Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Chanukah begins next week

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Chanukah will be here in a mere week. The first night is December 4. Light your first candle on Tuesday night.










Chanukah in the Headlights!
Here’s an email I got from Julie on this list:
I used to have a great list of Hanukkah activities to do with the kids, and I can’t seem to find it this year. We always like to do special activities with the kids each day of Hanukkah in lieu of gifts, especially since Christmas is so centered around gifts; it makes Hanukkah special and unique.
So, are some ideas that I’ve come up with, in no particular order: (this obviously all in addition to lighting the candles on the menorah each night!)
1. baking and decorating Hanukkah-shaped sugar cookies for our neighbors
2. delivering the cookies to our neighbors
3. going out to doughnuts for breakfast (we NEVER let the kids have them, so it’s a real treat!)
4. watching a Hanukkah movie (something on PBS, usually)
5. playing the dreidel game
6. singing Hanukkah songs (actually, making up our own)
7. art activities (Hanukkah themed coloring pages, stickers, etc.)
8. making and eating latkes
I would love to hear any other ideas you may have.


What else can you do? Let’s revisit some of suggestions from previous years.
Try some of these or make up your own and share them with us.

reading night - everyone who can read, reads aloud to the family/gathering
grandparents night - invite over someone old enough to be a grandparent and enjoy their stories
baking night - make cookies and decorate them, give some away, eat the rest
music night sing, play instruments, those who can’t sing - dance
theater night - go out to one of the many plays being performed (or ballet or concert)
crafts night - get a book on crafts or search the internet. Make paper boxes or decorations, use Femo to make ornaments or a menorah
performance night - give the kids old clothes and let them make up a play and put it on for you (as a child, our plays ran towards a western theme - cowboys and salon girls, and we cross dressed to get the role of our choice)
friends night - invite over your best friends and talk late into night
fireplace night - make a fire and toast marshmallows
games night - play all the games you know - board games, interactive games like charades
love night - everyone writes letters or cards (you can make them too) and sends them to five people they love

How about a “stuff-free holiday”?
I found an interesting website that advocted for less stuff and more pleasure. Take a look.

http://www.grist.org/feature/2007/11/20/stuff-free/?source=most_popular



EVENTS
Exploring the Sikh Religion (San Francisco)
Saturday Night at the Movies (Saratoga)
Hanukkah Sale (Oakland)
Jews, Christians and Muslims in Conversation (San Francisco)
Reenergizing Chanukah (Lafayette)
Hanukkah Treats (San Francisco)
Shabbat, Hanukkah Services and Dinner (San Leandro)
Chanukah Shabbat (San Francisco)
Family Service and Hanukkah Dinner (Oakland)
Chanukah Shabbat (Lafayette)
Got Shabbat? (San Francisco)
Hanukkah Party (Berkeley)
Family Chanukah Party (Livermore)
Annual Latkepalooza! Hanukkah Celebration (Foster City)
Chanukah Fun for the Whole Family (San Francisco)
Putting The Ha! In Hanukkah (San Francisco)
Family Shabbat and Pizza Night (San Ramon)
A Concert Starring YOU! (Piedmont)
The Latke Ball (San Francisco)
An Introduction to Jewish Texts, Holidays, and Lifecycle (San Mateo)
Pajama Party (Los Gatos)







Exploring the Sikh Religion
Discussions with Bay Area Religious Leaders
Gurbux Kahlon, Lay Leader, El Sobrante Sikh Temple
Optional, come at 6:30 pm. Bring a brown bag dinner and we will supply drinks and cookies.
No charge.

Date: Wednesday, Nov. 28
Time: 7:00 - 8:45 pm
Place: 5th floor classroom, Emanu-el, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
For more information, please contact Frana Price at (415) 751-2541 x151 or fprice@emanuelsf.org .



Saturday Night at the Movies
Join us for Havdallah by viewing the infectious road movie “Yippee! A Jewish Journey of Joy” which chronicles director Paul Mazursky’s journey to Uman, a Ukrainian town where 25,000 (mostly Hassidic) Jews make annual pilgrimages to the burial place of Rabbi Nachman.

Date: Sat., Dec. 1
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Congregation Beth David, 19700 Prospect Rd., Saratoga
for more information call 408-257-3333.



Hanukkah Sale
Fabulous collection of menorahs, dreidels, gelt, candles, books, cards, toys, gift warp, mezuzahs and much more! Come see.

