness. They crave harmony among those they love. I recently read an amazing essay by a fifteen year old about his memories of trying to bring together his two best friends when he was ten. How much more so does a child want his parents to present a unified front.

Now don’t despair or beat yourself up if you aren’t already there. Life is a series of efforts, many end in failure. Do you know how many attempts it took Edison to invent the light bulb? Hundreds. We’ll get there. It just takes a bit of effort and a lot of tenacity. A great way to start is to take a couples discussion group. Call me if you’d like to think about doing that.
510-839-2900 x347 or 925-943-1484

Celebrating with Bechol LaShon

2007-12-09T16:07:00.000-08:00

Karen Erlichman emailed me this picture of her Chanukah celebration with Bechol LaShon, the bay area program that supports Jews of multiracial backgrounds. This is last year's candle lighting.

You can find them at this website:
http://www.jewishresearch.org/BeChol_Lashon.htm
Their offices are located in San Francisco.

Make Latkes this Weekend

2007-12-07T10:56:00.000-08:00

(picture from my friend, Linda.)

Last night my son got home at 11pm and asked, “Why aren’t we eating latkes?” I didn’t bother to answer that question; he’s seventeen now and says such things. But let’s face it, coming home on a weekday night and whipping up latkes is not so easy. The weekend is the time to fill the house with the smell of cooking oil and fried foods! Looking for a recipe? I found this recipe in the Temple Beth Abraham bulletin, The Omer. Faith Kramer, of TBA, not only gives a nice recipe, she dispenses advise, like “wear the right clothes” oil will be splattered. Additionally, Faith says that Beth Abraham has just published a cookbook titled, Everyday to Holidays: Favorite Recipes of Temple Beth Abraham. It sells for $25 and is available at their gift shop. See the description on their website (go to www.tbaoakland.org and scroll down). I plan to go by the office and get one if only for the lunch box ideas.

Here’s Faith’s Potato Latkes recipe as a teaser.

2 ½ pounds of baking potatoes
1 large or 2 small onions
3 large eggs, lightly beaten
1 tsp. salt
1/8 tsp. Pepper
about 1/4 cup matzoh cake meal, or 2 - 3 Tbsps flour
vegetable oil
Peel the potatoes if you prefer. Shred or grate the potatoes with the onions. Larger shreds will produce lacier latkes with rougher edges. Fine shred or grated potatoes produce more “pancake” like latkes. Squeeze out excess moisture from the mixture. Mix in eggs, seasoning, and matzoh meal or flour. Let sit for 5 minutes to let the mixture absorb the meal or flour. Add more meal or flour if it is still too wet.
In a very large skillet over medium high heat, heat the oil that is about 1/4 inch deep until it is very hot. The batter should sizzle and bubble when dropped in the oil. Spoon the latke mix into the oil or press the batter into a large serving spoon and carefully slide it off the spoon into the oil. Do not over-crowd the latkes in the pan. Fry until browned on both sides and crisp on the edges. Drain on paper towels or brown paper bags.
This recipe makes about 30 three inch potato pancakes. Serves 6 to 8.

My husband is the latke maker in our family and he likes to use the recipe in a cookbook I got as a wedding present from my mother, Love and Knishes. I’ll include that too.

Potato Latkes
2 cups grated raw potatoes (measure after draining)
2 eggs, beaten
1 tsp. salt
1 heaping tbsp. flour or matzo meal
pinch baking powder
1 small onion, grated

Combine all ingredients. Mix well. Drop pancake mixture by the tablespoonful onto a hot skillet. Fry on both sides until brown. Serve piping hot with sour cream and applesauce.
(Mrs. Slobodkin, the author of Love and Knishes, apparently fried her latkes in butter! My husband uses vegetable oil. Apparently Mrs. Slobodkin keep kosher because she suggests serving her buttery latkes with pot roast. Mrs. Slobdkin’s cookbook was first published in 1956, the copy my mother gave me was in it’s tenth printing!)
The book is still available but not with the very 50s cover it used to have.
http://keplers.booksense.com/NASApp/store/Product?s=showproduct&isbn=9781570900761
Remember: buy local.

Chanukah Blessing
I have also been asked for the transliteration of the Chanukah candle blessing. Here it is. You can also say the blessing in English - luckily God speaks English!

Baruch ata Adonai, Eloheinu Melech haolam. Asher kidshanu b'mitvotav vitzi vanu le-chadlich ner shel chanukah.

Blessed are you Lord our God, King of the Universe who has sanctified us with His commandments, and commanded us to kindle the light of Chanukah.