Date: Dec. 2
Time: 9am to 1pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St. Oakland
for more info call 510-451-3263.


Jews, Christians and Muslims in Conversation
Giving for Goodness Sake
Concept of Charity in Abrahamic Tradition
Part of an ongoing series with reflections by Rabbi Doug Kahn, Executive Director of the Jewish Community Relations Council and leaders from the Christian and Muslim communities followed by group discussion.

Date: Sunday, Dec. 2
Time: 5 to 8pm
Place: St. Mary's Cathedral, Gough and Geary, San Francisco
Cost: $20 includes a vegetarian dinner; advance reservations requested by (415) 794-1516 or interfaith@baycc.org
Sponsored by the Bay Area Cultural Connections, Interfaith Center at the Presidio, Islamic Society of San Francisco, Jewish Community Relations Council, San Francisco Interfaith Council, United Muslims of America and the United Religions Initiative.


Reenergizing Chanukah
Join Rabbi Forrest and the Outreach Committee for a discussion on how to move your Chanukah celebrations beyond the gifts and glitter. We will focus on the history, traditions and meaning of this festival of lights.

Date: Sunday, December 2
Time: 9:15 - 10:15am
Place: Temple Isaiah, 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd, Lafayette
For more information call the synagogue at 925-283-7585



Hanukkah Treats

Learn how to make delicious treats in time for your family’s holiday celebration. On the menu are do-ahead latkes with applesauce, tropical fruit salsa, wild mushroom and winter greens soup and Judith’s Cheesecake! All recipes can be prepared quickly and easily, giving you time to enjoy this winter festival with your friends and family. Fill your home with the wonderful smells of the holiday season!

Date: Monday, Dec. 3
Time: 6:30 to 9:30pm
Place: SF JCC, 3200 California St., San Francisco
Cost: $50/non-members, $45/members of the SF JCC
For more information call 415-292-1200 or go to the website www.jccsf.org



Shabbat, Hanukkah Services and Dinner
Please remember that we will be lighting the Hanukkah candles on the roof at 6pm, and services start at 6:30pm. Don’t forget to bring your own menorah for your table to light! It is a wonderful sight to see in Zucker Hall, all the lights dancing!
Please call the office to RSVP at 510-357-8505, for the dinner so we know how many to plan for.
This way we will be sure there will be enough.

Date: Friday, Dec. 7
Time: 6pm
Place: Beth Sholom, 642 Dolores Ave., San Leandro
Cost: $10 adults, $5 kids, 5 and under free.
RSVP by calling the synagogue at 510-357-8505.



Chanukah Shabbat
Celebrate Chanukah With Us!
Klezmer music provided during and after dinner by Marguerite Ostro and Kugelplex!
Dancing led by Bruce Bierman, our Religious School Dance Instructor!
Great Chanukah Dreidle playoff with prizes for kids of all ages!

Date: Friday, December 7
Time: 6:00 p.m. Chanukah Shabbat Service
Bring your chanukiah (menorah) for our communal 4th night candlelighting, we provide the candles
7:15 p.m. Delicious Latke Dinner catered by Townsend Restaurant
Place: Sherith Israel, 2266 California St., San Francisco
Cost: $24 Members, $36 Non-members, $10 Children over 5 years old, children under 5 free
Please RSVP and send a check payable to Sherith Israel by Tuesday, December 4 to:
Christina Olague
Sherith Israel
2266 California Street
San Francisco, CA 94115



Family Service and Hanukkah Dinner
Celebrate Hanukkah with the Temple Sinai community! A brief and joyous holiday service plus candlelighting, wonderful singing, dreidle playing, art activities and much holiday ruach (spirit).
You bring your own dinner; plus family, friends and a festive mood. You bring your main meal, we provide latkes, donuts, coffee and tea and plates and utensils. So remember to reserve space by Dec. 3.

Date: Friday, Dec. 7
Time: 6:30pm
Place: Temple Sinai, 2808 Summit St., Oakland
To Reserve your space all LaTrell at 510-451-0313.








Chanukah Shabbat

Join the members of Temple Isaiah for a rousing service with the KlezTones!