Remember that Hebrew is a gendered language, like Spanish and French. You don’t have to use masculine gender. You can change to feminine pronouns or make it neutral. Go ahead and experiment with it.

Blessed are you Spirit of the Universe who makes us holy with your commandments and commands us to kindle the candles of Chanukah.

Happy Chanukah!

Chanukah in Full Swing

2007-12-06T07:25:00.000-08:00

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Tuesday was the first candle and tonight will be our third. The recurring question I’ve heard is “how can we cut back on the materialism?” At this point you have the season in full swing and probably many gifts purchased and/or received. It’s still not to late to give you and yours some great memories that have nothing to do with “stuff.”

TONIGHT how about lighting the chanukiah, letting the kids open one present and then break out the board games. A dear friend gave me a domino set for my birthday. I’d never played dominos before. It’s a simple game, engages your mind just enough to have fun but not so much that you can’t talk through the game. Pop some corn or make some cookies. Then clear the kitchen table and pull out some games. My grandmother used to play Solitaire with us – yes the kind with cards! I can’t see a deck of cards and not think about my Grandma Teri and see her laughing so hard that tears ran down her cheeks. Give yourself and your kids some memories. Chances are they won’t remember the gift they open tonight, but they will remember your face over the board of Monopoly or Life or four-way Solitaire!

Temple Isaiah made these suggestions to their congregants:

8 Things to do to Brighten Your Chanukah Celebration:
1. Each night, dedicate a candle to a special value: peace, patience, love, tzedakah, environmental protection, justice, study/Torah, generosity, hospitality, etc. Talk about ways to make that value come alive in your family- ways to bring light to the darkness.
2. Instead of giving gifts one night, go out and buy a gift for a child attending Winter Nights. Bring the unwrapped gift to "got Shabbat?" on Friday.
3. Make decorations or a new Chanukiayah for your home and save them from year to year.
4. In celebration of the Festival of Lights, install a compact fluorescent lightbulb (CFL) each night of Chanukah.
5. Choose a Chanukah Mitzvah and do it as a family: serve in a soup kitchen; collect food and/or warm clothes for the needy; write to congresspeople about Darfur, etc.
6. In addition to gifts, give "blessings" to one another: "May God bless us always with as much happiness and love as we feel at this moment..."
7. Invite over another family to make Latkas, sing songs and make up a new Chanukah story with paper bag dramatics.
8. Come to "got Shabbat? Chanukah edition" on Friday night, the latka dinners and Rick Recht Concert on Saturday. See the Temple Isaiah website for details (www.temple-isaiah.org)*

Let's go to the (Jewish) Movies!

2007-12-05T15:04:00.000-08:00

Learning by watching can be a lot of fun. Why not learn while watching a movie?

I got my rabbinic student friend to turn away from the homework for a bit to give me a list of movies.

Movies for learning about Judaism

Judaism is not just a religion. It is a culture, an ethnicity, a civilization. Each of the movies on this list examines something about the Jewish experience.

Jewish Cultural Landmarks (you really should see them)
Fiddler on the Roof (1971)
Schindler's List (1993)
The Jazz Singer (1927)
Yentl (1983)
The Diary of Anne Frank (1959)
Cabaret (1972)
Exodus (1960)

Jewish History, Jewish Culture (fairly reliable)
Chariots of Fire (1981)
Schindler's List (1993)
The Diary of Anne Frank (1959)
Exodus (1960)
Driving Miss Daisy (1989)

Pictures of the American Jewish Scene
Crimes and Misdemeanors (1989)
Driving Miss Daisy (1989)
Bugsy (1991)
Crossing Delancey (1988)
Gentleman's Agreement (1947)
The Chosen (1981)
Biloxi Blues (1988)
The Jolson Story (1946)
Paper Clips (2004)
Harry and Tonto
Life is Beautiful
The Frisco Kid (1979)
Trembling Before God (2001)
Bee Season (2005)
Enemies, A Love Story (1989)

Israel
Ushpizin (2005)

Jewish Folklore, Jewish Tales
The Golem (1920)
Ben-Hur (1959)
An American Tail (1986)

Holocaust
Schindler's List (1993)
The Diary of Anne Frank (1959)
Cabaret (1972)
The Pianist (2002)

World Jewry
Mad Adventures of Rabbi Jacob (1974)
Raid on Entebbe (1971)

Good for Discussion – Not Necessarily Kosher Info
Annie Hall (1977)
Funny Girl (1968)
Dirty Dancing (1987)
The Big Lebowski (1997)
Goodbye, Columbus (1969)
Pi (1998)