Date: Friday, Dec. 7
Time: 6:30pm
Place: Temple Isaiah, 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette
www.temple-isaiah.org



Got Shabbat?
Join us for a Shabbat morning experience at Temple Emanu-El.
Families with children of all ages are welcome!
We will meet on the 2nd Saturday morning of each month. Starting at 10:45 am, your family will enjoy a short service, arts-n-crafts, music with Jonathan Bayer...and of course, a nosh!

Date: Saturday, Dec. 8
Time: 10:45am
Place: Emanu-El, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
Mark your calendars for Got Shabbat: Jan. 12, Feb. 9, Mar. 8, Apr. 12, May 10, June 14.
For more information call the synagogue at 415-751-3525.



Hanukkah Party
Come celebrate Hanukkah with us! The fair features community candle lighting, holiday storytelling, live entertainment by Gary Lapow and Ira Levin, arts and crafts booths to make presents for the holiday... and of course, lots of latkes! Admission is free to this fun-packed community Hanukkah fair, so bring your friends and family.

Date: Sunday, December 9
Time: 12pm-4pm
Place: JCC East Bay, 1414 Walnut Street, Berkeley
ADMISSION FREE (latkes and drinks for sale)
For more information call the JCC at 510-848-0237
www.jcceastbay.org



Family Chanukah Party

We'll cook latkes, play games and light candles. Bring a potato and a donation of boxed or canned food for the Alameda County Food Bank.

Date: Sunday, December 9
Time: 10:30 to 12:30pm
Place: Bothwell Center, 2466 Eighth St. in Livermore
Cost: Free to members, $10/household for non-members.
For information, reservations and directions, call (925) 485-1049 or e-mail CulturalJews@aol.com.



Annual Latkepalooza! Hanukkah Celebration
Join the fun and don't miss the North Peninsula's annual community wide Hanukkah celebration! Please remember to stop by JCF's resource area to decorate Hanukkah cards! All cards and wishes will be given to Jewish Family and Children's Services and distributed around the local senior community. The PJCC has a wonderful line up of entertainment this year including: jazz-world-music Israeli band, Seeds of Sun, entertainment for children, a wine and cheese reception with artist Chanan Getraide and of course, lots of latkes! A communal candle-lighting will mark the sixth night of Hanukkah.

Date: Sunday, December 9
Time: 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.
Place: Peninsula JCC, 800 Foster City Blvd., Foster City
Admission: Free!
Contact: North Peninsula Region, 650.349.1523, northpen@sfjcf.org
Sponsored by: Peninsula Jewish Community Center, Women's Alliance.



Chanukah Fun for the Whole Family
"Michael Katz launched into his first tale, silence reigned, Katz is a versatile performer and wonderful storyteller." -- Los Angeles Times
Bring the whole family to hear stories by Isaac Bashevis Singer, Rabbi Nachman of Bratzlav, and other favorites. Storyteller Michael Katz tells stories with his own highly energetic, animated and interactive style of storytelling. Michael's incredible character voices, inventive movements and rubberlike, expressive face captivates people of all ages; he has a way of creating a magical relationship between the audience and performer. His performances awaken the audience to the richness of a story, weaving together both the comic and the profound.

Date: Sun. Dec. 9
Times: Two shows only at1pm and 3:30pm
Place: A Traveling Jewish Theater, 470 Florida St., San Francisco
Cost: $18 general $10 kids
email: tickets@atjt.com



Putting The Ha! In Hanukkah
The acclaimed music duo Good For the Jews bring their tour to San Francisco with a night of irreverent music and comedy at the Great American Music Hall on the ninth night of Hanukkah. All faiths are welcome! Special guest opening act is comic Nato Green.
The Good For the Jews tour is being sponsored by Heeb magazine. Heeb recently named Good For the Jews singer Rob Tannenbaum to the Heeb 100, an elite list of "young, smart and innovative" Jews in the arts.

Date: Wed., December 12
Time: 7pm doors open, 8pm show
Place: The Great American Music Hall, 859 O'Farrell St., San Francisco
Cost: $20 (go to the website - they don’t take phone orders)
www.musichallsf.org



Family Shabbat and Pizza Night
A Secular Humanistic get-together for families with young kids. We sing a couple of songs, light candles and order in pizza. The kids play, the adults schmooze, and everyone is home in time for bed.

Date: Friday, December 14
Time: 6 p.m.
Place: San Ramon. (It's a private home, call for details.)
Cost: $6/adult, kids free.
For information, reservations and directions, call (925) 485-1049 or e-mail CulturalJews@aol.com.



A Concert Starring YOU!
This concert is the culmination of Linda's singing workshops held over the last five weeks, as Linda and singing friends from our community have built to an exhilarating, inspiring performance. The songs will be a musical tapestry that celebrates the uncommon and common events of life sung in English, Hebrew, Yiddish and Ladino. They will include songs of freedom, peace and healing.

Date: Saturday, December 15
Time: 7:00pm.
Place: Kehilla, 1300 Grand Ave., Piedmont
Tickets: $10 in advance, $15 at the door.
To purchase concert tickets in advance, send check payable to Kehilla to the Kehilla office, 1300 Grand Ave., Piedmont, CA 94610, and write “Concert Starring You” in the memo line.
For more information call the Beth Sholom office, at 510-357-8505.



The Latke Ball

The original and- best annual party for Jewish young adults in the Bay Area! Over a thousand people enjoy amazing DJs and live entertainment and party until 2:00 a.m. We will be hosting a Ben-Gurion Society VIP reception (9-10 pm) for individuals who contribute $1000 or more to the Annual Campaign. Tickets for the Latke Ball are $25 online or $35 at the door.

Date: Monday, December 24 - Tuesday, December 25
Time: 9pm to 2am
Place: Ruby Skye, 420 Mason St, San Francisco
Sponsored by: Young Adults Division, JCF
Contact: YAD, 415.512.6280, yad@sfjcf.org


An Introduction to Jewish Texts, Holidays, and Lifecycle
Back to Basics
Join us as we explore the sea of Jewish texts, the yearly cycle of Jewish time and celebration, and the significant moments of passage in our own lives. This is a great opportunity to keep up with our students, to ask questions, and to become knowledgeable about basic Jewish concepts and practices.
Taught by Rabbis Dennis Eisner & Karen Citrin

Date: Sundays, January 6, 13, 27, February 3, 10, 24 and March 2, 2007
Time: 9:30 – 11:00 am
Place: in the Library at Peninsula Temple Beth El, 1700 Alameda de las Pulgas, San Mateo
Cost: $18, includes the text Living Judaism: The Complete Guide to Jewish Belief, Tradition and Practice.
For more info call 650 341 7701, website: www.ptbe.org



Pajama Party
Kids in second grade and under, along with their grownups, are invited to join Linda “Rainbow” Levine for these special events. Come in Pjs and be home by bedtime!

Dates: Jan. 26 and March 8
Time: 6:30 to 8pm
Place: Shir Hadash, 20 Cherry Blossom Ln., Los Gatos
Cost: $10/family per evening
for mor info or to rsvp contact Shanda at shanda@shirhadash.org



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Dawn C. Kepler, Director
Building Jewish Bridges: Outreach to Interfaith Couples
300 Grand Ave.
Oakland, CA 94610
(510) 839-2900 x347 or (925) 943-1484
www.jfed.org/bjb

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Holiday Nostalgia is a Good Thing

Nov. 20, 2007

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

I wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving - plenty of good company, talks with beloved friends, games with the kids and reunions with folks from far away.


Some Nostalgia... and Where it can Lead
It is with tremendous nostalgia that I tell you that it is time for Congregation Beth El’s Annual Chanukah Bazaar (details below). My eldest, Elly, is twenty one years old and before she was born my husband and I were members of Beth El and volunteered at the Bazaar. At the thought of the Bazaar, the years vanish and I can remember sitting on the folding chair making change as the people made their purchases. It was such fun. The food was good too. Find some place to volunteer. A bazaar in your own congregation, this is a good familiar place to start. There is also the food bank, Jewish Family & Children’s Services, shelters, and churches. It is such a joy to be part of a community of people all focused on doing good. That’s how I was raised and I bet, so were you.

My kids have made sandwiches and collected coats for shelters, sent money for seed and animals for people in other countries, collected books for children, done office work at Shalom Bayit. Weeded elderly people’s yards, painted shelters & homes. They learned by doing. So will yours. You and they will have sweet memories of feeling good about doing good.


Identity in America
There was an interesting article on Adoption in America in the New York Times. It doesn’t address religion at all, but it does talk about identity. It’s work reading.

Adoption and the American Family
Who Are you Known As?
http://relativechoices.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/11/13/who-are-you-also-known-as/?ex=1195707600&en=967fbc955cd45b60&ei=5070&emc=eta1



Volunteer for Chanukah Bag Deliveries
Spend some time doing mitzvot by delivering Chanukah bags, with family and friends, to isolated and lonely seniors in their own home or in residential facilities throughout the Peninsula. JFCS will do its best to match you by geography. Pick up your Chanukah bags at one of Jewish Family and Children’s Services locations: 200 Channing Ave. in Palo Alto or 2001 Winward Way in San Mateo. Deliver any time Nov. 29 through Dec. 5. For more information contact Bobbi Bornstein at (650)688-3090 or email Bobbib@jfcs.org .

Monday, November 19, 2007

Look for the Good

Dear Interfaith Families and Friends,

Find the good
A member of this list commented on the negative news she was reading about interfaith issues in the Jewish community in some of the national newsletters. Let me say to all of you what I said to her: Stop! Don’t read bad news. Don’t look for bad news. There are so many good people trying to bring about positive change. Be with the do-gooders; we’re better company. As Gandhi said: Be the change you want to see.

Here’s something good to warm your heart:
Rabbis, imams meet in New York
http://www.jta.org/cgi bin/iowa/breaking/105185.html



Christmas is coming
We are heading into the massive HOLIDAY SEASON. Some of you have got your process nailed. You know just where you’ll go, with whom and what you’ll do there. Others of you are not so sure. Feel free to call me and we can talk through the options you’re considering. The closer we get to the big day – and yes, I mean Christmas day – the more you need to let go of your agenda and be easy on each other. It may be that just doing the same thing you did last year - whatever that was - is easier than trying to create a brand new plan now. Christmas is very charged for many people – Jewish and Christian. Look for common ground. Look for things you can both enjoy - it could be just playing board games, going to the movies, eating an ice cream sundae.
And, as I said, just call me if you feel like it.
510-839-2900 x347
925-943-1484




EVENTS
Exploring Other Religions (San Francisco)
Tot Shabbat (San Mateo)
Zionism 101 (Los Altos)
Jerusalem: Past, Present and Future (Oakland)
Ten Questions for Rabbi Bridget (El Cerrito)
Shabbat Unplugged (Oakland)
The December Dilemma (San Francisco)
Free Workshop for Parents & Teens (San Rafael)
Finding God in the Heart of the Other: the Queerness of Interfaith Relationships (San Francisco)
To Tree or Not to Tree (Alameda)
Cantorial Concert (San Rafael)
Got Shabbat? Dinner and service (Lafayette)
Community Shabbat Dinner (San Mateo)
Kindergarten Information Night (Oakland)
The Chuppah and Beyond (San Francisco)
Interfaith Sex: Eroticism and our Queer Bodies (San Francisco)





Exploring Other Religions
Discussions with Bay Area Religious Leaders
Each week of this six-week Emanu-Elective, a different religious leader will come to us. They will enlighten the group on the basic beliefs, origins, observances, worship service, and ritual objects of their faith, and answer our questions.

Special guests for remaining weeks are:
November 14 - Kathy Kelley, Spiritual Assembly of Baha’i in San Francisco;
November 28 - Gurbux Kahlon, Lay Leader, El Sobrante Sikh Temple

Dates: Wednesdays, Nov. 14 and 28
Time: 7:00 – 8:45pm
Place: Emanuel, 2 Lake St., San Francisco, 5th floor classroom
Or come at 6:30 pm. Bring a brown bag dinner and we will supply drinks and cookies. No charge. For more information, please contact Frana Price at (415) 751-2541 x151 or fprice@emanuelsf.org.



Tot Shabbat
Celebrate Shabbat with the rabbis and the cantor. A morning service filled with songs and stories, an oneg Shabbat snack, and time on the playground! Tot Shabbat mets every third Saturday of the month, do come again!


Date: Saturday, Nov. 17
Time: 9am
Place: Peninsula Temple Beth El, 1700 Alameda de las Pulgas, San Mateo
For more information call 650-341-7701.


Zionism 101
with Rabbi Zweiback
It’s an idea powerful enough to give birth to a nation. It’s controversial. It’s always in the news. It means different things to different people. Discover what it means to you. Learn about the origins of the word “Zionism,” what it has come to mean, and what it might mean in the future. All in three engaging, participatory sessions—not a bad deal. No prior study of Zionism required or assumed.

Date: Sunday, Nov 18, Dec 2 & 9
Time: 9-11 am
Place: Congregation Beth Am, 26790 Arastradero Rd, Los Altos Hills
Synagogue office: 650-493-4661



Jerusalem: Past, Present and Future
Join Jerusalem-based journalist, Judy Lash Balint, as she weaves together the historical, cultural, and political elements of Judaism’s most important city. Ms. Balint’s experienced intellectual grasp of what this entails is excellent. She is the author of Jerusalem Diaries, Volumes I and II, has written extensively for The Jerusalem Report, The Seattle Times, and The Christian Science Monitor, and has appeared as a featured guest on CNN.


Date: Nov. 19
Time: 7:30pm
Place: Beth Jacob, 3778 Park Blvd., Oakland
A $10 donation is requested.
For more information call the syagogue at 510-482-1147.
Co-sponsored by Temple Sinai of Oakland.



Ten Questions for Rabbi Bridget
What have you always wanted to ask a rabbi?
What do you "not get" about Judaism and Jewish life?
Rabbi Bridget will answer the first ten questions submitted!
Join us Nov. 23 for dinner and the answers -- Come eat, laugh, and learn at our no-experience-necessary Shabbat dinner.

Date: Friday, Nov. 23
Time: 6:15pm (gather at 6:15, 6:30 - Candle lighting and dinner, 7:30 - Lively, interactive discussion with Rabbi Bridget, as she answers your ten questions
Place: JGate's cozy home near El Cerrito Plaza and BART station

Space is limited. RSVP required. Contact Rabbi Bridget Wynne at JGate, (510) 559-8140, or rabbibridget@jgate.org, with your question and your RSVP, and get directions and your food assignment for our potluck Shabbat dinner. If your schedule doesn't allow you to bring a dish to share, we'd like to offer you the option of contributing $7 towards the dinner instead. Childcare available.



Shabbat Unplugged
Enjoy an evening of acoustic and vocal davening (praying) with Rabbi Bloom and an assortment of talented congregant musicians. Ruach (spirit) is the order of the evening!

Date: Friday, Nov. 23
Time: 6:15pm
Place: Chapel at Temple Beth Abraham, 327 MacArthur Blvd., Oakland
Call for more information 510-832-0936



The December Dilemma
The December holidays present special challenges for interfaith and conversionary couples as well as for individuals who find their anxiety levels rising at this time of year. Join us for a lively workshop addressing some of these issues and demonstrating communications techniques that may be useful in resolving them.

Date: Tuesday, November 27
Time: 7 – 9pm
Place: Sherith Israel, Labe Lounge, 2266 California Street, San Francisco
For more information or to sign up, please contact Aviva Hicks at ahicks@sherithisrael.org or 415-346-1720 ext. 24.



Free Workshop for Parents & Teens
with Joanne Greene
Each two-hour session will include activities and discussion. Discussions will include topics such as “Parenting (Jewish) Teenagers,” “Adolescent Development,” “Our Changing Roles & Relationships,” “Improving Communication,” and “Friends, Culture and Risk Behavior.”

Registration is required; contact Claire@rodefsholom.org. There is a required book, “Please Stop the Roller Coaster!: How Parents of Teenagers can Smooth Out the Ride,” by Sue Blaney.

Dates: Tuesdays, November 27, and December 4
Time: 7 to 9pm
Place: JCC Library, 200 No. San Pedro Rd., San Rafael
For more information call 415-444-8000



Finding God in the Heart of the Other: the Queerness of Interfaith Relationships
led by Karen Lee Erlichman, MSS, LCSW
How do we experience ourselves and our partners as the Other, and how does that influence boundaries, identity and intimacy? In this workshop we will explore ways in which LGBTQ interfaith relationships offer possibilities and pathways for connecting more deeply to our spirituality, to God, and with each other.
(Part of the Workshop Series for Queer Interfaith Couples and their Friends)

Date: Nov. 28
Time: 7pm
Place: Sha’ar Zahav, 290 Dolores St., San Francisco
Call the synagogue for more information at 415-861-6932.



To Tree or Not to Tree

What Will You do for the Holidays?

You may want to decorate a Christmas tree while your partner wants to make latkes. What will work for you as a family? Whether December is your favorite month – full of Christmas cookies and chocolate gelt – or your most dreaded month – material surfeit – you are invited to join an open and supportive discussion on how to handle the December adventure.
Led by Dawn Kepler, Building Jewish Bridges

Date: Saturday, Dec. 1
Time: 7 to 8:30pm
Place: Temple Israel, 3183 Mecartney Rd., Alameda
Cost: $10/couple
For more information contact Dawn at 510-839-2900 x347 or dawn@jfed.org



Cantorial Concert
An afternoon of music that salutes the great Jewish composers of our age from Gershwin to Weil, followed by a festive reception. Featured artists include Cantor David Margules, Cantor Jennifer Frost of Chicago, Cantor Jonathan Grant of Newport Beach, CA, and Cantor Ida Rae Cahana of Portland, Oregon.

Date: Sunday, December 2
Time: 4 pm
Place: Rodef Sholom, 170 No. San Pedro Road, San Rafael
Please RSVP to Jerrine by November 21 at (415) 479-3441
Free of charge.



Got Shabbat?
Come for pizza dinner, songs, and a family-friendly service. We’ll dance at the oneg and then eat dessert! We’ll be having doughnuts for Chanukah!
(Please consider bringing an un-wrapped holiday gift for families who can’t afford gifts at the holiday season.)

Date: Friday, Dec. 7
Time: 6pm Pizza dinner, 6:30pm singing, services and dessert
Place: Temple Isaiah, 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette
Cost is $18 per family or $10 for an individual. Please send in your money to:
Temple Isaiah (Got Shabbat), 3800 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Lafayette, 94549
For more info call the synagogue at 925-283-8575.

If this is your first time and you feel confused, just as to speak to Michael. He will take care of you. You can tell him I told you to ask for him.



Community Shabbat Dinner
Join the members of Peninsula Temple Beth El, their friends and family for a delicious dinner. Held every month on the second Friday night, you are welcome to join this inter-generational dinner. December’s dinner will have the first graders participating in services.


Date: Friday, Dec. 8
Time: dinner at 5:30pm, and services at 6:15pm.
Place: Peninsula Temple Beth El, 1700 Alameda de las Pulgas, San Mateo
Cost: Adults are $5, children are $3. Please send an RSVP email to fstahl@templebethel.org or call 650-931-0775. RSVP by the preceding Tuesday!



Kindergarten Information Night
Oakland Hebrew Day School is holding a gathering for parents only.

Date: Wed., Jan 9
Time: 7 to 9pm
Place: Oakland Hebrew Day School, 5500 Redwood Rd., Oakland
For details call Melanie Marcus at 510-531-8600 x26 or email mmarcus@ohds.org



The Chuppah and Beyond
for Engaged and Newly-Married Couples Are you getting married? Are you recently married? Emanu-El presents "The Chuppah and Beyond," a six week series for engaged or newly married couples. We are providing you with a great opportunity to meet other couples and share Jewish traditions together. Facilitated by our Family Programs Coordinator, Leslie Ticktin, and our Congregation Emanu-El Clergy, these classes will help you enhance your communication, learn the principles of good financial planning, and develop the necessary skills to foster a long, happy, loving relationship. Join us as we help you plan your future together!

Dates: 6 sessions: Jan. 7, 14, 28, Feb. 4,11, 25.
Time: call for time
Place: Emanuel, 2 Lake St., San Francisco
The cost for the 6-week series is $36 for members and $48 for non-members. If you are interested in learning more, please send an email with your names, wedding date (if you have one), phone number and mailing address to Leslie Ticktin at lticktin@emanuelsf.org .



Interfaith Sex: Eroticism and our Queer Bodies
led by Karen Lee Erlichman, MSS, LCSW
How do we experience the Divine in our bodies and our sexuality in a queer interfaith relationship? What is interfaith sex? In this workshop we discuss how our respective religious, cultural and spiritual identities impact our body image, our erotic desire, and how we experience sexuality in interfaith LGBTQ relationships.
(Part of the Workshop Series for Queer Interfaith Couples and their Friends)

Date: Jan. 16, 2008
Time: 7pm
Place: Sha’ar Zahav, 290 Dolores St., San Francisco
Call the synagogue for more information at 415-861-6932.



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Dawn C. Kepler, Director
Building Jewish Bridges: Outreach to Interfaith Couples
300 Grand Ave.
Oakland, CA 94610
(510) 839-2900 x347 or (925) 943-1484
www.jfed.org/bjb